Hi guys.
I know about pickup for many many many years and so far I basically haven't been able to do a single approach. Most times I can't evne look girls(or people in general) in the eye. I get crazy anxiety.
I figured out my problem is not that I'm a pussy(I've always been the "life of the party" if you will). It's because I sit all day behind a computer screen and almost don't talk to anybody. When I'm home I'm doing the same thing because I'm working on my "startup". This has been going for years and I'm basically stuck in the thinking/creative/"in the head" mode all the freaking time. If I'm not at home or work or a grocery store I'm exercising(no possibility for anything anyway).
I can't get loose, I feel like I can't even enjoy things and have fun anymore(at least not "in public"). I'm too uptight, too closed to the outside world.
And unfortunately this working-too-much thing will be going for some time and I can't think of anything that I could do to get out of this mode.
Socializing here and there doesn't help even a bit, since I'd need a really long exposure to people and no exposure to work for really long time(I'm talking months) to "reset" myself, which is not possible.
So I though maybe I'm missing something I could possibly do to be able to look at a girl and maybe, MAYBE, even approach her?
I know about pickup for many many many years and so far I basically haven't been able to do a single approach. Most times I can't evne look girls(or people in general) in the eye. I get crazy anxiety.
I figured out my problem is not that I'm a pussy(I've always been the "life of the party" if you will). It's because I sit all day behind a computer screen and almost don't talk to anybody. When I'm home I'm doing the same thing because I'm working on my "startup". This has been going for years and I'm basically stuck in the thinking/creative/"in the head" mode all the freaking time. If I'm not at home or work or a grocery store I'm exercising(no possibility for anything anyway).
I can't get loose, I feel like I can't even enjoy things and have fun anymore(at least not "in public"). I'm too uptight, too closed to the outside world.
And unfortunately this working-too-much thing will be going for some time and I can't think of anything that I could do to get out of this mode.
Socializing here and there doesn't help even a bit, since I'd need a really long exposure to people and no exposure to work for really long time(I'm talking months) to "reset" myself, which is not possible.
So I though maybe I'm missing something I could possibly do to be able to look at a girl and maybe, MAYBE, even approach her?