Quote: (07-28-2014 11:53 AM)Giovonny Wrote:
Quote: (07-27-2014 01:17 PM)civpro Wrote:
A lot of these signs relate to looks, not game.
I think that improving your looks IS game.
Maybe, the most important part of game..
When you look good, you will attract more girls and they will require less convincing.
In Game, I think we often focus too much on what we say and not enough on how we look.
The first step for most guys is to improve their look.
This is definitely step #1 both 'cos it's absolutely true, and because it will give you
instant [almost always positive] feedback from girls, esp the hotter ones. And it's also easier than lifting daily for 6mos. {Do both, obvs}
I mean, if you've been working out hard, you have no idea if that's what attracted a girl to you unless she confesses it directly, or can't keep her hands off your biceps/abs. She could have liked 12 other things about you instead. Maybe she doesn't like bulk, or guys with better abs than her. You don't know.
Having a better look than every other guy cues up girls [often the hottest, best-dressed girls in the place] who then open you in a friendly or flirty manner. They instantly want to talk about
you, which is a huge IOI. It also allows you to educate them a bit on fashion, which is total catnip to them.
Pocket squares, cufflinks, watch, nice shoes are a must. Different colored lining for your jackets, custom shirts, etc. Your ROI on this stuff is off-the-charts above anything else I can possibly think of.
And virtually none of those things are expensive, either. Your look can go from a 5 to an 8-9 in a couple weeks.