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01-17-2014, 10:10 PM
In college, reputation definitely matters. I wouldn't recommend "going for numbers" and being too direct with these chicks. Instead, I'd join activities, clubs, and other normal shit during the day and just being friendly (you'll pick up numbers this way automatically). Then you have a large circle of friends and social proof when you go out at night, which is where you'll do your damage. College chicks who act one way sober turn into slut zombies at night with a little alcohol in them. You'll be a safe to bang since they know you and you aren't some "creeper" they met at the bar.
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01-17-2014, 11:39 PM
betterthanyou, if you go to a school that is >5000 students, then you shouldn't care about reputation. Opinions will amount to shit in that larger school environment. With smaller schools, you need to be more cognizant of your surroundings. I went to a school with <1200 students so people would know if I fucked up one night. Just the nature of the game. Be smart with your approaches, and like the other members have said...do not reflect on past rejection. It will make you over think situations.
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01-18-2014, 12:51 AM
Just for the record, my longest cold streak was something like 150 between my last two bangs. No, I'm not exaggerating.
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01-18-2014, 09:14 AM
Assuming this is a non-troll thread...
You need to practice the art of selective memory. You need to remember the rejections just enough to do two things.
1) Learn from your mistakes.
2) Motivate you. ('It doesn't matter if this girl said no, I'm going to figure game out no matter what and become great with women, period.')
After you've done that, they have to disappear from your mind. Logging them like this doesn't produce any value for you, it just makes you dwell on the rejections.
I know it's easier said than done, when you're on a hot streak you feel you can't lose and when cold, you feel like every girl is rejecting you. It doesn't matter. Treat every approach as a new event, the only thing you should carry with you is your experience. After a while remembering the successes and forgetting the failures becomes natural and you'll do it automatically.
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01-18-2014, 11:16 AM
@Neo
I don't notice any kind of analysis or thoughtfulness on OP's part.
He doesn't actually tell us what he says.
So if he's just rolling up on chicks and expecting pussy after ten minutes, and does so repeatedly without thinking about what he might be doing wrong, I don't think we can help him.
It's just like the dude from good looking loser, lots of approaches but no reflection, no analysis.