[Giovonny]

First, get her drunk. This lowers her inhibitions and opens up her up for pleasure and fun.

Then, touch her playfully in a non sexual way. Grab her arm to get her attention. Touch your leg against hers and pretend its an accident. Better yet, put your leg close to her's so it will seem like she touched you first. Gently, touch her shoulder or forearm when you guys are laughing together. Playfully, tap or "slap" her on the leg when she disagrees with you. Grab her arm and give it a gentle squeeze when you agree on something.. These are just basic examples of playful non sexual touching.

The next step for me is "Soft stroking". (Gently and lightly running my fingers over her skin)

I often start with her hands, rubbing them and caressing them.

I "soft stoke" her wrists, forearms, upper arms and shoulders, taking my time before moving higher. I caress her collarbone and neckline, rub her back and run my hand across the back of her neck...

Finally, I put my nose on her ear and my face next to hers.. I run my lips over her neck and hair line..

I go for the make out, I rub her ass.

This is what has worked for me over the years.

[Sketness]

(09-15-2014 12:53 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

First, get her drunk. This lowers her inhibitions and opens up her up for pleasure and fun.

Then, touch her playfully in a non sexual way. Grab her arm to get her attention. Touch your leg against hers and pretend its an accident. Better yet, put your leg close to her's so it will seem like she touched you first. Gently, touch her shoulder or forearm when you guys are laughing together. Playfully, tap or "slap" her on the leg when she disagrees with you. Grab her arm and give it a gentle squeeze when you agree on something.. These are just basic examples of playful non sexual touching.

The next step for me is "Soft stroking". (Gently and lightly running my fingers over her skin)

I often start with her hands, rubbing them and caressing them.

I "soft stoke" her wrists, forearms, upper arms and shoulders, taking my time before moving higher. I caress her collarbone and neckline, rub her back and run my hand across the back of her neck...

Finally, I put my nose on her ear and my face next to hers.. I run my lips over her neck and hair line..

I go for the make out, I rub her ass.

This is what has worked for me over the years.

This is exactly what i've been missing from my arsenal.

A question

Does drinking need to be involved. I ask because a lot of the younger girls that i deal with ( mostly 18 and 19 year olds) are hesitate about drinking or arnt about it.

Do you still get the same effect while gaming sober?

[blacknwhitespade]

When on a date: Give brief, somewhat terse responses, make random observations of other objects in the atmosphere. Give her confident/deep eye contact intervals interupted by looking away during your musings. Then come back, give a deep look for a moment and give her a bold compliment about her hair, eyes or clothing.

[Giovonny]

(09-15-2014 05:33 PM)Sketness Wrote:  

Do you still get the same effect while gaming sober?

Generally speaking, yes.

Obviously, alcohol is great as a social lubricant. But, even while sober, playful touching, "soft stroking", caressing and rubbing them gently is a great way to get things going sexually.

[tboz]

(09-15-2014 12:53 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

First, get her drunk. This lowers her inhibitions and opens up her up for pleasure and fun.

Then, touch her playfully in a non sexual way. Grab her arm to get her attention. Touch your leg against hers and pretend its an accident. Better yet, put your leg close to her's so it will seem like she touched you first. Gently, touch her shoulder or forearm when you guys are laughing together. Playfully, tap or "slap" her on the leg when she disagrees with you. Grab her arm and give it a gentle squeeze when you agree on something.. These are just basic examples of playful non sexual touching.

The next step for me is "Soft stroking". (Gently and lightly running my fingers over her skin)

I often start with her hands, rubbing them and caressing them.

I "soft stoke" her wrists, forearms, upper arms and shoulders, taking my time before moving higher. I caress her collarbone and neckline, rub her back and run my hand across the back of her neck...

Finally, I put my nose on her ear and my face next to hers.. I run my lips over her neck and hair line..

I go for the make out, I rub her ass.

I will definitely use this. No question about it. Any other tips to get deeper sexually?

[ChiTown]

(09-09-2014 11:19 PM)Spectrumwalker Wrote:  

In my experience, gently nibbling and blowing into her ears followed by kissing their neck. Focus on that area. Literally gives just about every girl actual goosebumps and moistens their panties faster than anything. If she doesn't want to have sex after that, she's wrong in the head.

This is great advice. I've had huge success lightly kissing girls on the earlobes and upper portions of the ear itself. It makes them go absolutely crazy and even start panting.

[Giovonny]

(09-18-2014 05:05 PM)tboz Wrote:  

(09-15-2014 12:53 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

First, get her drunk. This lowers her inhibitions and opens up her up for pleasure and fun.

Then, touch her playfully in a non sexual way. Grab her arm to get her attention. Touch your leg against hers and pretend its an accident. Better yet, put your leg close to her's so it will seem like she touched you first. Gently, touch her shoulder or forearm when you guys are laughing together. Playfully, tap or "slap" her on the leg when she disagrees with you. Grab her arm and give it a gentle squeeze when you agree on something.. These are just basic examples of playful non sexual touching.

The next step for me is "Soft stroking". (Gently and lightly running my fingers over her skin)

I often start with her hands, rubbing them and caressing them.

I "soft stoke" her wrists, forearms, upper arms and shoulders, taking my time before moving higher. I caress her collarbone and neckline, rub her back and run my hand across the back of her neck...

Finally, I put my nose on her ear and my face next to hers.. I run my lips over her neck and hair line..

I go for the make out, I rub her ass.

I will definitely use this. No question about it. Any other tips to get deeper sexually?

What do you mean, "get deeper sexually"?

Kinkier sex?

More dominant sex?

[PapayaTapper]

(09-18-2014 05:05 PM)tboz Wrote:  

I will definitely use this. No question about it. Any other tips to get deeper sexually?

Yeah..Get a bigger dick

[tboz]

(09-20-2014 02:18 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

What do you mean, "get deeper sexually"?

I digress. I meant to ask if you had more advanced tips. So far, all these tips are very good. But if you or anyone else can suggest some more worse using, please suggest it. Thanks!

[Giovonny]

(09-21-2014 02:21 AM)tboz Wrote:  

(09-20-2014 02:18 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

What do you mean, "get deeper sexually"?

I digress. I meant to ask if you had more advanced tips. So far, all these tips are very good. But if you or anyone else can suggest some more worse using, please suggest it. Thanks!

More advanced tips?

- ask her what turns her on, do that!

- watch porn with her

- eat her pussy like its your last meal

- get her high/drunk

- "sext" her

- Be rich

- Have a great body

- talk to her about her sexually fantasies, do them!

- Dress well

- Be superior to her

- Dance with her

- Make her laugh

- Tie her up

- Dress her up in a slutty outfit

- Go on vacation with her

Each individual girl will be turned on by slightly different things, get to know your girl and what her psycho-sexual mind is all about. Probe her mind for these sexual clues, use them to your advantage.

[MdWanderer]

(09-07-2014 05:01 AM)bojangles Wrote:  

Fingering, really turns them on

Make sure you find the G spot while doing so. I was fingering a girl for a good 5 minutes and she was a dead fish until I went for her G spot and her panties were off in seconds.

[OregonToSoCal]

(11-08-2014 10:06 AM)MdWanderer Wrote:  

(09-07-2014 05:01 AM)bojangles Wrote:  

Fingering, really turns them on

Make sure you find the G spot while doing so. I was fingering a girl for a good 5 minutes and she was a dead fish until I went for her G spot and her panties were off in seconds.

I second this! In my earlier days I had a woman laying on my bed with only her panties on. I was fingering her under her panties and she seemed to be enjoying it. I went to take them off and the spell was broken and she got up and left. I had no idea what I was doing and was obviously NOT hitting the G spot.

[Giovonny]

(09-15-2014 12:53 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

Touch her playfully in a non sexual way. Grab her arm to get her attention. Touch your leg against hers and pretend its an accident. Better yet, put your leg close to her's so it will seem like she touched you first. Gently, touch her shoulder or forearm when you guys are laughing together. Playfully, tap or "slap" her on the leg when she disagrees with you. Grab her arm and give it a gentle squeeze when you agree on something.. These are just basic examples of playful non sexual touching.

The next step for me is "Soft stroking". (Gently and lightly running my fingers over her skin)

I often start with her hands, rubbing them and caressing them.

I "soft stoke" her wrists, forearms, upper arms and shoulders, taking my time before moving higher. I caress her collarbone and neckline, rub her back and run my hand across the back of her neck...

Finally, I put my nose on her ear and my face next to hers.. I run my lips over her neck and hair line..

I go for the make out, I rub her ass.

I have added a new technique to this method.

After gently rubbing her neck line and rubbing my nose over her ears and hair line..

I open my mouth wide and form a gentle "suction cup" sort of action with my jaw.

I apply this soft "suction cup" to her neck.

I start off slow and delicate but at the same time I rub, squeeze and spank her ass.

Once I sense that she is getting turned on by it, I get more aggressive and begin to suck her neck more aggressively and spank and squeeze her ass harder.

This sometimes leads to gently "nibbling" on her neck. The final step is to put my mouth widely over her neck, right over her "adams apple" and "hmm" or "buzz" while at the same time holding her head back with my hands.

When done right, it has a sort of primal, animalistic feel to it.

Think stuff like this:







My girls have been going crazy over this stuff!

They beg me to take their clothes off and ravish them!

Sometimes, I gently choke them, but, not with my hands, I use my mouth.

[MdWanderer]

(11-19-2014 12:24 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(09-15-2014 12:53 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

First, get her drunk. This lowers her inhibitions and opens up her up for pleasure and fun.

Then, touch her playfully in a non sexual way. Grab her arm to get her attention. Touch your leg against hers and pretend its an accident. Better yet, put your leg close to her's so it will seem like she touched you first. Gently, touch her shoulder or forearm when you guys are laughing together. Playfully, tap or "slap" her on the leg when she disagrees with you. Grab her arm and give it a gentle squeeze when you agree on something.. These are just basic examples of playful non sexual touching.

The next step for me is "Soft stroking". (Gently and lightly running my fingers over her skin)

I often start with her hands, rubbing them and caressing them.

I "soft stoke" her wrists, forearms, upper arms and shoulders, taking my time before moving higher. I caress her collarbone and neckline, rub her back and run my hand across the back of her neck...

Finally, I put my nose on her ear and my face next to hers.. I run my lips over her neck and hair line..

I go for the make out, I rub her ass.

This is what has worked for me over the years.

Palm reading is good too and an excellent way to start the touching process without coming off as a creep.

[Goldfinger]

(11-11-2014 11:45 AM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(11-08-2014 10:06 AM)MdWanderer Wrote:  

(09-07-2014 05:01 AM)bojangles Wrote:  

Fingering, really turns them on

Make sure you find the G spot while doing so. I was fingering a girl for a good 5 minutes and she was a dead fish until I went for her G spot and her panties were off in seconds.

I second this! In my earlier days I had a woman laying on my bed with only her panties on. I was fingering her under her panties and she seemed to be enjoying it. I went to take them off and the spell was broken and she got up and left. I had no idea what I was doing and was obviously NOT hitting the G spot.

Are you guys serious or joking? Fingering the G-spot??? FOH. if you're trying to get those panties off, your best bet is to get to the clit ASAP. You can't go wrong there.

Flick that Bean

[boinerd]

Kino closing.

[Virtus]

(11-19-2014 12:52 PM)Goldfinger Wrote:  

Are you guys serious or joking? Fingering the G-spot??? FOH. if you're trying to get those panties off, your best bet is to get to the clit ASAP. You can't go wrong there.

Flick that Bean

Another technique is this. Rub your thumb and index and middle fingers together. Like that money counting gesture.

Now do that on the lady bits.

And say "Count de Money! Count de Money!"

"Intermission"

[AneroidOcean]

Push/pull

Kiss her, then pull away.

Grab her tight, then push her away.

Kiss her until she opens her mouth, run your tongue across her lips, but then pull away.

Touch her lightly, then more firmly, then remove.

Run your fingers up the small of her back, then intertwine them in her hair, give a gentle but firm tug, then let go entirely and tell her, "the things I want to do to you...."

Get in her head, tease her, let her know you want her but that you aren't thirsty, just turned on.

Get in a woman's head, torture her with your touch by doing it well, but pulling away.

You'll have them turned on and dripping in no time.

The eventual goal if you get really good is like Giovonny said, for them to be begging you to ravage them.

I am a huge fan of biting them and going "oops" with a devilish grin OR getting close to their necks/shoulder line, enough for them to feel my hot breath on their skin and then "air biting" so they can hear my teeth come together and then saying "I want to take a bite out of you."

I actually think a lot of romance novels and chick porn have this kind of thing in them, where the guy knows just how to touch them.

If you learn how to get in a girl's head and how to touch them, they'll rip both your clothes off.

[Skotch]

Masculine behavior is the biggest turn on for women. Be deliberate and masculine. Watch your body language. Know what you're doing at all times and allow her to shut off her mind and follow you. Always maintain your frame, especially if she is the one testing it.

Put your hand on her shoulders and the small of her back, open up your body to occupy a lot of space and include her in it, grab her hips and guide her about, sit her on your lap, pick her up, etc.

If she sees you as a man, she won't need much to get going in the bedroom. This is especially true of Asian women.

[PapayaTapper]

(11-19-2014 12:24 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(09-15-2014 12:53 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

Touch her playfully in a non sexual way. Grab her arm to get her attention. Touch your leg against hers and pretend its an accident. Better yet, put your leg close to her's so it will seem like she touched you first. Gently, touch her shoulder or forearm when you guys are laughing together. Playfully, tap or "slap" her on the leg when she disagrees with you. Grab her arm and give it a gentle squeeze when you agree on something.. These are just basic examples of playful non sexual touching.

The next step for me is "Soft stroking". (Gently and lightly running my fingers over her skin)

I often start with her hands, rubbing them and caressing them.

I "soft stoke" her wrists, forearms, upper arms and shoulders, taking my time before moving higher. I caress her collarbone and neckline, rub her back and run my hand across the back of her neck...

Finally, I put my nose on her ear and my face next to hers.. I run my lips over her neck and hair line..

I go for the make out, I rub her ass.

I have added a new technique to this method.

After gently rubbing her neck line and rubbing my nose over her ears and hair line..

I open my mouth wide and form a gentle "suction cup" sort of action with my jaw.

I apply this soft "suction cup" to her neck.

I start off slow and delicate but at the same time I rub, squeeze and spank her ass.

Once I sense that she is getting turned on by it, I get more aggressive and begin to suck her neck more aggressively and spank and squeeze her ass harder.

This sometimes leads to gently "nibbling" on her neck. The final step is to put my mouth widely over her neck, right over her "adams apple" and "hmm" or "buzz" while at the same time holding her head back with my hands.

When done right, it has a sort of primal, animalistic feel to it.

Think stuff like this:







My girls have been going crazy over this stuff!

They beg me to take their clothes off and ravish them!

Sometimes, I gently choke them, but, not with my hands, I use my mouth.

Good one... don't know how I missed this

[topdog]

Giovonny delivers, as usual.

My go-to move: when the girl is at my place for the first time, after talking for a bit over drinks, I take her to my window so she gets so see "my view" (very average urban flat view of other buildings' roofs), while gently grabbing her hips and waist. After some seconds of being behind her, I start to lightly smell her neck and tell her how good she smells. At the same time, I breathe on her neck and ear, then kissing her neck.

A good makeout follows.

[Dusty]

   

[Pride male]

The smell of your masculine sweat.