[Laser]

Bride's ex-lover sends groom a usb stick with "intimate" pics of his new bride. Groom divorces her on the spot.

http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/weird-news/...z36oVxv8dC

Hard to know where I stand on this one. Obviously the ex-lover is a beta bitch for pulling this since he was distraught for being spurned.

As the groom, unless you're marrying a virgin, you've got to make your peace with the fact that your bride's been with other people before you. But seeing the visual evidence would eat away at me.

[Muk]

Maybe there are pictures of her doing with her ex that she wouldn't do with him
Maybe there is so cumshots
or ass to mouth
or double penetrations
or...
well...you get the idea
I'd kick her ass to the curb too if it were something like that...

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

Notice that this is in Saudi Arabia. What we wouldn't bat an eyelid at (as evidenced by Laser's last paragraph that accepts one's fate) is a huge shock to them. They're like babies compared to our society.

[Jukes]

Technology is the best wingman ever in regards to marriage. Hope the groom make peace with this and move on.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

This is Saudi Arabia. That is the main problem.

Apart from that - we don't know the whole story - she might have waited with him to the wedding night, but obviously gave out the goods and filmed it with another guy. Better now than later or you end up like this guy:

http://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_adv...rriage_is/

The painful discovery for most men is not that she had sex with another dude, but that she had passionate and spectacular sex with another man doing things, she would never do with him, but obviously had done in the past - as some pics and videos surface now. Desire cannot be negotiated - as many Players confess - they have no problem igniting desire in a women via Game, Dominance etc. - their Beta husbands who do all the right things and are "just themselves" leave their wives dry like the Sahara desert. All men should really learn the crimson arts....

http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/25/th...e-dynamic/

[Beyond Borders]

I had a Thai guy do that to me once with a serious girlfriend in Thailand. Random text of him lying in a bed next to her sleeping - him with a little smirk on his face.

She was sitting next to me in an internet cafe when the text came in. I took one look, logged out, and said, "Come on - we're going upstairs."

She could tell I was irked but I didn't show her the pic until we were in private. From there it was an hour of explaining to her that it was time for her to go home with her bawling like she was on her deathbed (Thai women are good at that).

She claimed he was an old boyfriend that had stopped by her work recently and jacked the # out of her phone and that they were old pictures, and he even called me and backed her on that with apologies. But even though I went ahead and made up with her, I could never be sure. It also bothered me that an ex had been around her while we were dating - enough to jack my number out of her phone. Not cool.

He kept calling my phone one night all drunk and I picked it up and hollered at him, asked him if he wanted to die in Thai (I was buzzed and pretty worked up) and said I was going to come over to his house with all my Thai buddies to make sure we fought one-on-one. He cringed like a bitch. Only time I ever threatened a Thai like that, but him calling my phone to fuck with me was the ultimate disrespect, in my opinion.

"Don't ever call my phone. If you want to talk, call your fucking girlfriend," I told him. "She's yours now." As she just sat there and cringed.

Given that she saw the guy at all, I could never fully trust her again and it played a big role in me kicking her to the curb. Pretty fucked for her if she was really innocent in the matter - was a real douchebag move on the guy's part to purposely fuck with her relationship like that. I guess he was in love.

[Parlay44]

Women are shameless self-serving whores. Why are you guys surprised?

I would love to date a virgin but that's not realistic these days. I accept that every woman I meet has a skanky past. That's why marriage is off the table.

[Suits]

(07-08-2014 06:36 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

I had a Thai guy do that to me once with a serious girlfriend in Thailand. Random text of him lying in a bed next to her sleeping - him with a little smirk on his face.

She was sitting next to me in an internet cafe when the text came in. I took one look, logged out, and said, "Come on - we're going upstairs."

I was disappointed by the ending of your story. I thought that you were going to take her upstairs, bang her hard in the ass, then take a picture of you in the same pose and MMS it to him.

[RawGod]

(07-08-2014 04:44 AM)Laser Wrote:  

Bride's ex-lover sends groom a usb stick with "intimate" pics of his new bride. Groom divorces her on the spot.

http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/weird-news/...z36oVxv8dC

Hard to know where I stand on this one. Obviously the ex-lover is a beta bitch for pulling this since he was distraught for being spurned.

As the groom, unless you're marrying a virgin, you've got to make your peace with the fact that your bride's been with other people before you. But seeing the visual evidence would eat away at me.

I assume that she lied about being a virgin to her husband, so it was more than just a visual reminder, it was evidence of her dishonesty about a major matter in their culture.

[Cr33pin]

(07-08-2014 06:36 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

I had a Thai guy do that to me once with a serious girlfriend in Thailand. Random text of him lying in a bed next to her sleeping - him with a little smirk on his face.

She was sitting next to me in an internet cafe when the text came in. I took one look, logged out, and said, "Come on - we're going upstairs."

She could tell I was irked but I didn't show her the pic until we were in private. From there it was an hour of explaining to her that it was time for her to go home with her bawling like she was on her deathbed (Thai women are good at that).

She claimed he was an old boyfriend that had stopped by her work recently and jacked the # out of her phone and that they were old pictures, and he even called me and backed her on that with apologies. But even though I went ahead and made up with her, I could never be sure. It also bothered me that an ex had been around her while we were dating - enough to jack my number out of her phone. Not cool.

He kept calling my phone one night all drunk and I picked it up and hollered at him, asked him if he wanted to die in Thai (I was buzzed and pretty worked up) and said I was going to come over to his house with all my Thai buddies to make sure we fought one-on-one. He cringed like a bitch. Only time I ever threatened a Thai like that, but him calling my phone to fuck with me was the ultimate disrespect, in my opinion.

"Don't ever call my phone. If you want to talk, call your fucking girlfriend," I told him. "She's yours now." As she just sat there and cringed.

Given that she saw the guy at all, I could never fully trust her again and it played a big role in me kicking her to the curb. Pretty fucked for her if she was really innocent in the matter - was a real douchebag move on the guy's part to purposely fuck with her relationship like that. I guess he was in love.

Dude this story took a turn for the mediocre. I was hoping you was gonna say you took her upstairs and went ass to mouth with her and took a video then hit her with a Peter North facial and snaped a pic and sent them back to the guy....
Thats how I would have played it out. I would have at least sent him a pic of my freakishly large white dick....

[xpatplayer]

Respect to Saudi Culture. Regardless of what you may believe about certain aspects of the culture, one cannot deny that the men choose to be emasculated like their brothers in the West. Not a red-pill culture but a culture which is brutally honest about sex-roles.

Props to the groom. He kept it real.

[Travesty]

If this happened to me I think I would divorce not because its her fault, but because that is not something I would forget, especially not on my wedding night. Relationships are tough enough without outside forces fucking with your head. Women are replaceable. A life full of a sick itch in the back of your mind is not.

[rudebwoy]

Don't matter what culture you are from, it is a tough pill to swallow.

[Icarus]

(07-08-2014 11:39 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

Don't matter what culture you are from, it is a tough pill to swallow.

Women... they're all the same:

[Coldfire]

He needs to beat the crap out of the bastard that sent the pics

[TheWastelander]

(07-08-2014 11:42 AM)Coldfire Wrote:  

He needs to beat the crap out of the bastard that sent the pics

What for? The guy did him a favor.

[Parlay44]

(07-08-2014 11:44 AM)TheWastelander Wrote:  

(07-08-2014 11:42 AM)Coldfire Wrote:  

He needs to beat the crap out of the bastard that sent the pics

What for? The guy did him a favor.

Seriously. He didn't rape her. She's in the wrong for defrauding him.

She's playing it both ways here. She wants to whore around and be treated like a wife.
Sorry cupcake but that shit don't float in Saudi Arabia.

[samsamsam]

(07-08-2014 11:41 AM)Icarus Wrote:  

(07-08-2014 11:39 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

Don't matter what culture you are from, it is a tough pill to swallow.

Women... they're all the same:

That video never gets old. Brutally honest.

[JJ Roberts]

(07-08-2014 11:41 AM)Icarus Wrote:  

What a retard.

As for the groom. I wouldn't have batted an eyelid personally.

Then again I wouldn't have got married ...

[Alan Partridge]

Any pics of these people?

[Beyond Borders]

(07-08-2014 07:28 AM)Suits Wrote:  

I was disappointed by the ending of your story. I thought that you were going to take her upstairs, bang her hard in the ass, then take a picture of you in the same pose and MMS it to him.

(07-08-2014 08:39 AM)Cr33pin Wrote:  

Dude this story took a turn for the mediocre. I was hoping you was gonna say you took her upstairs and went ass to mouth with her and took a video then hit her with a Peter North facial and snaped a pic and sent them back to the guy....
Thats how I would have played it out. I would have at least sent him a pic of my freakishly large white dick....

Sorry to disappoint you guys. My poor little heart was involved - I dated this girl for a couple years and the pic was really out of left field. And I was in a bad position because at this time I was hiding from some dangerous people who even had the local pigs trying to hunt me down and preparing to flee the country - I was not in strong emotional place.

If it makes you feel any better, I did take the sex to freakish new levels when we started fucking again. She was trying her hardest to win me back, so anything goes became the norm, and I took my liberties for sure.

Also, I hardly have a freakishly large white dick. haha Nor a camera on my phone to photograph it...

Oh well, you work with what you've got. Not every story can be a doozy.

[Beyond Borders]

As for the story in the OP, if the woman led me to believe she was a virgin or something, and I thought that's what I bought with the marriage, yeah, I'd probably kick her to the curb. That's dishonesty at a major level.

If it was just my wife and I already knew she had other lovers before we hooked up, no, I wouldn't ruin a marriage over some jealous loser ("beta," if we must) sending me old photos.

Assuming, of course, that I believed the pics were new rather than recent. That's the tricky part, especially when your emotions start running high.

[iop890]

(07-08-2014 06:36 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

He kept calling my phone one night all drunk and I picked it up and hollered at him, asked him if he wanted to die in Thai...

How do you ask someone if they want to die in Thai? "Mueng ja'aow mai?" has been my go to line when needed but it's getting stale.

[Beyond Borders]

^ Khun yaak dtai mai?!

Actually, I always said it with a different pronoun that sounds something like "Mueng" instead of "Khun."

I think "mueng" is a really impolite way to address someone, but not entirely sure. It could just be from Chiang Mai dialect too. I saw a guy say this phrase in a Thai movie one time while holding a gun to some monk's head, and I started hollering it at my Thai friends when we were drinking, and it always got a laugh.

That was the first (and only) time I ever said it to someone in a serious manner. There's almost nothing worse you can say to a Thai; you'd be better off calling them a water buffalo (which you should never do).

Of course, asking someone if they want to die in any culture is probably a bad idea, but in American culture, people often say "I'm going to kill you, etc" when they're just exchanging fighting words. In Thai culture, even making a joke about death is super taboo because they're so suspicious. So a threat like that is way overboard.

Fortunately for me, the guy in question was a coward and probably didn't have a lot of power.

[iop890]

(07-09-2014 02:22 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

^ Khun yaak dtai mai?!

Actually, I always said it with a different pronoun that sounds something like "Mueng" instead of "Khun."

I think "mueng" is a really impolite way to address someone, but not entirely sure. It could just be from Chiang Mai dialect too. I saw a guy say this phrase in a Thai movie one time while holding a gun to some monk's head, and I started hollering it at my Thai friends when we were drinking, and it always got a laugh.

Yea, "Mueng" is just the (very) impolite version of "khun".

Cursing in Thai around friends when you barely speak it always gets a laugh, most of the first words I learned here outside formal classes at the Uni were curse words. "Mueng pen hia rai wa?" "Arai kong mueng wa?"

I always make sure to remember phrases that could be useful in gaming/making people laugh/etc. Like lines from popular songs "Mia mee, mia p'tong maa...", or pop culture/memes "Mai mee arai maak!.

My Thai is just decent, but if I'm teasing a girl, ordering food, or calling someone a cunt you'd think I was fluent.