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01-12-2011, 05:15 PM
Hey guys,
I'll try to do this short but it's a long story, I met this girl from Santo Domingo in a club last Saturday. First I met her friend in the bathroom and she invited my friend and I to join her in the VIP.
So we went the 3 in the VIP and I met this girl. We started talking right away (she was way better than the girl in the bathroom, say 8).
Things go well, I rapidly kino escalate and we kiss close. We go out the four of us: my friend, the two girls and I. Then the bathroom girl tells my friend :"you want to fuck with me???" he said" of course" and she said:" well you'll have to pay"...
My friend was absolutely drunk, he went to an ATM to take some cash and gave 200Eur to the girl !! I was telling him: "wtf are u doing !!!" but he didn't pay attention.
Then things go faster, the bathroom girl puts us all in a cab, and tells the driver her address. Inside the car, she gave 100 Eur to my girl and told her that now she has to fuck me !!!
You can imagine how I felt, abused...
We arrived at her appartment and I asked my girl to have a chat. She was very embarassed, I could tell, maybe more than I was. We went to her bedroom and she told me her story. So she is from Dom Republic, she went here to get some cash quickly because someone in her family has important health pb. She started 2 weeks ago, but what she saw on internet is that she could go here and work as an escort girl. More or less go out with guys and sex was just an option only if they paid a lot. It was a trap and when she arrived they put her in this crappy place and forced her to fuck...
She has been crying since she has arrived and she was crying when she was telling me this story.
I felt really sorry for her and I told her that she could keep the money but that we won't have sex for money, that I want it to happen because she wants it not because she was paid. She thanks me and I leave....
The day after she calls me to go out to the cinema.
I said ok, we went there. But things got hotter inside and finally we end up fucking back at my place...
What should I do next? She keeps calling me to have some news, but I'm a little bit afraid of her situation. Some guys were in the apartment and I don't want to have some problem with them lol
Nevertheless I now can see her whenever I want and fuck her, she won't give me shit about being my girlfriend and won't ask me anyting... Is it worth taking the risk?
Note: Here in Madrid a lot of Latinas work as prostitues, they usually come from Columbia, Venezuela, Brasil...
Everytime I go out in a club, it's full of these chicks, they go after their work to dance and maybe find a last client. Usually it's easy to spot them but with this one I didn't think one second she was a pro...Which make me think her story is true, she doesn't want to do this job.
Note bis: While we were at the cine, her phone rang. She went outside to talk and when she came back she told me it was a football player from Real Madrid who just called... So even though she doesn't want to work as a prostitute, she still wants to meet influent people with money....
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01-12-2011, 05:45 PM
Man i personally wouldnt involve with a girl like that, you fucked her,mission is completed so move on. She probably has hidden intentions, if thats not the thing, her environment is not good and you dont want to be caught up in that..there are many other interesting women out there and she aint the only one going thorugh a hard time (which i dont believe she is)..so ignore her and move on.
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01-12-2011, 05:51 PM
Quit being Captain Saveaho.
This chick is doing exactly what she wants. Don't feel sorry for her, its just a way for her to feel better about herself, like you're her confessor. She has an emotional connection with you, she has money from some other jackasses, she has people of influence someplace else. She's fucking all of them. She sensed your niceguy weakness and drew you in. Drop her like a bad habit.
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01-13-2011, 09:24 AM
Yeah hopefully you really will forgot her, its a true brother advice, move on, dont speak to her again, been there, done that.
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01-13-2011, 10:12 AM
I agree. I heard every sob story in the world out there but I knew the score and didn't let it affect my need to fcuk other lizards.
It taught me an important lesson on how to screen women. Often, I've attributed too much meaning and importance to screening women on a basis of sex. When they start holding out on sex and requesting the need to be known better, a part of me used to think: Moma, you are a bit of a bastard for wanting to fcuk them and fcuk other lizards.
Won't be calling any of them long distance, it really opened my eyes to how women CAN operate. I think we all have this idealistic notion of women when we live in North America or the western hemisphere and we watch all these jennifer aniston films.
But women can weep and have been groomed from birth to be Oscar winning actors.
Fcuk the shyt out of them and go. Especially if you coughed up dough.
It is very important to understand the psychology of women. I'm glad you sexed her at least.
Don't worry about her sob story. 95 percent chance it's probably bullshit.
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01-20-2011, 02:46 AM
Watch out with hookers with nice stories. IT IS ALWAYS ABOUT THE MONEY, there will be some scam down the line.
Some girls work entirely off of freebies and then use emotional ties and connections to extort/con you later. Its common in HK for example to hook up with a Filipino chick to fuck often and then suddenly disappear, and sending a mail how she had to go home for X reason, and wants to come back to see you, and is working to save for a plane ticket. And if the guy offers to buy it, she says that Visa law requires her to purchase the ticket herself so that's not possible, but then someone brings up the idea of wiring her the money so of course it goes through. The arrival date comes and she doesn't show up, a few days later he gets a mail saying there was a car accident, so she couldn't make it, and of course the ticket is NONREFUNDABLE. So she just made a couple hundred at once when most hookers in hk cept model quality are getting 50-60 bucks tops.
The scams just get more complicated, but the idea is the same, sex/emotional intimacy for cash.
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01-20-2011, 06:42 AM
Ah the DR.
A lot of girls always have someone 'in the family with a health problem'.
Unless you are so close to her that her and her family treat YOU as family then it is not your concern. When chicks tried to pull this shit on me there I would look at them like they were retarded even telling me.
It's a hooker scam.
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01-20-2011, 05:24 PM
Alpha, great synopsis.
Lum, what happened after you gave them the look?
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01-20-2011, 08:46 PM
Also, Read the book Private Dancer. I mentioned it in another post but it hits home here as well. There are a million games girl will play to get cash, and this book shows some of the more disturbing ones.
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01-21-2011, 03:26 PM
It's also possible that she is being sincere, and you are her only real friend in the country.
Even if that is the case, it is not your job to fix her problems. She's obviously a cum dumpster anyway, so why would you want to keep putting your dick in that? That's like playing roulette with your junk, sooner or later you're gonna get an itch that won't go away.
I'd ignore her, especially since she knows where you live. If she keeps calling you, just tell her you got back with your ex-girlfriend, and hopefully she'll leave you alone.
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01-21-2011, 04:04 PM
From reading the forum I'm getting the impression that every woman from the Domican Republic is a prostitute.
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01-21-2011, 05:01 PM
Roosh,
That hilarious...and mostly you are RIGHT..lol. Thats why I love DR, everyone and I mean just about EVERYONE has a PRICE...It is annoying at times, but you gonna love how DR is damn near lawless and just about every girl has a "number" in mind.
As long as you know what your getting into when you hit the DR, youll be fine, and it wont annoying you too much. But whatever you do, dont go looking for something "serious", it aint happenin'..
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01-21-2011, 08:54 PM
there is no stigma attached to prostitution in domican republic. except upper class white girls, 90% dominican girls are at least semi-pros. they dominate the oldest trade in argentina and spain. met some even in turkey. if you pay for play, don't get involved, don't get too emotional, they are lots of fun. but, beware, they are worst gold diggers around. i know a bunch of italian, spanish, argentine, american, dutch guys who lost a fortune to them. dude, don't believe dominicans a word! i met single figure of decent and honest dominicans, guys and girls. upper class white dominicans are cool.
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01-22-2011, 04:22 PM
it has something to do with poverty and plenty of money loaded (or perceived to be) foreigners. the same goes on in thailand, the philippines, indonesia and vietnam. i dated a few rich and educated filipinas and thais. but, you are highly unlikely to meet and pick them up as a tourist.
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02-08-2011, 01:15 AM
Ok so here's the deal on the Domincan Republic...
There's not a lot of cultural repression in Dominican Republic for women who make money by dating foreigners or prostituting. Also, there's no shortage of foreigners here which is another problem. DR is a popular destination for Europeans because it's cheap, nice weather, nice beaches, and it's closer to Europe than say Brazil or Argentina...Like another guy said on this thread... there are very few stigmas, and the money is good (endless supply of gringos with cash), so you have what you have...
That doesn't mean all the women in DR prostitute, but as a % of the entire population DR probably has the highest rate of women who do this...
If you want to meet "good" girls... try hitting up the universities, office parties, hang out in middle and upper class sections and social circles... It won't be perfect, but the you'll have a better chance there...
Also... Find out if the clubs your hanging at are hang outs for those types of women... If the club is known for having "working girls," "good girls" won't want to go there because they might be labels as a prostitute... You might need a good taxi friend to give you the inside scoop for this.
Here's a little tip: If there's a lot of foreigners in the club you're at, chances are it's a place that has prostitution on some level.
As far as this particular girl... That's your personal decision bro, I just wouldn't believe any "my family is sick stories." I wouldn't get too involved either, especially if she's being held against her will which may or may not be true... either way it's not good.
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02-08-2011, 09:44 AM
Are married women semi-pros in DR? Will their husbands pimp them out? Do women get jealous if they see their trick hammering some other piece?
I asked a guy out there (who tried to pimp a couple of 19 year olds to me) how he would feel if his wife was getting pounded out by some virile gringo for 30 bux etc. He didn't answer that question.
So I repost that question pls.
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02-10-2011, 08:15 AM
yeah they pimp out their mujeres like a charm. for a few bucks anything is possible out there
beware, most of dominicanas are scheming whores and gold diggers. i know plenty of guys who lost a fortune to them. dominican people are sweet talkers, friendly and deceiptful
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02-11-2011, 09:27 PM
If she or her friend is asking for money you can bet that she is doing this basicly every day or atleast a few times a week, so... Unless you want to spend lots of money on her, forget her!