Quote: (09-25-2014 02:00 PM)MikeinMKE Wrote:
Quote: (09-25-2014 01:55 PM)blacknwhitespade Wrote:
So do you dump them/delete them from your cell phone after you get the bang on the 3rd-5th date? Artfully let it fizzle??
You guys sound pretty attractive, I haven't been online enough to get a good sample size yet.
I'm a white guy, early 30s, college-educated, good job/income (well, mechanical engineering, not sure if that's a pro/con?), good-looking with good photos. I'm 5'9" but have a narrow/tall-ish build, I've fudged my profile to 5'10" since several of the girls I've met obviously "overestimated" their own height.
I'll kind of delay my texts, seem more distant, see them one more time but maybe "not in the mood for sex" and then let them down via text or even a phone call. Maybe the mistake is I should drop them after date 2 or 3 so it doesn't get so difficult. But I enjoy having sex multiple times because the process of sliding a finger in their bum, maying banging them in my building's service elevator, etc is as fun to me as the initial time in my bedroom. I always feel bad though - they're good chicks who probably think I'm boyfriend material.
How old are these girls? 20s? 30s? I think you can just disappear after the 3rd date or so but if it goes beyond that, you've got to have the awkward discussion. I once did this with a girl towards the end of the 5th date, I thought it would be a little more dignified than doing it via phone. We actually sorta became friends and she invited me to her church.