[OGNorCal707]

How does a girl's relationship with her father affect this? My ex-girlfriend got weirded out when I tried to introduce "daddy talk" in the bedroom, I had been hitting it for a while before I said it, so it wasn't like I said it on the first time. The girl I've been banging lately is 21, wouldn't mind introducing this dynamic, but she's apparently really close with her Dad, so not sure if it would backfire. My gut tells me that it's mostly chicks with "daddy issues" that are into it.

[John Michael Kane]

You don't have to do it in the bedroom. Just pull her in with a kiss and say something like you enjoy spending time with your little girl, or "come to papa" with a warm smile. The bigger the deal you make out of it, the more she will respond as such. If you act like it is perfectly natural and she likes you and feels comfortable around you, she can invest in this frame. Try it, but be subtle and not demanding. Daddy doesn't demand, as you can't demand love from your little one.

[ksbms]

(07-06-2014 02:28 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

Every girls' mind is a mess. No exceptions. They just vary in the degree that they rationalise their cognitive dissonance, and how quickly they give in to pure emotion.

[Malone]

If you disagree then do so like a man, not a bitch.

[kaotic]

My ex LTR would call me papi - (she was close to her dad)

My second to last LTR would call me daddy - (she was close to her dad)

I always introduce it as a joke, see what works better, papi or daddy, most girls will laugh and jokingly call me it, eventually it comes apart of some of the girls routine when talking to me.

[rw95]

(07-06-2014 01:27 PM)Welshguy39 Wrote:  

It seems every chick I bang recently calls me daddy, first there was this cute 24yr old black girl who insisting on calling me daddy while I was fucking her from behind.

Next was this cute little Thai girl who calls me daddy constantly...every text message and every phone call, finally this 19yr Filipino girl called me daddy right from the start.

I don't know if it is because of the age difference, I am 41 and they are generally 15 years younger. It did freak me out at first, but, now is all part of the game.

The strange thing is, all three of these girls are deeply religious and have great relationships with their parents. They are very conservative in public and to look at them you think they are totally innocent, but get them in to the sack and they go wild.

To think ROK needed to write a whole article talking about how the unicorn is extinct! Too bad this thread didn't exist three months ago.

[John Michael Kane]

Hilarious ways of NOT doing it:

[bucky]

(06-03-2014 08:55 PM)SpiderKing Wrote:  

i always figured that song is actually about drugs.

[realologist]

I just recently started having all girls I mess with say "thank you daddy" as I'm doing them a favor or I don't finish it.

I make dinner and get a plate for them "thank you daddy" before I hand it over.

Give them a ride to work, lock the door until they say it and give me a kiss. Then I usually smack them on the ass when they get out.

Take them on a date. "Thank you daddy" before I pay.

At first they were all pissed about it and some resisted harder than others and still do. Some it just became automatic but it sure makes it drip for all of them.

[bucky]

(01-07-2016 01:25 AM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

How does a girl's relationship with her father affect this? My ex-girlfriend got weirded out when I tried to introduce "daddy talk" in the bedroom, I had been hitting it for a while before I said it, so it wasn't like I said it on the first time. The girl I've been banging lately is 21, wouldn't mind introducing this dynamic, but she's apparently really close with her Dad, so not sure if it would backfire. My gut tells me that it's mostly chicks with "daddy issues" that are into it.

to each his own, but i've always felt creeped out when a girl calls me "daddy" or something like that (i've always dated far younger women, so it happens sometimes). a little better when the latinas call me "papi" but still kind of weird.

i do like to say "good girl, good little girl" and such when a woman's sucking me off, and they all seem to like that. it's sort of similar to the "daddy" dynamic so who knows, maybe i'm in the minority here.

[Giovonny]

Right now, I have 2 girls that call me "daddy".

That, in itself, is a monumental achievement for me and literally a sexual fantasy come true. I joined this forum in 2009 because I wanted a harem of thin, pretty, teenage girls (18+). Well, here it is 7 years later and my dreams have finally become a reality.

It's surreal to be honest. I can't believe that a slightly above average looking, working class, 40 year old guy like myself has pretty, young college girls calling me "daddy" and telling me that doing so makes their pussy wet. I'm talking about tight, round, plump little asses stuffed in yoga pants with beautifully flat stomachs and firm, succulent, teenage breasts! (18+)

I am 40. I have a 19 year old and a 20 year old. Both love to call me "daddy".

But, why?

Why do they like to call me "daddy"???

I don't know but here is my best guess...

1) "Daddy" is a popular, mainstream, term used by females to describe their lovers.

Beyonce: "Drunk in love"

"Cigars on ice, cigars on ice
Feeling like an animal with these cameras all in my grill
Flashing lights, flashing lights
You got me faded, faded, faded
Baby, I want you, na na
Can't keep your eyes off my fatty
Daddy, I want you, na na"

--

Usher: "Hey Daddy"

"hey hey hey daddy" -- "Daddys home time to play"

--

Robin Thicke: "Shakin it for daddy"

"Oh daddy"

They see and hear it in music all the time!

2) Movies and television

"50 Shades of Grey"

"Girl Code" (MTV show were college girl fucks her older boss)

3) It's seen as being sort of taboo. which makes it even more exciting to them.

4) It feels good to them. They are little girls who want to be loved. They enjoy it as much as we do.

**

P.S. Both of my girls have a good relationship with their father. It isn't always because they have "daddy issues", sometimes, its just about a girl wanting to submit and trust her lover.

I'm sure there are some "Freudian" type issues at play.

Not all girls like it.

[OGNorCal707]

Nice Gio that's awesome bro, can you expand on how you introduced the "daddy talk" and dynamic into the relationship. Did you start with it in the bedroom or outside the bedroom? Did the girls get into right away or were they kind of shy, confused, or did not react? With my last ex, I'm pretty sure I said something to the effect of "you love Daddy's big dick" while I was fucking her, and she didn't really seem into it, and then later told me that it weirded her out and that she'd prefer if I didn't say it again.

Personally I'm only interested in "daddy talk" in the bedroom, I know some guys suggested that I say it to them playfully in a different context. I think I may just try it in the bedroom with my latest chick and feel out her reaction, if it weirds her out then not say it again. If there is a certain formula that seems to work though I'm all ears.

[Beyond Borders]

^ OG, think of it like undressing a woman for the first time. You don't just walk up to her and tear her shirt off first time you've got her alone.

You get her to take her shoes off and get comfortable. You touch her more in "safe" places. You move your hands closer to the the things you really want to touch, maybe touching her stomach or gently squeezing her tits through her shirt or running your finger along the bottom of her bra, gauging interest and finally unsnapping that bad boy with your one hand like a pro when it's go-time.

Even then you've got work ahead before you pull her pants and pannies off.

I mean, this is all assuming she doesn't get hot and heavy back right off the bat, at which point you are free to skip the foreplay and tear each other's clothes off...

Same thing with something like this.

Start it as an out-of-the-bedroom thing. Let it become a running joke until she's doing it on her own - correct her like VV talks about when she doesn't do it. When she starts doing it herself with a sly smile all the time, she is buying into the fantasy.

Then start exprerimenting with getting more bold and sexual with it.

Roosh's "don't scare the cat" metaphor is also as apt for pushing her boundaries as it is on more standard approach and seduction.

Here's the thing. Getting her to call you "daddy" in bed (or at all) is effective because it's shocking and taboo - and because it recognizes you as an "authority," which is something American women especially aren't always quick to submit to. One one level, there may be some sexual perversion tied to it, but it's also largely a dominance thing and very psychological.

That means, unfortunately, unless you already own her psychologically based on other work you've put in - enough that she'll jump on board with whatever bedroom stunts you yank out of your bag of tricks - you're going to have to put in the work outside of the bedroom to prime the pump before you start getting all "daddy's dick" on her.

I mean, I say unfortunately only because you said you only want to do it in the bedroom...honestly, the working up to stuff like that is a large part of the fun. Sure, her calling you Daddy while you're nailing her might be hot, but tell me it won't stroke your ego when you send her to the fridge for a beer and she throws a sweet and sexy "yes Daddy" at you. And then you've got a running point of reference you can leverage to get her doing other things for you.

There's also this.

If she only does it in the bedroom - it's an act you put on for your sexual play and it may not be fully real to her.

If you have her calling you daddy all the time, on the other hand, it can eventually become the fulcrum of your relationship. And sure, it's okay to have just-for-the-bedroom fantasies," but blending the lines between the bedroom and the "real world" as much as possible makes things a lot more exciting. Not to mention how much this particular blended line can stack the deck in your favor.

Hell, I remember growing up there were old guys around who had their women calling them daddy even in front of everyone else - that's game. You don't hear that stuff all that much anymore.

Bottom line: Once she really starts to not just call you "daddy" but actually submits to that frame of reference, that's way more rewarding, in and out of the sack, than any temporary sexual role playing could ever be.

In any case, Man, have fun with it. It's all part of the dance.

[1026]

I'm in.

Used to exercise this in my game tool kit.

I feel it features into compliance.

So running this on my plates.

When she refers to me as 'daddy'
I just envision her hot pocket calling for me.

[BadgerHut]

Growing up in hardcore second-/third-wave feminism, I was brainwashed into thinking that women thought older guys were disgusting...then you find out via reality that not only have man-older pairings been a norm amongst (normal, non-sex-slaved) cultures over history, but that women today respond to this stuff positively, if only as a contrast to the wimpy pasty guys that have proliferated.

[Giovonny]

(01-09-2016 01:49 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

Gio, can you expand on how you introduced the "daddy talk" into the relationship.

With these two girls, my method was the same:

I start eating their pussy.. Then, after a few minutes, I told them to call me daddy.

They both obliged.

"eat my pussy daddy"

"fuck me daddy"

"you are my daddy"

"i wanna suck daddy"

'cum in my mouth daddy"

One they say it for the first time, I have them repeat it dozens of times throughout the night.

After that, it just becomes part of our everyday vernacular.

I use it a lot during texting:

"do u miss your daddy"

"good night daddy"

"thank you daddy"

"my pussy belongs to you daddy"

-----

But, there is more...

I don't just say it and have them say it, we live it!

I treat them like they are my little girls. I call them "daddys little girl", "daddys little princess", etc.

I talk to them like a father figure would. I give them sound guidance, advice, and support, I encourage and allow them to express their feelings and emotions, I act as a mentor, I teach them about life. (I give them the same advice that I would give young men on this forum)

I discipline my girls with spankings when they are bad.

"Daddy" is not just a word, its a relationship status.

Everyone needs love, guidance, and support.

Young girls have this idealistic fantasy that a handsome older man will sweep them off their feet and protect them, nurture them, ravish them.

Both of my girls are relatively new to San Francisco, they came here when they were 18, all by themselves. They needed a friend, lover, companion, mentor, guide.

They found me.

Actually, I found them when I approached them on their respective college "campussys".

I prefer to have only have one girl but if I happen to have two, I will manage it and make it work for as long as possible.

I just turned 40. My sex life is as enjoyable as ever.

@Beyond Borders -- Great post!

[AneroidOcean]

If your girl doesn't like "daddy" you can substitute the following:

Master
Sir / Yes, Sir
Mr. Your Last Name

Also:

"Who owns that pussy"

"I'm going to fuck you so good you won't be able to think about anything else but me fucking you"

"Ask me for permission to come"

[rw95]

(01-10-2016 12:54 PM)BadgerHut Wrote:  

Growing up in hardcore second-/third-wave feminism, I was brainwashed into thinking that women thought older guys were disgusting...then you find out via reality that not only have man-older pairings been a norm amongst (normal, non-sex-slaved) cultures over history, but that women today respond to this stuff positively, if only as a contrast to the wimpy pasty guys that have proliferated.

Let's see how much longer that lasts. I'm sure there will be a law somewhere down the line where men are forbidden from forming relationships with women more than 3-5 years younger than they.

[eskimobobseal]

"Daddy" kinda weirds me out, I don't want the girl I'm fucking to call me her father. That's a bit odd.

I prefer "master"

[BrewDog]

They throw out the "Poppi" pretty fast here in Colombia. If I were a younger man or if they were older, then it might not hit so close to home. But yeah, it weirds me out. I don't want some 24 year old calling me poppi.

[John Michael Kane]

Quote:

I use it a lot during texting:

"do u miss your daddy"

"good night daddy"

"thank you daddy"

-----

But, there is more...

I don't just say it and have them say it, we live it!

I treat them like they are my little girls. I call them "daddys little girl", "daddys little princess", etc.

I talk to them like a father figure would. I give them sound guidance, advice, and support, I encourage and allow them to express their feelings and emotions, I act as a mentor, I teach them about life. [i](I give them the same advice that I would give young men on this forum)

I discipline my girls with spankings when they are bad.

"Daddy" is not just a word, its a relationship status.

Everyone needs love, guidance, and support.

Quoted for emphasis. I just turned 33, and dating girls 10 years or more younger isn't a problem as long as you hold a rock solid frame that you are their leader. My dad taught me this from a young age, that women desire strength above all. Remember, all that silly feminist posturing is just a cry for help, and the desire to rest their heads against a strong, masculine man's chest. No, a woman doesn't really want to be in charge. She wants to a student of a worthy instructor. Give a girl a strong sense of paternalistic love and she'll be hooked.

[spygoat]

(04-15-2016 12:34 PM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

Quote:

I use it a lot during texting:

"do u miss your daddy"

"good night daddy"

"thank you daddy"

-----

But, there is more...

I don't just say it and have them say it, we live it!

I treat them like they are my little girls. I call them "daddys little girl", "daddys little princess", etc.

I talk to them like a father figure would. I give them sound guidance, advice, and support, I encourage and allow them to express their feelings and emotions, I act as a mentor, I teach them about life. [i](I give them the same advice that I would give young men on this forum)

I discipline my girls with spankings when they are bad.

"Daddy" is not just a word, its a relationship status.

Everyone needs love, guidance, and support.

Quoted for emphasis. I just turned 33, and dating girls 10 years or more younger isn't a problem as long as you hold a rock solid frame that you are their leader. My dad taught me this from a young age, that women desire strength above all. Remember, all that silly feminist posturing is just a cry for help, and the desire to rest their heads against a strong, masculine man's chest. No, a woman doesn't really want to be in charge. She wants to a student of a worthy instructor. Give a girl a strong sense of paternalistic love and she'll be hooked.

Couldn't have said it better myself my man.

[John Michael Kane]

Cross posted from my Favorite Things Girls have said post here:

thread-29217...pid1629375

Quote:

When one of my girlfriends was acting up and being a pain, I told her bend over the knees and slide down her shorts and panties.

Her response: "Papa, I know I've been bad. I'm just a girl, but I deserve what's coming." Spanked her extra hard with my belt leather and then proceeded to pound her sore bottom. Afterward, she was crying and smiling in my arms, turning to me to say: "Thank you papa, I needed that."

She didn't give me any more backtalk.

Same girl:

"I love it when you cum in me daddy, that way I can take part of you to work with me." Thought that was really cute. Smile

"Ouch papa, I wasn't made for something this big."

And...

(While shes holding her abs): "Papa, you're tickling my bellybutton from the inside." Blew my load right away when she said this. lol (She was super tiny and tight.)

"Your chest is the best pillow ever. I love you daddy." She would always fall asleep on top of me, the romantic in me loves those moments. Heart

"Papa, when you come home, I want you to take me. You own me and I want you to have what is yours."

After a vigorous session I collapsed on top her and shes hugging me, she whispered:

"You open my pussy and my heart up so well. You're the best daddy ever."

Damn. I love submissive, sweetheart girls. They are like a drug.

[Fortis]

I find this frame works well in China. im 8 years older than my current girl so she calls me 'master' or 'daddy.'

[John Michael Kane]

Fortis, did she introduce it or you? I take it she is naturally submissive? I tend to select for submissive women from the get-go. I had a Chinese girlfriend once that was a bit of a hard case who couldn't let her walls down enough to act submissive and was a major reason why I dropped her. Would you say that the average Chinese girl is into daddy/papa talk/roles, providing you bring the loving dominance?

I'm interested to see how this works across cultures.

I can speak from experience with multiple Filipinas that they all loved being "daddy's little girl" or "daddy's little princess". Most Filipinas are very submissive if you love them with a healthy sense of paternal guidance. For the men who have posted in this thread, what countries were the girls from who liked this, versus those who didn't? I'm curious now about this as a cultural/international borders inquiry.