[needsomehelp]

OKAYYYY IM 20 DECENT LOOKING NOT VERY GOOD WITH STARTING UP CONVOS IM FAIRLY SOCIALLY SHY I WOULD NEVER HAVE THE GUTS TO GO UP TO A GIRL AND TALK TO HER ETC I REALLY DONT KNOW HOW TO TAKE THINGS FURTHER LIKE CHAT THEM UP ETC IM NOT SOME LIKE NO MATES OUTCAST OR NUFFIN LOL I GOT PLENTY OF MATES AND WAS IN POPULAR GROUP AT SCHOOL I WEAR DECENT CLOTHES ETC ETC AND IF YOU SAW ME YOU PROBABLY WOULD NEVER GUESS IF A GIRL COME UP TO ME IM THE 1 WORD ANSWER GUY LOL SO NOT GOOOD BASICLY I NEED HELP IN HOW TO GO ABOUT THIS LIKE HOW TO TAALK TO THEM WHAT ABOUT ETC ETC SO AS MUCH INFO AS POSSIBLE
IM ALSO THINKING OF GOING AND TOURING ROUND BRAZIL SO I NEED SOME HELP AS WOULD LOVE TO HAVE A GOOD TIME AND MEET GIRLS THERE

CHEERS

IM HOPING THIS SITE HAS DECENT PEOPLE ON IT NOT WHERE YOUR ALL GONNA JUMP DOWN MA THROAT JUST JUST HELP WOULD BE SWEET

[FretDancer]

You might want to stop making posts in full caps and make use of punctuation marks for starters....

[needsomehelp]

(01-16-2011 09:36 PM)FretDancer Wrote:  

You might want to stop making posts in full caps and make use of punctuation marks for starters....

cheers

[deebow]

That's not a simple question to answer. There are several styles and methods. I'd read "The Game, by Neil Strauss" that should help. There are several steps and techniques behind what you are asking. I wouldn't expect to get a comprehensive answer to your question.

[needsomehelp]

(01-16-2011 11:00 PM)deebow Wrote:  

That's not a simple question to answer. There are several styles and methods. I'd read "The Game, by Neil Strauss" that should help. There are several steps and techniques behind what you are asking. I wouldn't expect to get a comprehensive answer to your question.

ok thanks il take a look at the link things need to be improved otherwise im going to stay single forever lol

[FretDancer]

Also get a hold of some good game blogs. They're very entertaining to read and you learn alot of stuff (depending on your level). Also reading Roosh's posts (even old ones) is also good.

[needsomehelp]

(01-16-2011 11:14 PM)FretDancer Wrote:  

Also get a hold of some good game blogs. They're very entertaining to read and you learn alot of stuff (depending on your level). Also reading Roosh's posts (even old ones) is also good.

well put it this way leval wise im probably right at the bottom i would never go up to a girl reasons are not knowing what to say and rejection but yeah il look at these links for sure i really need to sort my self out chick wise because its bit of a joke really unfortunatly

thanks

[FretDancer]

Approach anxiety is very normal, it doesn't mean you don't have game or ability to attract women though. Nonetheless it will make you get laid alot harder thats for sure.

The only way to deal with that is by actually approaching.

[needsomehelp]

(01-16-2011 11:50 PM)FretDancer Wrote:  

Approach anxiety is very normal, it doesn't mean you don't have game or ability to attract women though. Nonetheless it will make you get laid alot harder thats for sure.

The only way to deal with that is by actually approaching.

yeah i know what you meen, obviously every1 has a slight fear of going up to a girl but i cant really even do that, just dont know what to say and how to lead it into a convosation.Once i remember i was at some party me and a few mates was sitting down I was on a chair facing them and i turned around and not meaning to looked some girl right in the eye then turned around then she obv headed my way and sat on my lap and i just done nothing then after about 45 seconds she got up and left she was a nice looking girl aswell shame tbh.

[FretDancer]

Well, assuming you're not trolling and exagerating you're inability to interact with women...

If you don't know what to say, just ask questions. How's she doing, what does she like, etc. You'd be surprised how much more conversation you can generate with the material you get from a simple question.

Eventually you'll develop ability, and you'll be able to incorporate kino, flirting, negging, pushing and pulling and alot of shit that generates more attraction.

Hell, if that girl just went to sit on your lap I don't think you needed to ask/say much to get lucky.

[Vesuvius]

First of all you can't run from your problems. So scratch Brazil. This might seem strange to you but the opener and chatting up a girl isn't that hard. You just have to put in the work.

I have had similar problems until recently. I went out, got a few drinks, and found a bar where they we're playing eighties rock that I can actually dance to. It was hands up the skirts, kissing on the dance floor, and I actually enjoyed dancing too.

The best remedy for getting out of a slump or getting into a new routine is just doing it.

Study game. Roosh did it and now well, we're on his blog talking about it.

Here's a good opener to start with in your situation. What's your name? My name is so and so. I'm not really good at this sort of thing (Pretend you are! Fake being cocky) but I had to just come over here and talk to you. You seem alright and I'd like to get to know you better. We should go and get a drink.

You can't catch fish unless you put out your bait. Once you get better you can put out stinky, nasty bait for the big fish. Just get used to fishing for now.

[Samseau]

This guy is a troll. *reported*



Guys, think logically for a second: If he really wanted help, why would he type like a fucking assface moron? This is either a fat chick from jeezebel or a nerd from 4chan.

He's making it up as he goes:

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just dont know what to say and how to lead it into a convosation.Once i remember i was at some party me and a few mates was sitting down I was on a chair facing them and i turned around and not meaning to looked some girl right in the eye then turned around then she obv headed my way and sat on my lap and i just done nothing then after about 45 seconds she got up and left she was a nice looking girl aswell shame tbh.