rooshvforum.network is a fully functional forum: you can search, register, post new threads etc...
Old accounts are inaccessible: register a new one, or recover it when possible. x


Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall
#1

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

After reading this, you will better appreciate being a man.

Four women recount when they discovered they hit the wall.

The awful day we knew we'd lost our looks: It's the moment all women dread. Four writers reveal when it hit them

By JILLY JOHNSON and KATE GARRAWAY and CLAUDIA CONNELL and HELENA POWELL


Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/articl...z2vEm2XqsU


Former model Jilly Johnson, 60, lives in Hertfordshire with her husband Ashley. She says:
Jilly Johnson: I was 42

Quote:Quote:

I’ll never forget it. I was crossing the road to enter Selfridges department store in London when I caught a glimpse of a tubby woman reflected in the shop’s huge windows. When her strides started to mirror mine, it hit me: she was me.

I was completely taken aback, and as people rushed past me, I stood stock-still in the middle of the road staring at my reflection. I didn’t look willowy and light, as I’d always been. On that day, aged 42, I looked dumpy and middle-aged.

[Image: whoa.gif]

Journalist and author Helena Frith Powell, 48, lives in France and Abu Dhabi. She says: I was 38

Quote:Quote:

It was ten years ago, almost to the day. I was 38 and driving into our local village in France when I caught sight of myself in my rear view mirror. There was a criss-cross of wrinkles across my forehead and around my eyes.

[Image: jordan.gif]

Quote:Quote:

Just the other day, a friend and I were discussing a man she knows who, at the age of 44, has just married a 22-year-old.

[Image: gamerecognized.gif]

Quote:Quote:

Rather depressingly it dawned on me that, given the choice, men of my generation probably don’t want anything to do with women my age.

[Image: agree2.gif]

GMTV presenter Kate Garraway, 46, lives in London with her husband and two children. She says:

Quote:Quote:

Then I looked at my reflection in the rearview mirror and thought: ‘It’s happened.’

In that moment, I realised that however much I try to halt the ageing process with creams and potions, diet and exercise regimes, it will defy me and happen anyway. It’s happening now. And there’s nothing I can do about it.


But being happily married and having children has taken away a lot of the insecurities women have when they’re young, when we endlessly analyse our looks, worrying about every split end in our hair, because we want the people we fancy to fancy us back.

If it means being settled and content, getting older can be a relief.

[Image: hamster2.gif]

Writer Claudia Connell is 47 and lives in London. She says:

Quote:Quote:

I was 34 and it was shortly after that I began to notice other signs of ageing: the fine lines around my eyes, the vertical lines on my décolletage and how I could no longer keep pace with the younger women at my aerobics classes.

Throughout my teens and 20s, I had always looked years younger than I was. But, as I hit my mid-30s, all that stopped. Mother Nature took the brakes off and, seemingly overnight, I turned from bright-eyed, dewy-skinned nymph into red-eyed, flaky-skinned hag.

It was also in my mid 30s that I realised I could no longer go braless. I used to like not wearing one under strapless tops, but things were starting to sag and my once-perky boobs looked like a couple of balloons — a week after the party.

[Image: barf.gif]

Quote:Quote:

Now 47, I am reminded of my advancing years from the moment I wake up, when my knees creak as I get out of bed, when I squint to see the number on a bus and when I never leave home without a packet of Rennies, cardigan and hand cream. Some people may come to terms with ageing — I never will.

[Image: fuckthat2.gif]

Take care of those titties for me.
Reply
#2

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

Oh man, that's actually an honest piece of hagporn for once.

Makes me feel bad for these women. It's terrible for them when they realize they've lost the one thing they most care about.

Women are physical creatures; their body is all they have. When they admit to this and confess to their true feelings, I don't have that much of a problem with them and can feel plenty of sympathy.

same old shit, sixes and sevens Shaft...
Reply
#3

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

If these ladies hadn't become adapted to receiving reams of attention and favours on account of their looks, it wouldn't be much of a heartbreak to suddenly be unable to fake youth.

Men often have similar mid-life crises when they reach forty or so and suddenly realize that years of backbreaking work has earned them a wife that causes erectile dysfunction, children who more or less expect that their needs be met and an existence which isn't going to be improved upon.

All the more reason not to follow society's rules for us. Delay marriage, while enjoying college sluts, build your career, investments and identity. Then lock down a nubile 20 yr old half your age at the same age most guys are starting to regret ever bothering to get out of bed.

I'm the King of Beijing!
Reply
#4

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

Quote: (03-06-2014 09:27 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  

Oh man, that's actually an honest piece of hagporn for once.

Makes me feel bad for these women. It's terrible for them when they realize they've lost the one thing they most care about.

Women are physical creatures; their body is all they have. When they admit to this and confess to their true feelings, I don't have that much of a problem with them and can feel plenty of sympathy.

I agree. When women are honest like this, I feel for them.

It's true that, for 95 percent of women, her looks and sexuality will always be her foremost agency. But when that fades, if she's made good and far-sighted decisions--like finding a good man to marry and have children--then she won't have to fear growing old.

We don’t teach women to cultivate the power of feminine dignity, because we’ve decided to attempt to give them lifelong sexual power by celebrating cougardom and botox addiction. We don’t teach women the value of family, because we celebrate women who are too “independent” for children while at the same time encouraging single motherhood and consequently, the notion that men & fathers are disposable. This society has gone out of its way to shield women from the long-term consequences of their poor decisionmaking, but nature isn't playing along.

The mark of a truly adroit chessplayer isn’t necessarily his ability to calculate variations 20 moves deep, or anticipate and thwart any plan of his opponent—but his ability to preserve and press hard won advantages and convert them among various forms as dictated by the demands of the position. The brilliant chessplayer doesn’t just nuture a material advantage—he converts it to a positional edge, and then a mating attack. More young women need to learn this lesson. You don’t keep your physical beauty forever…but if you leverage it with good decisionmaking while you are young then you will be able to transition between modes of being when the time is right.

This is the lesson of our grandmothers. My grandmother was an absolutely stunning woman. But after her looks & sexual power had faded, she was able to transition seamlessly into a woman of dignity and honor because she had made sure to find a good man while she was a knockout, and because she had spent her younger years cultivating the tools she would need long after she was no longer able to cause traffic accidents by just getting up in the morning. The truly miserable women aren't the aging mothers with husbands and children like in this piece. These women are models of feminine dignity and grace---true matrons and matriarchs worthy of respect. No, the really miserable ones are the aging hags slaving away in the various HR departments and cubicle farms of this country with nothing to go home to. These are the women still desperately clinging to what's left of their sexual power, because after it's gone there is nothing for them.

If you make good choices, if you cultivate your personality and learn to value the love of a good man, if you can learn to take your triumphs, defeats, and uncertainies with dignity then you will be less heavily invested in the fleeting sexual power of your youth and able to transition into some more lasting & worthy when the time comes.

And, as the women in this piece are finding out, that time is around age 35 for most women---whether they like it or not.
Reply
#5

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

Quote: (03-06-2014 09:27 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  

Oh man, that's actually an honest piece of hagporn for once.

Makes me feel bad for these women. It's terrible for them when they realize they've lost the one thing they most care about.

Women are physical creatures; their body is all they have. When they admit to this and confess to their true feelings, I don't have that much of a problem with them and can feel plenty of sympathy.

People who know me, know I am pretty compassionate and caring, probably too much.

But this is the deal with mother nature. They get to have a great time in their youth. Where all they have to do up and not be fat and they can get attention, even gifts from beta orbiters. Hopefully, they were like squirrels and stored reserves for the long winter of the twilight of their lives. From the sounds of it, probably not.

Fate whispers to the warrior, "You cannot withstand the storm." And the warrior whispers back, "I am the storm."

Women and children can be careless, but not men - Don Corleone

Great RVF Comments | Where Evil Resides | How to upload, etc. | New Members Read This 1 | New Members Read This 2
Reply
#6

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

Quote: (03-06-2014 09:47 PM)Suits Wrote:  

If these ladies hadn't become adapted to receiving reams of attention and favours on account of their looks, it wouldn't be much of a heartbreak to suddenly be unable to fake youth.

Men often have similar mid-life crises when they reach forty or so and suddenly realize that years of backbreaking work has earned them a wife that causes erectile dysfunction, children who more or less expect that their needs be met and an existence which isn't going to be improved upon.

All the more reason not to follow society's rules for us. Delay marriage, while enjoying college sluts, build your career, investments and identity. Then lock down a nubile 20 yr old half your age at the same age most guys are starting to regret ever bothering to get out of bed.

Yes, but there is a great difference. The crisis that happens in a man's life is a spiritual one. For that reason it is of course far more important and consequential, but it's also true that for that reason its resolution is up in the air. A man can be defeated or he can prevail.

With women it's much simpler because they're simpler creatures. One day they look in the mirror and they know that the deepest part of their essence, the main thing that makes them the creatures they are, is gone. It's not really a matter of struggle; it's just a dreadful realization.

Women are made for the world and for day to day life, so they'll soldier on and go on about their business, and if their lives have gone correctly they'll have children and grandchildren to satisfy the other part of their feminine essence. But there is a real pathos to the moment when they realize the irreversible loss of their sexual prime.

same old shit, sixes and sevens Shaft...
Reply
#7

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

@samsamsam, of course it's not any kind of tragedy and is entirely natural. There is just that moment of pathos that can be recognized and acknowledged. But it's not anything a man needs to dwell on at any length.

same old shit, sixes and sevens Shaft...
Reply
#8

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

Based on the pics in the article:

WB: 2 and 3, especially 2.
WNB: 1, even with someone else's dick.
WB if I was in a dry spell and very drunk: 4. Her week-old balloon tits sound scary.

“….and we will win, and you will win, and we will keep on winning, and eventually you will say… we can’t take all of this winning, …please Mr. Trump …and I will say, NO, we will win, and we will keep on winning”.

- President Donald J. Trump
Reply
#9

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

I would feel a lot for sympathy for these types of women if they were nice in their younger years.
Reply
#10

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

Quote: (03-06-2014 10:33 PM)Glock Wrote:  

I would feel a lot for sympathy for these types of women if they were nice in their younger years.

How do you know they weren't?

same old shit, sixes and sevens Shaft...
Reply
#11

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

Broken link?
Reply
#12

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

Good find OP.

But what would really give me a Rock Hard Red Pill Boner, is if more woman like our friend Claudia up there, wrote MOAR about when and how they hit the wall.

Look what this skag says "Mother Nature took the brakes off and, seemingly overnight, I turned from bright-eyed, dewy-skinned nymph into red-eyed, flaky-skinned hag"

[Image: lol.gif]

Read those words, she describes herself as a "nymph" i.e... a carousel rider and is now upset at Mother Nature for letting her face the brunt of the Wallhammer.

[Image: cms_eaw_1_6_justice1.jpg]
Reply
#13

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

@pants, link works for me.

Agent47, only the trollface image should be posted in that size.

same old shit, sixes and sevens Shaft...
Reply
#14

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

Quote: (03-06-2014 09:27 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  

Oh man, that's actually an honest piece of hagporn for once.

Honest?

Those women said they only started to notice the wall collision at 42, 38 etc.

That's like 10 years after the impact.

I suppose they're more honest than their friends, which is what counts for them, right? [Image: tongue.gif] Just like the slut or fat test: if they have less than average dick count or weight among their friends, they are not slutty or fat.
Reply
#15

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

StrikeBack, "honest" is not the same thing as "accurate". I think they're being emotionally honest about the moment they truly realized it was all over -- that's not the same as saying other people couldn't have seen it earlier. Cut these hags a little slack...

same old shit, sixes and sevens Shaft...
Reply
#16

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

Fair enough

but I'll cut them as much slack as men get, which is close to none.
Reply
#17

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

SB,

Women are emotionally weak. Men should expect no quarter and will receive none.

same old shit, sixes and sevens Shaft...
Reply
#18

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

great link
its good to see women's pov after the wall instead of denials and hamsters
Although it does make me think what would happen if one day we will live to an age where aging could be halted or extended via stem cells/science...
Reply
#19

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

Little bit of hamstering going on at the end of each blurb.

However if all women had that attitude of, "These looks of mine are going to go away." they would probably all be massively more enjoyable and pleasant to be around. Doubt it would ever happen!
Reply
#20

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

The first account was from the model Jilly Johnson.

I think she looks very good for her age.

Here she is at 58!

[Image: 4_12_54s.jpg]

Definitely got a cougar thing going on.
Reply
#21

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

^^^ Why'd she describe herself as tubby and dumpy? She's clearly a super survivor.

WB even at 60.
Reply
#22

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

Quote: (03-07-2014 09:21 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  

^^^ Why'd she describe herself as tubby and dumpy? She's clearly a super survivor.

Because she used to look a lot better and holds herself to a high standard.
Reply
#23

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

Quote: (03-06-2014 09:53 PM)randomForest Wrote:  

We don’t teach women to cultivate the power of feminine dignity, because we’ve decided to attempt to give them lifelong sexual power by celebrating cougardom and botox addiction. We don’t teach women the value of family, because we celebrate women who are too “independent” for children while at the same time encouraging single motherhood and consequently, the notion that men & fathers are disposable. This society has gone out of its way to shield women from the long-term consequences of their poor decisionmaking, but nature isn't playing along.
[…]
If you make good choices, if you cultivate your personality and learn to value the love of a good man, if you can learn to take your triumphs, defeats, and uncertainies with dignity then you will be less heavily invested in the fleeting sexual power of your youth and able to transition into some more lasting & worthy when the time comes.

^^ This, pretty much.
Wasn't there a Greek philosopher who essentially said the same thing -- regarding the importance of a woman cultivating a well-rounded personality so she has something when her looks fade?

Wise words from antiquity again unheeded.
Reply
#24

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

Quote: (03-06-2014 09:09 PM)Dusty Wrote:  

GMTV presenter Kate Garraway, 46, lives in London with her husband and two children. She says:

Quote:Quote:

Then I looked at my reflection in the rearview mirror and thought: ‘It’s happened.’

In that moment, I realised that however much I try to halt the ageing process with creams and potions, diet and exercise regimes, it will defy me and happen anyway. It’s happening now. And there’s nothing I can do about it.


But being happily married and having children has taken away a lot of the insecurities women have when they’re young, when we endlessly analyse our looks, worrying about every split end in our hair, because we want the people we fancy to fancy us back.

If it means being settled and content, getting older can be a relief.

[Image: hamster2.gif]

Maybe this is just me but I don't really see that comment as particularly hamsteriffic on its face. In fact that seems like the attitude women should have. Relief is the silver lining that comes with acceptance of reality and sexual marginalization-- especially after having successfully raised a family.

Though who knows if she truly believes what she wrote, Kate Garraway still looks bangable to me even at 46 and probably invests a great deal of time, money, and energy into her appearance.
Reply
#25

Four Women Describe Hitting the Wall

Quote: (03-07-2014 09:26 AM)Hotwheels Wrote:  

Quote: (03-07-2014 09:21 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  

^^^ Why'd she describe herself as tubby and dumpy? She's clearly a super survivor.

Because she used to look a lot better and holds herself to a high standard.

Yeah, this article is about former absolute 9s who are coming to terms with their decline into "7, adjusted for age" territory.
Reply


Forum Jump:


Users browsing this thread: 1 Guest(s)