Looks like I'm on a roll lately with posting on here but I have had some more thoughts on some personal experiences that I wanted to shed some light on.
Have any of you noticed your ex girlfriends drastically change after you split ?
My most recent girl who I had a short relationship with back in the motherland, has changed massively. She was a cute, shy girl before and now she has turned into a model. I started noticing the changes while I was with her, she began to look a lot more attractive and begun to wear sexy clothes. Judging from her womaniese talk, I see she has increased her number of orbitors around her too. Very interesting.
On the other hand, I remember a girl previously who I was in a long relationship with a couple of years back, took a sudden nose dive when we broke up. Admittedly she broke up with me, but soon after she just lost her looks completely, dyed her hair a crazy colour that with her Balkan features made her look like a prostitute from Marrakech.
It made me wonder, I have seen the same thing happen with girls who went out with my friends, they either appear to lose their value or increase their value exponentially after having a break up. Take note these girls are all in their early 20s.
It makes me wonder, as there is a big energy transaction going on between people all the time. Sometimes this can be negative, you will find some people who use social dynamics to simply drain another's energy to fill this empty never ending hole. I knew of one guy who just had something off about him. He would constantly neg other guys around him including myself, like you would with some dumb chick. It was very odd and sure enough all interactions with him would leave you feeling drained.
Other times there is no difference just a mutual rapport being built that if anything makes you feel good, almost feels nutritional. This is why its crucial to spend time with people and associate with those who are of a positive mindset.
All in all, I think the interaction between a man and woman is really unique and if you have built an attachment to that person and vice versa. You can rub off on that person. As a man you have to be careful to keep your frame to ensure that they aren't simply taking your energy. Although naturally the woman is going to take a bit of you if she is always around and if the two of you are having sex.
This is just another reason, why having a strong buzz from doing whatever you are doing in life (aside from women) is going to render you as a flame for the moths (women).
It's a strange one, I haven't thought about it in too much detail, but would like to hear other opinions or personal accounts on this matter.
Peace
Have any of you noticed your ex girlfriends drastically change after you split ?
My most recent girl who I had a short relationship with back in the motherland, has changed massively. She was a cute, shy girl before and now she has turned into a model. I started noticing the changes while I was with her, she began to look a lot more attractive and begun to wear sexy clothes. Judging from her womaniese talk, I see she has increased her number of orbitors around her too. Very interesting.
On the other hand, I remember a girl previously who I was in a long relationship with a couple of years back, took a sudden nose dive when we broke up. Admittedly she broke up with me, but soon after she just lost her looks completely, dyed her hair a crazy colour that with her Balkan features made her look like a prostitute from Marrakech.
It made me wonder, I have seen the same thing happen with girls who went out with my friends, they either appear to lose their value or increase their value exponentially after having a break up. Take note these girls are all in their early 20s.
It makes me wonder, as there is a big energy transaction going on between people all the time. Sometimes this can be negative, you will find some people who use social dynamics to simply drain another's energy to fill this empty never ending hole. I knew of one guy who just had something off about him. He would constantly neg other guys around him including myself, like you would with some dumb chick. It was very odd and sure enough all interactions with him would leave you feeling drained.
Other times there is no difference just a mutual rapport being built that if anything makes you feel good, almost feels nutritional. This is why its crucial to spend time with people and associate with those who are of a positive mindset.
All in all, I think the interaction between a man and woman is really unique and if you have built an attachment to that person and vice versa. You can rub off on that person. As a man you have to be careful to keep your frame to ensure that they aren't simply taking your energy. Although naturally the woman is going to take a bit of you if she is always around and if the two of you are having sex.
This is just another reason, why having a strong buzz from doing whatever you are doing in life (aside from women) is going to render you as a flame for the moths (women).
It's a strange one, I haven't thought about it in too much detail, but would like to hear other opinions or personal accounts on this matter.
Peace
