I have been aproaching directly from long time ago, i have no more AA and seriously think that i'm very good at it.
But i realized that you just cant go direct all the time, a lot of girls will freak out, especially when they are in groups or you are in a situation where there is a lot of people arround.
I had great succes going indirect in great situations, like in a line, in a waiting room, etc.
I arrived to a new city recently and have been trying to use the lost guy game, but i'm really bad at it, i have these two basic problems.
1. People cockblock me unintentionally (this have happenned to me a lot of times this days), when i ask for directions usually there is another people passing by, and tell me almost inmediatly where is the place im looking for, so i have no excuse to continue talking to the girl unless i go direct (i dont think that would look very good i would rather to go direct from the beginning in that case)
also most of the time girls dont know where the fuck they are, so they ask to other people too.
For example, yesterday i was walking late night, there is almost no people in the streets but there are some stores open, almost without customers. I saw two girls walking behind me, a blonde that looks really good, one of them said something like he looks good, the other says like he looks really good, you should ask him if he wants to have a drink with us. I thought they were talking about me, i was really sharp dressed, just coming back from a date with a girl that i met through social circle. But i wasn't really sure, so i stoped and said to the blonde:
- hey girls do you know where this restaurante called +++++? (i was actually looking for it)
They stop without a really friendly face, like 1 second to think, and then this guy jumps from nowhere and says:
- i know where the restaurant is!, it is great i love it, you have to go there and then blablabla
i look at the guy and the girls are inmediatly like ok he will tell you, and leave with bitchy faces, as i didnt interest in their faces (seems more like they were pissed) i tought they maybe where talking about some other guy working in the stores, and followeed the instructions of this guy to go to the restaurant (this guy was not atractive at all so i guess he wasn't the handsome guy either)
The restaurant was just two blocks away, i went there and decided that i was not really hungry, so i came back to the blocks where i met the girls and the random guy, i walked through the stores to see how the superhandsome guy was, but didn't see another guy that i considered above average, so i tought maybe they where actually talking about me but get pissed when they tought i just was talking to them to get directions, didn't seem to consider them hot, and stoped giving them atenttion when random guy appeared.
2. I dont know what to say, as i said, when i go direct i feel some kind of thrill, is like i told her what i want of her and i can talk of whatever i want, she usually likes it, even if she will not go out with me she have curiosity of why am doing that, she feels desired too i guess, i can assume things of her and start making a conversation, because i have already told her why im there. When im going indirect and start assuming things about her she is like so what are you telling this to me? i dont know you and i have stuff to do.
For example, the other day i saw this cute girl with great cleavage, and i asked her for a hardware store, she gave me a smile while telling me where to go, inmediatly i tought in telling her my usual opener (something like you are cute and i want to meet you), but i think it would destroy the purpose of the approach, and there were a lot of people looking at us, so it would made her uncomfortable. I could not think to talk about anything else, i have read that people who go indirect usually ask for their clothes, but she was dress pretty simple, se had a great cleavage and ass anyway.
Any advise? i really think that i need to overcome this, i think the best will be use both, according to the situation.
But i realized that you just cant go direct all the time, a lot of girls will freak out, especially when they are in groups or you are in a situation where there is a lot of people arround.
I had great succes going indirect in great situations, like in a line, in a waiting room, etc.
I arrived to a new city recently and have been trying to use the lost guy game, but i'm really bad at it, i have these two basic problems.
1. People cockblock me unintentionally (this have happenned to me a lot of times this days), when i ask for directions usually there is another people passing by, and tell me almost inmediatly where is the place im looking for, so i have no excuse to continue talking to the girl unless i go direct (i dont think that would look very good i would rather to go direct from the beginning in that case)
also most of the time girls dont know where the fuck they are, so they ask to other people too.
For example, yesterday i was walking late night, there is almost no people in the streets but there are some stores open, almost without customers. I saw two girls walking behind me, a blonde that looks really good, one of them said something like he looks good, the other says like he looks really good, you should ask him if he wants to have a drink with us. I thought they were talking about me, i was really sharp dressed, just coming back from a date with a girl that i met through social circle. But i wasn't really sure, so i stoped and said to the blonde:
- hey girls do you know where this restaurante called +++++? (i was actually looking for it)
They stop without a really friendly face, like 1 second to think, and then this guy jumps from nowhere and says:
- i know where the restaurant is!, it is great i love it, you have to go there and then blablabla
i look at the guy and the girls are inmediatly like ok he will tell you, and leave with bitchy faces, as i didnt interest in their faces (seems more like they were pissed) i tought they maybe where talking about some other guy working in the stores, and followeed the instructions of this guy to go to the restaurant (this guy was not atractive at all so i guess he wasn't the handsome guy either)
The restaurant was just two blocks away, i went there and decided that i was not really hungry, so i came back to the blocks where i met the girls and the random guy, i walked through the stores to see how the superhandsome guy was, but didn't see another guy that i considered above average, so i tought maybe they where actually talking about me but get pissed when they tought i just was talking to them to get directions, didn't seem to consider them hot, and stoped giving them atenttion when random guy appeared.
2. I dont know what to say, as i said, when i go direct i feel some kind of thrill, is like i told her what i want of her and i can talk of whatever i want, she usually likes it, even if she will not go out with me she have curiosity of why am doing that, she feels desired too i guess, i can assume things of her and start making a conversation, because i have already told her why im there. When im going indirect and start assuming things about her she is like so what are you telling this to me? i dont know you and i have stuff to do.
For example, the other day i saw this cute girl with great cleavage, and i asked her for a hardware store, she gave me a smile while telling me where to go, inmediatly i tought in telling her my usual opener (something like you are cute and i want to meet you), but i think it would destroy the purpose of the approach, and there were a lot of people looking at us, so it would made her uncomfortable. I could not think to talk about anything else, i have read that people who go indirect usually ask for their clothes, but she was dress pretty simple, se had a great cleavage and ass anyway.
Any advise? i really think that i need to overcome this, i think the best will be use both, according to the situation.