Hello,
I have been a lurker on this forum for a couple of months. Trying to read and understand the game. I am a newbie. Currently in Colombia for a month for work. I have had success beyond my expectations. I have only tried pipelining on colombiacupid. Got 2 single day lays in Barranquilla. I was visiting Cartagena last weekend. And almost got the 3rd. This question is about that girl.
Girl: 26, Paisa, living in Cartagena. Has two kids, I don't care. She is the prettiest girl I have dated. Probably a 8/9+ on the prettiness scale. Green eyes. Great personality. Found her on CC. Talked on whatsapp for a week or two.
Saturday night: When I went to Cartagena for the weekend, met her for dinner. We seemed to like each other. So we decided that we are going out that night. We went back to my hotel, because I needed to change my clothes. I didn't make any moves while we were in my room. Then went out drinking and later to a nightclub. All night, she wouldn't let me kiss saying that she doesn't kiss on the first date. She also would keep a distance while dancing, which is strange for girls in Colombia. Somewhere during the night out, I told her about my travels and pictures on my laptop that I wanted to show her. When we left the club, I told her that let us go back to my hotel because I wanted to show her those pictures. She agreed. She was 3/4 drinks down. Back at the hotel, we made out. There was a lot of resistance, but the clothes were coming off. I had to keep restarting every time she stopped/got alarmed. It got down to her being in her panties & I in my jeans. When I was taking of my jeans, that alarmed her, she wore her clothes and wanted to leave. Which she did, because I could not convince her to stay. I am pretty sure that this was the last resistance. If I could have had another try at it, I would be able to close the deal. Paid her cab money.
Sunday night: We decide to meet again for dinner. I was fully expecting to close the deal this time, based on what happened on Sat night. She shows up with a friend. Dinner. Then drinks at another place. For 3 of us. 100$ total. In the night, she came up with an excuse that she needed to wake up really early the next morning and that she can't come back to my hotel. Which she didn't. We take a cab to my hotel. She and her friend continued in that cab to their home. I pay cab money. She promised that she will come to the hotel next morning for breakfast before I am supposed to leave. I was of course pissed that she didn't come back with me that night.
Monday morning: She comes and doesn't want to do anything other than make out. And she wants me to take her out for breakfast. Which I don't at this point. I was pissed and there wasn't enough time. She tells me that she has only slept with 2 guys all her life and the sex is not going to happen between the two of us. Only kissing. If you can believe that. She said that Saturday night happened only because she was drunk. It usually does not happen.
She later texts me saying she is sorry for refusing the sex. But she is not that type of a girl. Now the question is, is it worth pursing her when I go to Cartagena next? I really want to bang her. But not sure if it is worth the time and money and how long it would take. Expert comments?
Thanks for your help. A detailed trip report to follow at the end of the trip.
JL.
I have been a lurker on this forum for a couple of months. Trying to read and understand the game. I am a newbie. Currently in Colombia for a month for work. I have had success beyond my expectations. I have only tried pipelining on colombiacupid. Got 2 single day lays in Barranquilla. I was visiting Cartagena last weekend. And almost got the 3rd. This question is about that girl.
Girl: 26, Paisa, living in Cartagena. Has two kids, I don't care. She is the prettiest girl I have dated. Probably a 8/9+ on the prettiness scale. Green eyes. Great personality. Found her on CC. Talked on whatsapp for a week or two.
Saturday night: When I went to Cartagena for the weekend, met her for dinner. We seemed to like each other. So we decided that we are going out that night. We went back to my hotel, because I needed to change my clothes. I didn't make any moves while we were in my room. Then went out drinking and later to a nightclub. All night, she wouldn't let me kiss saying that she doesn't kiss on the first date. She also would keep a distance while dancing, which is strange for girls in Colombia. Somewhere during the night out, I told her about my travels and pictures on my laptop that I wanted to show her. When we left the club, I told her that let us go back to my hotel because I wanted to show her those pictures. She agreed. She was 3/4 drinks down. Back at the hotel, we made out. There was a lot of resistance, but the clothes were coming off. I had to keep restarting every time she stopped/got alarmed. It got down to her being in her panties & I in my jeans. When I was taking of my jeans, that alarmed her, she wore her clothes and wanted to leave. Which she did, because I could not convince her to stay. I am pretty sure that this was the last resistance. If I could have had another try at it, I would be able to close the deal. Paid her cab money.
Sunday night: We decide to meet again for dinner. I was fully expecting to close the deal this time, based on what happened on Sat night. She shows up with a friend. Dinner. Then drinks at another place. For 3 of us. 100$ total. In the night, she came up with an excuse that she needed to wake up really early the next morning and that she can't come back to my hotel. Which she didn't. We take a cab to my hotel. She and her friend continued in that cab to their home. I pay cab money. She promised that she will come to the hotel next morning for breakfast before I am supposed to leave. I was of course pissed that she didn't come back with me that night.
Monday morning: She comes and doesn't want to do anything other than make out. And she wants me to take her out for breakfast. Which I don't at this point. I was pissed and there wasn't enough time. She tells me that she has only slept with 2 guys all her life and the sex is not going to happen between the two of us. Only kissing. If you can believe that. She said that Saturday night happened only because she was drunk. It usually does not happen.
She later texts me saying she is sorry for refusing the sex. But she is not that type of a girl. Now the question is, is it worth pursing her when I go to Cartagena next? I really want to bang her. But not sure if it is worth the time and money and how long it would take. Expert comments?
Thanks for your help. A detailed trip report to follow at the end of the trip.
JL.