Quote: (05-02-2014 01:28 PM)tawillionaire Wrote:
Problem is, I don't even know where to start.
Day Game starts the moment you walk out of your front door!
As soon as you leave your house, be ready to talk to any cute girl you see.
That's all Day Game is..
Talking to girls in public! You don't need any special routines, lines, or theories.
When you see a cute girl, talk to her. It's that simple.
You can Direct --
"hey you look nice today"
Or,
You can go Indirect --
"excuse me, does this train go downtown"
Don't over think it. Keep it simple.
Saying SOMETHING is better than saying NOTHING.
You will embarrass yourself, you will make mistakes, don't get discouraged, you are a newbie in training, allow yourself to make mistakes, a lot of this is "trial and error", every cute girl you see is an opportunity for practice, be more agressive!
Quote: (05-02-2014 08:07 AM)tawillionaire Wrote:
I run into women everywhere I go.
Talk to them!
"hi how are you?"
"i like your dress"
"are those ear rings from africa?"
"how do you cook those things"
"are these ones any good"
"hey is the movie theatre around here?"
"you look great today, whats your name?"
"are you from out of town?"
"cool boots"
"excuse me, i saw you over there and i have to ask you, are you from portugal?"
"hey you ready for the yankees game"
"did you see that guy going crazy over there? what a whacko!"
Just say something!
Quote: (05-02-2014 08:07 AM)tawillionaire Wrote:
How do you run day game?
Don't look at it as "running day game".
Just TALK to girls.
Just have a normal conversation. Except,
try to find a common connection between the two of you, find something in common to talk about, use this commonality to build a connection with her. Try to identify her interests and passions, probe these interests, ask about them. Stay light-hearted and use humor.
If you get any momentum going, ask her if she wants to talk again sometime..
"lets grab a drink or something sometime, i'll show you my pics from brazil"
"lets discuss this over coffee tmw"
"hey i gotta run but can i take your number and maybe take you out for a drink later?"
"lets chat again sometime"
Etc, etc.
Quote: (05-02-2014 08:07 AM)tawillionaire Wrote:
Do you pick a spot and stick with it (like a coffee shop) or do you bounce around?
Personally, I like to bounce around because staying in one spot usually limits the amount of girls you will see.
How many approachable girls will be in a coffee shop? Maybe 3-5? It's hard to approach all of them in a short period of time..
I would rather "bounce around" a
major university and be surrounded by thousands of approachable girls, literally.
Quote: (05-02-2014 08:07 AM)tawillionaire Wrote:
2) Lets say I'm at a park like Washington Square or Central Park. Any ideas of what to do when I'm by myself? (As in what's my "excuse" to be at the park?)
Just say you are "meeting some friends in a few minutes".
Or, say that you are walking through the park because you "need to think about a business idea".
Or, say that you are "headed to a store/market" that is near the park.
Or, say that you just "enjoy walking in the park."
Quote: (05-02-2014 08:07 AM)tawillionaire Wrote:
3) Any of my NYC brothers have ideas of where to go? Last weekend, on a suggestion from an acquaintance, I went solo to brunch in UES and then to the met. Didn't even see a girl worth approaching.
In my opinion, the best places to day game are large universities and busy shopping districts.
Quote: (05-02-2014 01:28 PM)tawillionaire Wrote:
if anyone has any ideas of where I can go to get a couple dozen approaches under my belt.
See above.
(universities and shopping areas)
Quote: (05-02-2014 08:07 AM)tawillionaire Wrote:
Walking around aimlessly like I did last weekend was just a waste of a Saturday.
Yes!
Don't walk around "aimlessly"!
Have a game plan..
If you need to do a few dozen approaches to "get your feet wet" -- Go to a university or fancy shopping area and get your approaches in. Do at least 6-7 per hour.
Or,
If you don't want to block out a period of time just for day gaming -- Just talk to the girls that you run into throughout your normal everyday routine.. At the store, at the bank, on the train, walking down the street, at a coffee shop, etc.
When I was just starting, I did the first method because I needed the practice.. Now, that I have a lot of experience.. I just use the 2nd method..
Quote: (05-02-2014 01:49 PM)tawillionaire Wrote:
Do you wait for after people get off work (6-8 PM) or do you head out in the middle of the day?
Every time I leave my house, I am ready to talk to girls.
8am or 8pm.. If you see a cute girl, talk to her.
Here are a
ton of
examples: