First, get her drunk. This lowers her inhibitions and opens up her up for pleasure and fun.
Then, touch her playfully in a non sexual way. Grab her arm to get her attention. Touch your leg against hers and pretend its an accident. Better yet, put your leg close to her's so it will seem like she touched you first. Gently, touch her shoulder or forearm when you guys are laughing together. Playfully, tap or "slap" her on the leg when she disagrees with you. Grab her arm and give it a gentle squeeze when you agree on something.. These are just basic examples of playful non sexual touching.
The next step for me is "Soft stroking". (Gently and lightly running my fingers over her skin)
I often start with her hands, rubbing them and caressing them.
I "soft stoke" her wrists, forearms, upper arms and shoulders, taking my time before moving higher. I caress her collarbone and neckline, rub her back and run my hand across the back of her neck...
Finally, I put my nose on her ear and my face next to hers.. I run my lips over her neck and hair line..
I go for the make out, I rub her ass.
This is what has worked for me over the years.
Then, touch her playfully in a non sexual way. Grab her arm to get her attention. Touch your leg against hers and pretend its an accident. Better yet, put your leg close to her's so it will seem like she touched you first. Gently, touch her shoulder or forearm when you guys are laughing together. Playfully, tap or "slap" her on the leg when she disagrees with you. Grab her arm and give it a gentle squeeze when you agree on something.. These are just basic examples of playful non sexual touching.
The next step for me is "Soft stroking". (Gently and lightly running my fingers over her skin)
I often start with her hands, rubbing them and caressing them.
I "soft stoke" her wrists, forearms, upper arms and shoulders, taking my time before moving higher. I caress her collarbone and neckline, rub her back and run my hand across the back of her neck...
Finally, I put my nose on her ear and my face next to hers.. I run my lips over her neck and hair line..
I go for the make out, I rub her ass.
This is what has worked for me over the years.