[Alpharius]

Again the forum has perfect timing in relevance to my life.

Brought home a delightful 18 year old, just graduated high school 2 months ago and is all eager and excited for college later this month. We were sitting on the couch and she asks if I'm into daddy/daughter play. I say sure. After all, I've had girls call me daddy and master before, why not? How would this time be any different?

As soon as I said I was open to say, she came straight over to me and whispered, "Are you sure I can call you... daddy?"

Fast forward six hours of the hottest and verbally dirtiest sex I've ever had.

Ho. Lee. She. It.

"Is daddy going to punish me for this? Is daddy going to slap his little girl across the face with his cock as a punishment?"
"I want daddy to cum deep inside his little girl."

So of course just as I get home the next day, sore and exhausted from no sleep I get a text, "Does daddy want his little girl in bed next to him tonight?"

You guys know how I answered and exactly what happened.

[MikeS]

Seems like such a bizarre word to use. I frankly think I would be somewhat disturbed if a girl called me daddy. But then I'm not a native English speaker and I don't remember banging any native English speakers, though a few might have slipped through on vacations in the past.
I can't think of any non-disturbing sexual use of the equivalent word in my native language whatsoever, and I'm not sure about the local language here as I don't speak enough Bulgarian yet - so far I've certainly not had any reason to connect татко to anything sexual either. It's something little kids say to get the attention of their father. Or mommy and daddy calling each other such in the presence of their children.

[churros]

(08-11-2017 09:35 PM)Alpharius Wrote:  

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Awesome. I really like this idea, but I've only tried to introduce it once, and it didn't go smoothly.

[Alpharius]

(08-11-2017 09:42 PM)churros Wrote:  

(08-11-2017 09:35 PM)Alpharius Wrote:  

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Awesome. I really like this idea, but I've only tried to introduce it once, and it didn't go smoothly.

After having this earlier this week, I'm just going to insist on it from here on out. Not make it a deal breaker or anything, but definitely encourage girls to call me daddy and just call them my baby/little girl. I imagine most of them will pick up on it if I drop it at the right time.

Not sure how to embed this but "I like it a lot!"
https://getyarn.io/yarn-clip/93a64782-88...7326d25e2b

[John Michael Kane]

(08-11-2017 09:35 PM)Alpharius Wrote:  

Again the forum has perfect timing in relevance to my life.

Brought home a delightful 18 year old, just graduated high school 2 months ago and is all eager and excited for college later this month. We were sitting on the couch and she asks if I'm into daddy/daughter play. I say sure. After all, I've had girls call me daddy and master before, why not? How would this time be any different?

As soon as I said I was open to say, she came straight over to me and whispered, "Are you sure I can call you... daddy?"

Fast forward six hours of the hottest and verbally dirtiest sex I've ever had.

Ho. Lee. She. It.

"Is daddy going to punish me for this? Is daddy going to slap his little girl across the face with his cock as a punishment?"
"I want daddy to cum deep inside his little girl."

So of course just as I get home the next day, sore and exhausted from no sleep I get a text, "Does daddy want his little girl in bed next to him tonight?"

You guys know how I answered and exactly what happened.

Just out of curosity Alpharius, how old are you, and how did you meet this 18 year old? Of the girls that I've pulled of the daddy/papa role with, I've been 32-34 at the time, the girls have been as young as 18 and as old as 28.

(08-11-2017 09:40 PM)MikeS Wrote:  

Seems like such a bizarre word to use. I frankly think I would be somewhat disturbed if a girl called me daddy. But then I'm not a native English speaker and I don't remember banging any native English speakers, though a few might have slipped through on vacations in the past.
I can't think of any non-disturbing sexual use of the equivalent word in my native language whatsoever, and I'm not sure about the local language here as I don't speak enough Bulgarian yet - so far I've certainly not had any reason to connect татко to anything sexual either. It's something little kids say to get the attention of their father. Or mommy and daddy calling each other such in the presence of their children.

It might seem a little odd, but then again you have to remember what a daddy is. It is a protector. The first man that she ever rested on his chest and fell asleep on. The first man that made her feel safe. There's something deep about the female mind that enjoys having someone watch over them. Girls don't really want feminism or to be in charge. They want daddy to be in charge, someone who can make choices for them and give them direction. Is it any wonder that the ball-buster careerist chicks would be least likely to try daddy as a role? It is because to have daddy/daddy's little girl you have to show vulnerability, something that many women have lost. The smart ones realize that they like letting their man be in charge. The taboo these days is that men shouldn't be in charge, so when a woman asks for daddy to take control, she's being a bit of a rebel, which is more in line with natural and is a great bonding experience.

Don't get hung up on the wording, think more about the feelings of paternalistic love you give her.

[Batman_]

I had a girl call me "Mister" once. I really liked that. And part of me would love to have a girl call me "Daddy" because like others have pointed out, it's a sign that you're fulfilling your role perfectly in the dynamic. But I can't help but get creeped out by it. Maybe I would get used to it after a while.

[Alpharius]

(08-12-2017 07:04 AM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

(08-11-2017 09:35 PM)Alpharius Wrote:  

Again the forum has perfect timing in relevance to my life.

Brought home a delightful 18 year old, just graduated high school 2 months ago and is all eager and excited for college later this month. We were sitting on the couch and she asks if I'm into daddy/daughter play. I say sure. After all, I've had girls call me daddy and master before, why not? How would this time be any different?

As soon as I said I was open to say, she came straight over to me and whispered, "Are you sure I can call you... daddy?"

Fast forward six hours of the hottest and verbally dirtiest sex I've ever had.

Ho. Lee. She. It.

"Is daddy going to punish me for this? Is daddy going to slap his little girl across the face with his cock as a punishment?"
"I want daddy to cum deep inside his little girl."

So of course just as I get home the next day, sore and exhausted from no sleep I get a text, "Does daddy want his little girl in bed next to him tonight?"

You guys know how I answered and exactly what happened.

Just out of curosity Alpharius, how old are you, and how did you meet this 18 year old? Of the girls that I've pulled of the daddy/papa role with, I've been 32-34 at the time, the girls have been as young as 18 and as old as 28.

I'm 30, we met on OKC. She was looking for an older man to wine and dine her before she started college, I'm on the hunt for anything under 25. One thing I noticed is that this girl has deep, deep daddy issues and can't go more than 30 minutes without noting some similarity between myself and her actual father - books we read, taste in music, career, etc...

[roberto]

Having dated a girl who was seriously into Daddy play, I pretty quickly got sick of it and found a less needy girl. Each to their own.

[MikeS]

(08-12-2017 07:04 AM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

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(08-11-2017 09:40 PM)MikeS Wrote:  

Seems like such a bizarre word to use. I frankly think I would be somewhat disturbed if a girl called me daddy. But then I'm not a native English speaker and I don't remember banging any native English speakers, though a few might have slipped through on vacations in the past.
I can't think of any non-disturbing sexual use of the equivalent word in my native language whatsoever, and I'm not sure about the local language here as I don't speak enough Bulgarian yet - so far I've certainly not had any reason to connect татко to anything sexual either. It's something little kids say to get the attention of their father. Or mommy and daddy calling each other such in the presence of their children.

It might seem a little odd, but then again you have to remember what a daddy is. It is a protector. The first man that she ever rested on his chest and fell asleep on. The first man that made her feel safe. There's something deep about the female mind that enjoys having someone watch over them. Girls don't really want feminism or to be in charge. They want daddy to be in charge, someone who can make choices for them and give them direction. Is it any wonder that the ball-buster careerist chicks would be least likely to try daddy as a role? It is because to have daddy/daddy's little girl you have to show vulnerability, something that many women have lost. The smart ones realize that they like letting their man be in charge. The taboo these days is that men shouldn't be in charge, so when a woman asks for daddy to take control, she's being a bit of a rebel, which is more in line with natural and is a great bonding experience.

Don't get hung up on the wording, think more about the feelings of paternalistic love you give her.

Good explanation. Doesn't quite get rid of the incestuous word connotations for me though - I actually vaguely remember having the exact same feeling many years ago when I watched some latina porn for what might have been the first time and heard them say papi (I don't speak Spanish but that word was obviously quite easy to comprehend).

It's possible I would feel different in the situation but on the other hand I think I'll very happily sail through life without feeling I'm missing out on a particular sexual delicacy if no girl I'm banging ever calls me daddy.

[Alpharius]

(08-12-2017 06:50 PM)MikeS Wrote:  

It's possible I would feel different in the situation but on the other hand I think I'll very happily sail through life without feeling I'm missing out on a particular sexual delicacy if no girl I'm banging ever calls me daddy.

Blindfold her, handcuff her hands behind her back, bend her over, then make her call you master. Same feeling, different word.

[MikeS]

(08-12-2017 06:55 PM)Alpharius Wrote:  

(08-12-2017 06:50 PM)MikeS Wrote:  

It's possible I would feel different in the situation but on the other hand I think I'll very happily sail through life without feeling I'm missing out on a particular sexual delicacy if no girl I'm banging ever calls me daddy.

Blindfold her, handcuff her hands behind her back, bend her over, then make her call you master. Same feeling, different word.

I've done the physical parts with several girls but my verbosity during sex is usually limited to position and other physical directions, and grunting. Maybe I'll try it some day, although I'm still kind of failing to feel the allure of telling a woman to call me anything but my name or whatever the hell she might feel like that's not an insult. "Master" doesn't sound creepy to me, merely a little silly.
But obviously we all have our own ways to enjoy sex. I couldn't quite get on board with the eating booty thread either.

[Werekoala]

My current girl is >-< this close to full-time "daddy" talk. When we first got together she would call me "sir" when we did things like ass spanking, when I gave her commands (gently, of course), etc. because of a prior Dom/Sub relationship she was in. Honestly, being called "sir" was off-putting (I'm not a naturally "dominant" type), but I took the hint early on that she was submissive and started guiding her into a more Daddy/Babygirl direction.

So far it's working. I get the impression that my more gentle hand is leading her to start breaking training from the prior relationship (which is good in a way - the guy before was actually abusive from all I've gathered so far), so it's a bit of a tightrope walk. I don't want to lose the upper hand entirely, but I don't want to be a true Dom.

That said, she still says and does all the right things to indicate that she wants/needs to be submissive and part of a true daddy's girl type relationship. I sent her a cutsie two-panel comic I found that has the girl saying "I have to warn you, I'm an animal in bed" with the next panel showing her with big eyes peaking out from the covers saying "Pet me and bring me food!", which is exactly her nature. I sent it to her and said "Do you want me to pet your tummy and give you gummy bears?" and she said "Yes, daddy, I'd love that!"

There's something to be said for it, gentlemen.

[John Michael Kane]

Werekoala, how old are you and how old is she?

[Werekoala]

I'm 48, she's 21 1/2 (yes, still young enough to count half-years).

Side note - she has a pet turtle that stays outside and that she adores. She asked me earlier (during some big storms) if I thought he'd be ok. I reassured her that turtles have built-in storm shelters so he'd be fine, and when winter comes he can stay inside and watch movies and have snacks with us. You'd have been amazed at the reaction that got.

Babygirl's gonna baby.

[John Michael Kane]

I think that speaks to the heart of why some girls really like this kind of relationship. You showed her that you care about her feminine desire to nurture, even if it is just a turtle.

[Werekoala]

The winter bit wasn't my idea, she specifically asked if he could stay inside in the winter. It wasn't a huge leap to put two and two together on that one, but some guys would miss that easy ball over the plate. It was totally worth it, however.

Further side note: Don't get the impression that a babygirl is necessarily completely dependent/immature - this girl is working two jobs and finishing college and, in my opinion, is very smart and has a good business head on her shoulders.

[Hypno]

Women naturally are drawn to dominant men. Even though some can provide for themselves, they are wired to prefer to let the man make decisions and do manly things. When either of you put things in this frame or roles, and you both buy into it, there is an increased level of comfort/pleasure.

An analogy would be a home cooked meal. Men can afford to go to a steakhouse or cook a steak on a grill themselves. But you can't replace having a woman fuss over you at the dinner table; the meal tastes better for both of you.

As difficult as it is for us men to find feminine women, its equally difficult for women to find red pill men.

[WilliamDoor]

(08-12-2017 11:38 AM)roberto Wrote:  

Having dated a girl who was seriously into Daddy play, I pretty quickly got sick of it and found a less needy girl. Each to their own.

If I had a gun to my balls and had to pick a girl who is more or less needy, I would pick the more needy girl.

A girl who is less needy, well, needs you less. She is a pawn of the 3rd wave bitch war. If she does not need me, then I do not want her. Her sense of self worth is too much.

The needy girl may annoy you at times, but she will need and love you. You are her God. Her sense of self worth comes from you.

Sure, it would be ideal to have a girl who has a bit of both, but often we do not get to choose.

Some good posts from the past:

http://mattforney.com/case-female-self-esteem/
http://mattforney.com/crush-girls-self-esteem/

She can call me daddy any time.

[ExploringReality]

After reading this thread I decided to implement Daddy Game. Well, it works. I cringed the first time but then it was hot. I know her dad. I love and hate this place.

[Alpharius]

(08-14-2017 11:56 AM)ExploringReality Wrote:  

After reading this thread I decided to implement Daddy Game. Well, it works. I cringed the first time but then it was hot. I know her dad. I love and hate this place.

Yesssss... join us.

[Darkwing Buck]

I love when girls call me daddy. One of my biggest turn ons. Can't even fathom guys who don't get it.

[John Michael Kane]

In a state of nature, not a state of feminist SJW nonsense, a daddy is someone who you loves you, and you love him back. But you also have to obey daddy and listen to him. It sets the perfect frame from a submissiveness standpoint. That if you're not an abusive man taking advantage of a naturally submissive girl, she can feel comfortable knowing that you'll give her direction without her having to worry about making decisions quite as often. As a man, we enjoy having authority, even if it is in our personal relationships. I doubt there are many girls who call their man daddy all the time who are also very disrespectful or shit test him constantly. You treat daddy well because he's your leader. Besides the turn-on factor, I think daddy is a super important role for minimizing shit-tests in a LTR. It is a game tool as much as it is vocabulary.

[xmlenigma]

Any wisdom / knowledge on how this started and got home 2 months back?

(08-11-2017 09:35 PM)Alpharius Wrote:  

Again the forum has perfect timing in relevance to my life.

Brought home a delightful 18 year old, just graduated high school 2 months ago and is all eager and excited for college later this month. We were sitting on the couch and she asks if I'm into daddy/daughter play. I say sure. After all, I've had girls call me daddy and master before, why not? How would this time be any different?

As soon as I said I was open to say, she came straight over to me and whispered, "Are you sure I can call you... daddy?"

Fast forward six hours of the hottest and verbally dirtiest sex I've ever had.

Ho. Lee. She. It.

"Is daddy going to punish me for this? Is daddy going to slap his little girl across the face with his cock as a punishment?"
"I want daddy to cum deep inside his little girl."

So of course just as I get home the next day, sore and exhausted from no sleep I get a text, "Does daddy want his little girl in bed next to him tonight?"

You guys know how I answered and exactly what happened.

[xmlenigma]

I like this play. Once set up as long as you can hold your center it gives you some more sway than without..

I was thinking about verbal and subliminal introduction..

If she says something responding with "daddy/ papi's got this"

Also I am thinking "movies /TV shows" which have some such elements would be gold to set up the "words" and role play.. Watch such a movie together and play that, that night..

It reminded me of "Chasing Papi" where all 3 girls call him Papi. He's a Stud, but kinda AFC while playing all 3 girls and when he gets caught.. Poof!

But when he's with the 3 girls at the start of movie.. With each they call him Papi..

So, anyone got any MOVIES / TV show characters we can leverage the "PAPI" .. or "DADDY" ?

Please do share. Media is the best way to ReProgram the Fems into Red Pill that have been.. well ..

[Alpharius]

(08-16-2017 05:54 AM)xmlenigma Wrote:  

Any wisdom / knowledge on how this started and got home 2 months back?

Started with me messaging her on OKC. I'm not sure what my actual ratio of messages to booty on there is, but I was pretty surprised when she responded and didn't actually flake.

Honestly the SA thread has been a game changer for me in how I think of meeting girls online. I'd suggest reading through it. It'll make Tinder and OKC much more understandable for how women think online and what they're really looking for as opposed to what they say they're looking for.