I have been flirting with this bartender on and off for 6 months. At first she had a boyfriend, then she got flirty with me months later and I asked for her number but she would only take mine. Nothing happens.
Fast forward a few months, I still see her about every other week, and usually have fun when I see her.
I just saw her this last week and had a great time hitting on her.
Now yesterday I am at a festival drinking a lot of beer. At the end of the festival someone comes up and spanks me and starts walking quickly away quickly. I notice it's her so I go bear hug her pick her up turn her around and tell her she can't get away with that.
She says hello and is looking cute as hell. I immediately go for the make out, kiss her neck and cheek she lightly resists before making out.
She then leaves to find her friend, 5 minutes later I am overjoyed and talking to my friend that saw the make out go down. A random number calls, it's her asking where I am. We meet up again and start making out while looking for her friend.
Bottom line her friend is gone and she agrees to come smoke out at my place. This was unreal. On the way back she told me my persistence was a major attraction. She comes back we smoke, drink wine, and make out. Her LMR is minimal. She talks to her friend one last time and is given a "free pass". She wanders into the bed room and lays back ready to be fucked.
The clothes come off fast. We are going at it. Up until this point I am so buzzed and euphoric I don't think about it that when I drink a lot of beer and am with a new hot girl I have a really hard time getting it up. I also jerked it earlier that morning.
We were naked and she was patient saying things like I don't have to get to work for a few more hours relax...
It was torture that I couldn't get my dick up. She changed her tune in about 10 minutes of trying to get me up and said she had to go.
I told her she could stay and we could relax. She wasn't biting and my frame was pretty destroyed by this point and it was visible. I was shocked at how good things got then how bad in the span of 45 minutes.
She did tell me when getting dressed that she was hurt more by this than me. She also told me not to worry I look cute naked. I told her I thought she was cool.
She left her an earring, sweatshirt, and blanket at my place.
I left her a text message hours after she left joking about her spanking me at the festival and how I couldn't let her get away with that.
We had never kissed or hung outside her bar before the festival so I felt like I was pretty bold up until my dick couldn't get up.
I am positive the ED was due to the large beer drinking mixed with some performance anxiety although I felt super confident with her the whole time.
My question is what is the next move as far as reframing this positively?
If she doesn't respond to my text from yesterday soon, I have her stuff still and I frequent the bar she works at... what is a good next move?
Fast forward a few months, I still see her about every other week, and usually have fun when I see her.
I just saw her this last week and had a great time hitting on her.
Now yesterday I am at a festival drinking a lot of beer. At the end of the festival someone comes up and spanks me and starts walking quickly away quickly. I notice it's her so I go bear hug her pick her up turn her around and tell her she can't get away with that.
She says hello and is looking cute as hell. I immediately go for the make out, kiss her neck and cheek she lightly resists before making out.
She then leaves to find her friend, 5 minutes later I am overjoyed and talking to my friend that saw the make out go down. A random number calls, it's her asking where I am. We meet up again and start making out while looking for her friend.
Bottom line her friend is gone and she agrees to come smoke out at my place. This was unreal. On the way back she told me my persistence was a major attraction. She comes back we smoke, drink wine, and make out. Her LMR is minimal. She talks to her friend one last time and is given a "free pass". She wanders into the bed room and lays back ready to be fucked.
The clothes come off fast. We are going at it. Up until this point I am so buzzed and euphoric I don't think about it that when I drink a lot of beer and am with a new hot girl I have a really hard time getting it up. I also jerked it earlier that morning.
We were naked and she was patient saying things like I don't have to get to work for a few more hours relax...
It was torture that I couldn't get my dick up. She changed her tune in about 10 minutes of trying to get me up and said she had to go.
I told her she could stay and we could relax. She wasn't biting and my frame was pretty destroyed by this point and it was visible. I was shocked at how good things got then how bad in the span of 45 minutes.
She did tell me when getting dressed that she was hurt more by this than me. She also told me not to worry I look cute naked. I told her I thought she was cool.
She left her an earring, sweatshirt, and blanket at my place.
I left her a text message hours after she left joking about her spanking me at the festival and how I couldn't let her get away with that.
We had never kissed or hung outside her bar before the festival so I felt like I was pretty bold up until my dick couldn't get up.
I am positive the ED was due to the large beer drinking mixed with some performance anxiety although I felt super confident with her the whole time.
My question is what is the next move as far as reframing this positively?
If she doesn't respond to my text from yesterday soon, I have her stuff still and I frequent the bar she works at... what is a good next move?
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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
Or
Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems