Chick called me quite some time ago after I broke a condumn on her and claimed she was prego. After it happened, I'd handed her money to go get a morning-after pill, but I was too hung-over and lazy to follow along and make sure she did it.
My bad, but still. I had a feeling when she hit me up later with preggo claims that she was bullshitting, so I said, "hey, that's your bad. I gave you the money - if you didn't take the pill, it's your fucking fault." And hung up.
Complete bluff on my part. I'm not the type to leave a chick hanging in a 4th world country with my kid. But the way I saw it, if it was real, she'd turn herself inside out finding a way to let me know. She rolled on me in a bar once and then left me alone - never called again.
That said, I was kind of worried because I do know SEAsian chicks will swallow the bullet and raise their half-white kid on their own sometimes just to have a half-white kid. And the fact that I didn't see her at the bars any more after taking a few months off had me wondering. So I just wanted to check and be sure.
So, dropped her a text from a new phone number asking if she was pregnant or if she'd been lying. I haven't talked to this chick forever, but fuck, if I knocked her up and left, you can guarantee she wouldn't forget me...
You can guess what came next. She has no fucking clue who I am or what I'm talking about. I told her never mind then, and she's been ringing the phone off the hook ever since.
Maybe not a bad gameplan for calling a bitch's bluff. Let her stew for a while and then text her anonymously. If she doesn't know who you are, she's played this game before, the kid isn't yours, or the kid doesn't exist.
In this case, I'm 120% sure the kid doesn't exist. If it did, you can be damn sure I'd be getting a DNA test before manning up to the matter.
All the above said, I do believe in taking care of your own spawn, so if you do go silent on a chick after a baby claim to create a time gap, make sure you have multiple contact points. You don't want to accidentley cut yourself off from your own kid - I wouldn't want to anyways.
I mean, you could just as easily (with less stress) say alright let's go test you again as a way to call her out. But it doesn't hurt to have multiple arrows in your quiver.
My bad, but still. I had a feeling when she hit me up later with preggo claims that she was bullshitting, so I said, "hey, that's your bad. I gave you the money - if you didn't take the pill, it's your fucking fault." And hung up.
Complete bluff on my part. I'm not the type to leave a chick hanging in a 4th world country with my kid. But the way I saw it, if it was real, she'd turn herself inside out finding a way to let me know. She rolled on me in a bar once and then left me alone - never called again.
That said, I was kind of worried because I do know SEAsian chicks will swallow the bullet and raise their half-white kid on their own sometimes just to have a half-white kid. And the fact that I didn't see her at the bars any more after taking a few months off had me wondering. So I just wanted to check and be sure.
So, dropped her a text from a new phone number asking if she was pregnant or if she'd been lying. I haven't talked to this chick forever, but fuck, if I knocked her up and left, you can guarantee she wouldn't forget me...
You can guess what came next. She has no fucking clue who I am or what I'm talking about. I told her never mind then, and she's been ringing the phone off the hook ever since.
Maybe not a bad gameplan for calling a bitch's bluff. Let her stew for a while and then text her anonymously. If she doesn't know who you are, she's played this game before, the kid isn't yours, or the kid doesn't exist.
In this case, I'm 120% sure the kid doesn't exist. If it did, you can be damn sure I'd be getting a DNA test before manning up to the matter.
All the above said, I do believe in taking care of your own spawn, so if you do go silent on a chick after a baby claim to create a time gap, make sure you have multiple contact points. You don't want to accidentley cut yourself off from your own kid - I wouldn't want to anyways.
I mean, you could just as easily (with less stress) say alright let's go test you again as a way to call her out. But it doesn't hurt to have multiple arrows in your quiver.
Beyond All Seas
"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling
"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling