Quote: (07-02-2014 06:18 PM)kaotic Wrote:
Can you give an example with a woman who lost interest in you ?
have trouble showing interest myself. <---what does this mean ?
How many times do you hangout with these girls before they lose interest ?
Are you kissing these girls on the first date, have had sex with any of these girls ? (Details would be very helpful here)
I would absolutely escalate as fast as possible.
simultaneously showing her that I do have other women in my life<---how are you showing this ?
I'm going to be talking about one specific girl here just to make things easier but I'll be applying all the advice to all the women I come across.
She didn't lose total interest but I know it's fading. This whole "make a move fast or she will lose interest" is very new to me. I thought if you kept doing what you were doing, the things that got her interested in the first place, she would stick around no matter how long you took to make a move. Game is really new to me. I used to be 360 pounds and had never even touched a women all throughout high school and 2 years after that. I lost 80 pounds so far and the female attention is finally starting to roll in and I actually have a reason to step my game up. Being 6'4" helps. Nobody wants to fuck somebody who's almost 400 pounds so I never cared. An example, well the only one I can think of is her not texting me anymore, or replying to me. I have since stopped texting her as per the advice I've been reading on a few red pill blogs. ROK, Chateau, etc. I've learned texting can make you look extremely needy. In real life, she's still pretty flirty. Tickles, punches, teases me, sh*t like that. I do the same to her, sometimes I grab her tits when nobody is looking and she gets mad. Not actually mad, more like "OMG stop touching me there! *giggle*"
As far as not showing interest myself, I phrased that wrong. I do show her interest, what I mean is I try and stay in the chased position. "I'm the prize" She knows I like her but I tone it back so I don't come off too pushy or needy. I kino quite a bit, we wrestle, she punches me, pokes my stomach, etc. That's as far as I go, I don't really escalate to dates because again, I'm nervous because I've never done this before. Obviously haven't kissed or fucked her
Hopefully that answers all your questions
Quote: (07-03-2014 01:56 AM)Hallasan Wrote:
How are you showing her you have other girls? This is something they should find out themselves, or assume from your behavior/attitude, not because you're talking about it.
She knows this because she will take my phone and go through my pictures, I have a ton pictures with girls that are my friends that I've known a lifetime. She saw a picture of my coworkers pierced tit she sent me. She'll look at my snapchats and see a video of my 2 friends dancing at a club/bar. I flirt/talk with other women in front of her as well.
Hopefully this aswers everything in this thread so far. Thanks