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I hope this is in the right part of the forum.
I'll admit that I'm 24 and still a virgin. To clarify, I do have sexual experience, just not of the penetrative variety.
I disagreed with some of the psychology and methodology presented in John Doe's article though.
He's absolutely right about the mentality of the situation - if you're unwilling to improve yourself, or even make the decision to, then your efforts are doomed to failure in their inception, hence why I've started associating with fellow red-pillers, working out, eating better and approaching more.
However, it's his suggestion of finding a sympathetic prostitute I took issue with.
This has been a subject I've debated to myself over and over again, so the conclusion I've reached for myself may not apply to anyone else here on the forum.
But to purchase sex for the first time is an admittance of defeat.
Since time immemorial, we men have always gained satisfaction and pride from being able to conquer a woman physically and mentally without any outside help. It goes without saying that there's always initial trepidation, but the inability to conquer it without external influence is something that I believe not only cheapens the experience but also leaves a lasting imprint: "I had to pay for my first time."
No matter how much my body may yearn for the physical release, I know that I'd have trouble looking at myself in the mirror the morning after. My pride would be wounded, my confidence would most likely experience a temporary boost that would be brought to heel as time passed and it would leave me with a temptation to continue to pay for sex as it would be a safe avenue - no emotional involvement, no risk, no possibility of failure and satisfaction guaranteed.
Basically, I can summarize with a quote from one of John Niven's books.
'Sometimes the hard way is the hard way for a reason.'
What are some of your thoughts/responses?
I hope this is in the right part of the forum.
I'll admit that I'm 24 and still a virgin. To clarify, I do have sexual experience, just not of the penetrative variety.
I disagreed with some of the psychology and methodology presented in John Doe's article though.
He's absolutely right about the mentality of the situation - if you're unwilling to improve yourself, or even make the decision to, then your efforts are doomed to failure in their inception, hence why I've started associating with fellow red-pillers, working out, eating better and approaching more.
However, it's his suggestion of finding a sympathetic prostitute I took issue with.
This has been a subject I've debated to myself over and over again, so the conclusion I've reached for myself may not apply to anyone else here on the forum.
But to purchase sex for the first time is an admittance of defeat.
Since time immemorial, we men have always gained satisfaction and pride from being able to conquer a woman physically and mentally without any outside help. It goes without saying that there's always initial trepidation, but the inability to conquer it without external influence is something that I believe not only cheapens the experience but also leaves a lasting imprint: "I had to pay for my first time."
No matter how much my body may yearn for the physical release, I know that I'd have trouble looking at myself in the mirror the morning after. My pride would be wounded, my confidence would most likely experience a temporary boost that would be brought to heel as time passed and it would leave me with a temptation to continue to pay for sex as it would be a safe avenue - no emotional involvement, no risk, no possibility of failure and satisfaction guaranteed.
Basically, I can summarize with a quote from one of John Niven's books.
'Sometimes the hard way is the hard way for a reason.'
What are some of your thoughts/responses?