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07-25-2014, 10:30 AM
-You find yourself maintaining frame automatically without having to think about it.
-You fuck girls from your harem so frequently that you stop giving a shit.
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07-25-2014, 10:50 AM
- when you laugh away rejection to the point where your next approach hooks hard
- when you enter a room and girls look your way
- when one girl flakes on you, the other 2 texts you got wash her out
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07-25-2014, 10:55 AM
Maybe this is just me, but a dry spell.
I think it's a sign of change. You are improving in ways you are and aren't aware of.
The close calls before you bang again might also be novel situations or they are with higher quality girls as you start to see yourself attracting these girls stronger than before.
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07-25-2014, 11:16 AM
-Having girls tell me "take my number" and then grabbing the phone, punching in the number, and calling themselves to make sure they have it.
-When the friends of the girls actively encourage them to go be alone with me somewhere else. This has happened the past few nights and its such a sweet sweet feeling.
-The moments when I am talking to a girl/girls and during a pause in the conversation, I can see them just waiting to see what words I will say next.
-When you can game a girl who doesn't speak your language. Teach her..."attractive" "beautiful" "connection". Been using that game recently. heh.
-Going home knowing you could have gotten laid but didn't because you need sleep.
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07-25-2014, 11:16 AM
A big thing i noticed was when i went from beginner to intermediate was just not thinking too much about what i was gonna say.
Instead of routines, lines, or what gambit i was gonna use i just threw myself into a situation and went with it. I was not in my head as much.
From intermediate to where i am now...
Literally not giving a fuck if things go south with a girl because i know if i hustle i can bust 5 numbers in half a day.
Laughing at shit tests from girls. Not worrying about if i can pass them or not because i see it for what it is. She sees me as high value and wants to make sure i'm actually as confident/cool/alpha as i appear to be. ( I used to dread shit tests, not i look forward to them)
Externally, when girls nearly break their neck as you walk by. A few girls in the first meeting actively offer sexual favors.
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07-25-2014, 11:27 AM
-when develop the ability to go to another city/state/country and have consistent success
-when you notice yourself turning down opportunities (lack of time or interest)
-when you are able to advise your close player buddies and they trust your advice
MDP
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07-25-2014, 11:44 AM
- Girls are around you, all the time. They constantly on your radar and enter your perimeter in a social surrounding.
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07-25-2014, 11:48 AM
Girls want to meet your parents.
Girls raw dog immediately. Girls let you raw dog after a few nights with a condom.
Girls drunk text you.
Girls openly admit they like being smacked around.
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07-25-2014, 12:34 PM
Off the top of my head from my personal experience.
You play catch and release basically you can close these girls but you don't wanna deal with the needy calls and headache so you cut them lose for minor infractions(wanting to hold you to 3 date rules, texting you incessantly, holding your hand in public etc).
You really don't give a fuck about people spectating while you run your game.
You aren't bothered by flakes and rejection not because it's a good game move but because experience has taught you what she won't do another will.
You cherish your alone time.
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07-25-2014, 12:45 PM
Girls opening you up in general. A man with sexual experience has improved body language, an attitude of wanting to have a good time going out instead of a lay (which is why I do well at sporting events...I just wanna see my team win and drink beers) , and an aura of ease around women.
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07-25-2014, 01:33 PM
It's been somewhat touched on already but -- when you can game on autopilot. It's the result of strong inner game.
Starting out, you're more conscious of your moves, constantly reminding yourself what to say and when, what to do and how to do it, etc. A lot of mental masturbation. Some guys never progress out of this stage because instead of working on non-female related aspects of their life (work, getting into shape, improving logistics, developing hobbies, etc) they just chase pussy.
But when you work on inner game, everything else naturally comes with it.
I remember having to consciously remind myself to do xyz when it came to trying to attract a woman, now I black out when it comes to approaches and stuff and still get results. I don't overthink anything. I don't think, period. I just do.
It's the result of building inner game.
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07-25-2014, 02:48 PM
-You hope that chicks will flake on you so you can take care of other shit.
-You flake on girls without a second thought.
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07-25-2014, 03:31 PM
>When girls offers to pick up the Whole check when we go out to eat
>They start sending freaky text messages
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07-25-2014, 03:52 PM
- You turn down 8s and couldn't give a shit.
- You game girls everywhere without even thinking about it
- Letting girls blow you out/run off with an ex/act badly then not giving a fuck about it when they call back full of apologies (seems like a strange one but shows outcome independency)
- When blokes nearly twice your size are intimidated by you
For me this literally happened over night after 2 years of reading/thinking about it.
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07-25-2014, 04:08 PM
-You are comfortable with your own presence. (Who you are)
After i came back from long trip at the moment, i feel different hanging out at local bar on my own. I just feel comfortable without caring about what people think.
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07-25-2014, 06:00 PM
Quote: (07-25-2014 02:48 PM)Donkey_Riding Wrote:
-You hope that chicks will flake on you so you can take care of other shit.
-You flake on girls without a second thought.
god, this.
the value of my alone time continues to go up, flaking on hot chicks just to be home. i basically just dont even care anymore.
in a good way