Quote: (03-24-2014 06:13 AM)Every10GivesMeA10 Wrote:
Dutch men are the biggest beta's I've ever come across, no offense. They go to bars/clubs only to get drunk, not to pick up girls. It's mostly the older guys (30+) who are into this stuff, all younger guys I know do not seriously approach girls. Even girls I know say that Dutch men are pussies.
Dutch women are more concerned with independence and their career. Men are really the last thing on their minds.
As far as the Country, I am 6'8 and latin looking (born here but parents are from elsewhere) so I have no issues here, especially not with foreign girls. Ive never had a white dutch woman because I can't vibe with them. Their masculine attitude puts me off as well. They can't even cook and they have a VERY feminist 'i dont need a man' atittude. They cut their hair short and have ugly skrillex haircuts too. Sadly foreign girls who stay here longer become like this as well. Women really have a rebellious attitude here, really puts me off.
A lot has also been ruined by aggressive muslim guys but it shouldn't be a big issue, a lotta dutch girls don't like foreign guys for this reason.
Day game is almost non existent here so a lot of girls are shocked if you approach them. I haven't been rejected harshly as of yet. Dutch guys rely on social circle and if they game, its at bars/clubs when completely drunk and with friends.
i would not come here for dutch women. i stick to foreign girls only. the longer i stay here the more i am starting to hate women, seriously.
as far as the response from women, i get a much better response in germany because i am sometimes mistaken for a muslim (moroccan) here and thats not a positive when it comes to women. my height/looks make up for it though.
stick to the big cities (amsterdam, rotterdam, utrecht, den haag) when you visit NL and you should be OK. You wont find a wife here but anyone can get laid. theres niches for everyone, hippies, rockers, hip hop, etc. for nightlife amsterdam and rotterdam are the best
Hi,
thanks for your intel on the Netherlands !
Have you been to the northern parts of the Netherlands, i.e. Friesland, Groningen etc. ?
Are there significant regional differences in the Netherlands in terms of mentality, looks etc. ?
I want to explore NL in April, inspired by a short visited to Groningen a while ago...
I guess Groningen must be quite different from the rest of NL considering the things I read on here...saw almost NO foreigners here, as "white" as it can get in the region, at least compared to Germany.
Further differences: Girls dressing quite "well" compared to Germany, also almost no tatoos, piercings and other kinds of mutilations, no shitty hair cuts, no hipster girls riding their mono speed bikes with massive head phones on, no pseudo hip guys imitating a william fitzsimmons beard etc... everything seemd much more conservative to what I'm seeing everyday in Germany when I step out the door...but maybe Amsterdam, Utrecht and other parts are completely different ?!
Dutch seem to be more reserved though than Germans - talked to many girls in bars, at cashiers or in restaurants and received nothing but positive reactions, seems they are absolutely not used to being approached by guys at all... oh yeahI don't have to mention that they were a lot more attractive than German girls... I felt like travelling back to a dump at the end of my visit when driving back to Germany.