I ask this because not everyone likes to hit up bars/clubs every other night of the week, so meeting girls in such a setting would require you to do something/be somewhere you wouldn't enjoying doing/being. At the same token, not everyone likes to meet up for drinks or go venue hopping downtown.
For example - I don't drink or smoke or anything. Substance use just isn't my thing, and I despise the bar/club scene personally. I tend to be a bit reclusive as I have a lot of personal interests, hobbies, and passions that occupy the majority of my waking non-working hours. These days I primarily meet girls on online dating sites because it's quick, convenient, and I can do it from my phone when I have a few free minutes to plow through profiles and send/respond to messages. Either than that I might meet a girl out of convenience (at a show my band is playing, through other friends, or day game). Obviously, I'm not really one to "meet up for drinks" and I don't drink coffee or tea or any of that bullshit so I tailor my dates to my personal preference.
Weather permitting I try to meet up with the girl somewhere with scenic places to walk. Walks are great because you're doing an activity together that is also visually engaging by taking in your surroundings, and it's great for dialogue. Plus you can stop here and there during your walk, find a spot to lean in for a kiss etc. I'll usually try to segway into getting back to my place somehow (get a bite to eat and take it back to watch a movie/listen to music/whatever). I'll often times (if she is comfortable enough) just try to have a girl come over under the premise of watching a movie together and making dinner or something. It's low key, private, etc. That's my style so I try to make it work that way.
Obviously I'm not exactly slaying strange pussy every week with my laid back, low-key, anti-social lifestyle game, but I've tagged 6 unique notches in the past 5 months like this and a couple of them are regular rotation gals. It's worth noting that I go through spells too. I piped like 3 different girls in a 2 week period then 1 or 2 over the next month. I like banging girls but I don't compromise what I like to do with my time in lieu of getting more pussy. Just wondering how everyone else tailors their game to fit their lifestyle.
For example - I don't drink or smoke or anything. Substance use just isn't my thing, and I despise the bar/club scene personally. I tend to be a bit reclusive as I have a lot of personal interests, hobbies, and passions that occupy the majority of my waking non-working hours. These days I primarily meet girls on online dating sites because it's quick, convenient, and I can do it from my phone when I have a few free minutes to plow through profiles and send/respond to messages. Either than that I might meet a girl out of convenience (at a show my band is playing, through other friends, or day game). Obviously, I'm not really one to "meet up for drinks" and I don't drink coffee or tea or any of that bullshit so I tailor my dates to my personal preference.
Weather permitting I try to meet up with the girl somewhere with scenic places to walk. Walks are great because you're doing an activity together that is also visually engaging by taking in your surroundings, and it's great for dialogue. Plus you can stop here and there during your walk, find a spot to lean in for a kiss etc. I'll usually try to segway into getting back to my place somehow (get a bite to eat and take it back to watch a movie/listen to music/whatever). I'll often times (if she is comfortable enough) just try to have a girl come over under the premise of watching a movie together and making dinner or something. It's low key, private, etc. That's my style so I try to make it work that way.
Obviously I'm not exactly slaying strange pussy every week with my laid back, low-key, anti-social lifestyle game, but I've tagged 6 unique notches in the past 5 months like this and a couple of them are regular rotation gals. It's worth noting that I go through spells too. I piped like 3 different girls in a 2 week period then 1 or 2 over the next month. I like banging girls but I don't compromise what I like to do with my time in lieu of getting more pussy. Just wondering how everyone else tailors their game to fit their lifestyle.