Hey guys,
I'm not sure where I went wrong in a text interaction after a first date with an online girl. First date was at two venues. quick drink at the first one, venue switched, k-closed, made out. Connection level was medium, but it was ok. It went like this:
me: hey, nice meeting you the other day, want to go out again?
her: ok!
me: tomorrow?
her: sure.
me: ok, meet me at [venue near my place] at 8:30pm.
her: no, [inserts name of venue near her place].
(I'll spare you analysis of what such rude reply does to my desire to do anything with her but bang her once).
I'm not going to her area, because she lives with two dudes, that's a dead end and I'll just be buying her a drink and wasting my time.
me: take a cab?
her: no, come here. what will it be?
me: I'm not coming.
her: why?
... pause ...
her: [disses me about how I don't want to come to the venue and calls me homophobic, because it's a half gay bar]
me: unnecessary drama. I asked you out and I'm not going to bus around town to make it happen. A cab is a click away.
her: [blah blah blah, good luck with your life]
Hm. Not sure if I could've done it some other way. She wanted to go out again, but I guess not enough to do it on my terms.
I'm not sure where I went wrong in a text interaction after a first date with an online girl. First date was at two venues. quick drink at the first one, venue switched, k-closed, made out. Connection level was medium, but it was ok. It went like this:
me: hey, nice meeting you the other day, want to go out again?
her: ok!
me: tomorrow?
her: sure.
me: ok, meet me at [venue near my place] at 8:30pm.
her: no, [inserts name of venue near her place].
(I'll spare you analysis of what such rude reply does to my desire to do anything with her but bang her once).
I'm not going to her area, because she lives with two dudes, that's a dead end and I'll just be buying her a drink and wasting my time.
me: take a cab?
her: no, come here. what will it be?
me: I'm not coming.
her: why?
... pause ...
her: [disses me about how I don't want to come to the venue and calls me homophobic, because it's a half gay bar]
me: unnecessary drama. I asked you out and I'm not going to bus around town to make it happen. A cab is a click away.
her: [blah blah blah, good luck with your life]
Hm. Not sure if I could've done it some other way. She wanted to go out again, but I guess not enough to do it on my terms.