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07-19-2014, 09:56 PM
I learned from fireside chats with my Dad (who is a seasoned entrepreneur- not a wage slave beta but a business alpha and combat veteran with tons of notches) over the years that older successful women are a decent option.
Like my Dad told me:
-Have their own $ so not a drain on your paper
-Wise enough to not waste her or your time on he said/she said bullshit social circle game clown talk. Are adults and don't apologize for their desires or need tons of social circle validation like younger girls.
-Dont give a flip about Becky's shoes or Jennys car like the little birds
-Have experience and can be a good ally to do bigger better things
-Appreciate direct game like he and I have always used more than a school girl and the social circle approval trip
-Usually give better head (from my mileage)
-Drive benzs and dress classy if you like the finer things and not little girls in h&m or other cheap junk
At the end of the day I find their experience and classy aura attractive. They don't waste time on social circle cock block circle jerks like the school girls and are more direct as well.
Anyone else observed these traits in your field experiences?
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07-19-2014, 10:24 PM
Looking back over his previous posts he was doing some subtle trolling by promoting beta game and always asking questions. Not only is he starting a troll thread but I have yet to see a post of value.
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07-19-2014, 10:58 PM
What part of my personal field experience wasnt clear?
I got my advice which I then took out in the field from a millionaire with over 60 notches.
Ex. Cougar blonde Kim Basinger looking chick in furniture store I cold approached while out at a mall having lunch (gave me her card with a cell, demanded I hug her when I left, and that we meet for drinks soon).
Today, friend of friend hooked me up with a brunette who owns her own house 2 states over and wants to come see me to ride motorcycles after talking to her on the phone for half the afternoon.
Went to Starbucks tonight before going out- saw a 4 set of chicks- approached the fine young brunette in front of all 4 and the clerks-total blowout but IDGAF. Keep learning and growing.
Statistically-
With cougars I can easily get 1/2 approach to number close. Young girls probably 1 out of 10.
My philosophy is date a cougar and get young chicks whenever that's an option.
Older chicks don't care as much about their friends approva which seems to be the mother of all cock blocksl- school girls need their friends to go down the block. I approached 2 18yo dorm girls to try to swoop a fine redhead on the street and they were literally holding hands to go to Walgreens 5 blocks away from their dorm so can you in good faith tell me older chicks are that codependent???
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07-19-2014, 11:09 PM
He is telling the truth but there is no free lunch.
7+ career girls upper 20s through 30s are what I would say a value girl. Good sex, less shit tests, less drama, easier to plan with either ahead of time or last minute. Their schedules are consistent and they usually have a free night or afternoon that they see as mutually beneficial. Young chicks like things spontaneous and ever changing more often like "I'm going to x, come join tomorrow night". That is fun but definitely more work than an easy "let's have wine wed nite at your place" with the office cougar that you know for sure will not flake.
Say you wanted to get shit done like build a business while getting laid. A rotation of 2 or 3 of these girls would be the best bang for your buck.
You will not get the bubbly feminine energy and bodies that is like heroine with 18-22 year olds. These girls as you get older are much harder to keep in a harem full time in my experience. If they are attractive their strong ties to multiple social circles will pull them away sooner than later unless you make them your main and put in effort 2-3 days a week. Pretty much be their serious boyfriend.
Exceptions are anti-social stripper girls or cocktail waitresses, dorky girls, introvert girls that are new to the area (rare that either of the last 2 are hot). Pretty much girls that are hot young with little to no social circle. Most of these girls have mental problems though. Healthy young girls are sewn deep into social circles with other same age people.
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07-19-2014, 11:18 PM
I agree with OP as well. The MILF I'm seeing is a kindergarten teacher. What I like about her the most is that she truly doesn't care what I do with other girls, as long as I pleasure her as well. Whenever I'm at her house, she always cooks dinner. At times I'll even offer to wash the dishes and she'll decline. I'm pretty sure it's not gonna last long since she's getting fucked by other guys as well but it damn sure feels good to have a woman that'll do anything for you at the drop of a hat.
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07-20-2014, 02:01 AM
IMO the negatives far outweigh the positives. Sure they have their own money but personally I won't spend money on any girl & from experience 18 year olds & onwards have more than enough to get by.
Regarding dressing classy; the nicest clothes in the world won't make a 'hot' 35 year old physically more attractive than a 'hot' 20 year old in a cheaper outfit.
In terms of game; I've found all girls appreciate direct game in one form or another. You mentioned older women give better head [And this is probably true] - But that is probably due to the fact that they've sucked more cock. Not hugely appealing to me.
I think the vehicle they drive is completely irrelevant. As an 'ally' personally I don't see any benefit here either. I would worry about my own success if I needed a woman to boost my career.
Finally having worked with hundreds of professional women in my lifetime - A majority are still childish & bitchy well into her 30s. I've found there are just as many girls in their early 20s with emotional maturity as there are in their 30s. Perhaps a woman who is immature in her early 20s will still be more or less immature in her 30s.
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07-20-2014, 03:31 AM
The OP's post sounds very trollish.
I really find it hard to believe that any man deep down could be legitimately sexually attracted to older professional women.
I would only date an older professional woman if I knew that she would be spending money on me somehow, and only for a short time. This doesn't mean that I would actually be attracted to her.
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07-20-2014, 04:19 AM
Why is everyone talking about MILFs? The OP said nothing about mothers specifically.
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07-21-2014, 11:56 AM
OP had some good points. There are indeed a growing amount of attractive 30something women out there nowdays. I've been on dates/dated several 28-38yo women, most of whom were professional/academic types. Problem is, if they're attractive (7+), it's likely they've got a bad reason for still being single: washed-up carouseler, uber careerist, emotionally unhealthy, super picky/elitist... Plus, if you're looking beyond short-term, how can you turn a 30+ career woman into a faithful/submissive wife, not to mention the fertility issue? Short-term or long-term, both of these issues have gotten me leaning back towards women under 30.
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07-21-2014, 04:45 PM
I personally don't see anything wrong with OP's post, because what he said is very true.
Ive dated a couple of older women, and they were the best overall experiences Ive had mainly because they have way less drama then some young chicks and they play way less games. As a someone mentioned above they love to f**k, you dont have to worry about them backing out, and they got their own money so they are more then willing to pick up the bill every now and then.
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07-23-2014, 04:10 AM
I see the appeal when I think of female tv detectives, like the earlier seasons of Law & Order SVU.
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Conversely, I see female power groups/lunches whenever I'm in Santa Fe, and they are a real turn off.
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07-24-2014, 07:16 PM
On the most fundamental level, older women always fall into two categories.
1. They already look their age.
2. They have retained their attractiveness to a large extent, but I have a very accurate mental projection of how they will look in the near future.
The mere foreknowledge that they will fall into category 1 within a handful of years is enough to kill any desire. Each of those women from the show in the above pictures, my mind replaces their images with what I know they will soon look like (or already look like without makeup.) I think it's this nebulous thing guys have, a product of evolution that keep us from spending time on them.
My pride would not allow me to invest anything in a women who's already lost her best years. In the short term, I don't think I would try and pick one up. Unless I was hit over the head by a very aggressive, straight from fetish-land MILF, literally panting with lust, I'd just focus my efforts on girls my own age.