[XXL]

(03-18-2014 09:51 PM)sexysasquatch Wrote:  

(03-11-2014 05:25 AM)XXL Wrote:  

As a sidenote, remember who "invented" direct game as an overtly method of stating your sexual interest upfront. It was a bunch of nerds [guys who see everything as an algorithm] who got tired of messing up their chess game type of interactions and decided to tell girls what's up just out of their frustration. It worked a few times and it went from there.

But if you actually look at this pure direct game notion from the distance it seems so weird. Like, how socially inept someone has to be to follow the method of breaking the ice with a compliment every time. And what do they expect, that a girl will fall in love in 5 seconds and offer them to go fuck? It's sooo whack hahahaha. Can you imagine hanging out with a dude like that? Horrible.

It's the only thing that makes sense though in the context of you running up to someone. Are you really telling me you ran all the way over just to ask where the fucking pet shop is?

Why not walk beside her instead of running up and start normal conversation ABOUT HER instead of complimenting her out of the blue? Why not start with simple comment to break the ice and flow from there...

- Hey nice elf shoes are you a fan of video games?
- Hey stop texting, calling is more exciting, the voice makes all the difference, do you have a nice voice?
- You look lost, just like me, let's ask each other for directions, it'll be fun...
- Don't buy that, i'll make you fat and I like slim girls like you
- Hey can you help me? I want to date [describe her looks], that's my type of a girl, where can I find those, where do they hang out?

Easiest way is standing near her or walking past her. If she responds then turn towards her and then carry on the convo. When she's open to it more or less it's time for more direct stuff like compliments [teases too] so that it doesn't turn into regular chit chat. It's so much better IMO to to give a girl a few moments to sniff your my charm before telling her she's this or that. To me, chemistry is there or it's not. If a girl doesn't want to talk to me casually when I'm interested in cool and friendly manner she's just not open to me so bringing out the big guns is like pissing into the wind.

The "directness" here is expressed by the comment about her, it conveys the same interest just more subtly at first. Whatever is said, if it's something about her, she knows what's up. Girls get that. Even nonverbally, if you talk to 4 girls at the same time about nothing and you face or look at one girl a bit more than the rest they all know you're into that one. It's like what Distant Light once said.. "what's subtle to men is obvious to women, what's obvious to men is try hard to women". Very true.

Compare that to running up to beautiful girl to stop her and tell her she's beautiful LOL. I've never seen cool/charming guys doing it.

[Matt3B]

Quote:

You can have the most clever dialogue in the history of game, but if you aren't emotionally present, nothing will get communicated.

Nailed it, Soup. Bang on the fucking point.

[Nemencine]

I like your opener.

I actually use a similar version to that,... after the girl tells me her name, i will furrow my brow as if i am thinking of something.. then mutter "that explains it".

This usually engages their curiosity, prompting her to stop me and query, "that explains what?"

Sometimes... in the middle of a conversation, i will use that line "that explains it" as a throwaway line to spin their hamsters...

sometimes, ...i simply use it as neg.

I like your opener, though. definitely stealing that. thanks.

--Nemencine

(03-10-2014 04:25 PM)Sugar Wrote:  

"Excuse me, this is really random but I had to come say hi to you." Smile. "I'm Sugar."

She says hi/I'm Jennifer/etc

"Really? You don't look like a Jennifer." Or "you're totally a Jennifer."

Either way it hooks unless she really doesn't want to talk to you.

Field tested no less than >1000 times.


1. Isn't a compliment
2. Gets her attention.
3. The "you don't look like" or "you look like" hooks because it's interesting. Think about it. If you said your name, and someone replied "you don't look like a Roosh" you would want to know why not.

Try it in field

[Valhalla]

I've always preferred to play it like it just happened since it works along with the hamster.