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Women not replying to messages online although they're a match
03-08-2014, 12:42 PM
This has happened to me quite a bit and I'm trying to figure it out.
Had several Tinder and POF matches. I'll either send a generic "hey whatsup" or make a witty remark about something in her picture to open. No response whatsoever. I have heard that those sites will match you up with people automatically, or it might just be validation on her part. If the woman is not matched with you I can understand but when she matches and doesn't respond that's strange. Any help is appreciated.
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Women not replying to messages online although they're a match
03-08-2014, 01:20 PM
She probably matches up to 30 men, 27 of whom will write hey whatsup or variations of that.
So honestly,not strange at all.
Improve your online profile, get a better display pic, work on your online game... there are some threads out here that might help out.
Besides, a lot of the females out there are merely attention whoring.
Its not a fair world.
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Women not replying to messages online although they're a match
03-08-2014, 03:21 PM
Come up with better opening messagesand try them out and use the ones that work i.e. trial and error.
Also remember to not try and waffle on the app i.e. get them off the app and on to text/whatsapp ASAP, you'll be miles ahead of the rest if you do these simple things
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Women not replying to messages online although they're a match
03-14-2014, 04:54 PM
She's just not that into you man.
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Women not replying to messages online although they're a match
03-14-2014, 05:01 PM
Some women, I've found, are only on there for attention and validation. It's like that old Web site "Hot or Not" for them and they interpret all the messages as "hot" ratings.
I've seen women comment about this on other women's posts* on Facebook. From observation, the women doing this is the most are around 21-26. If you want replies, go older.
* Having no idea everyone else could see it, of course. I should have done a screenshot. Next time I will. One used the phrase "ego boost."
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Women not replying to messages online although they're a match
03-14-2014, 05:28 PM
Ask a simple, random question. "What's up?" isn't inviting a fun conversation, and chances are she doesn't have that much to talk about in her life. Also, going with anything but what's up shows that you can come up with an original thought.
I use questions like, "know it's random, but how many pitbull songs in your collection?" Her answer to this question gives me an opportunity to say something snide and then ask her out. This is only for girls I've matched with though.
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03-15-2014, 07:58 AM
I have found a direct correlation between the amount of time you spend on online dating, and how much tail you actually get. The more you work at it, the more it doesnt pay off. Just send them a simple 'Hi' on Tinder, it works the best. For OKC try the delicious tacos openers, which seem to work the best there.
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Women not replying to messages online although they're a match
03-15-2014, 08:21 AM
You will have to elevate your text game to stand out from all of the noise. tinder is essentially set up so that a thousand guys are messaging a hot girl all at once and she can't respond to all of them.
If she has a baby niece in her photo, you can say "hey great job losing all of that pregnancy weight so fast! Do you suffer from postpartum?"
If you are going to try to run cocky/funny game, better make sure you are actually cocky and funny...