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01-12-2014, 09:25 PM
Alright I kind of screwed up because I accidentally let one if my beta friend of friends know that I am in the process of learning game. It is pretty much cockblocking me from getting any lays through my social circles(school, volunteer work, etc.) so what would be the best way to go into damage control and stop this from spreading around?
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01-12-2014, 09:38 PM
Not sure if I speak for everyone here but this is my personal experience.
When you learn game or make the initial steps toward improving your life you will lose a lot of friends.
Dudes will call you weird and slander you. Screw'em. Go about and do your thing.
When I started eating paleo, before it was a mainstream thing, I lost friends.
When I developed my game I lost friends.
When I started a business I lost friends.
But you know what? I got new ones who were way cooler.
If a dude wants to throw you under the bus for wanting to get laid he's not your friend. Cut him loose before he betrays you over something more serious than girls.
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01-12-2014, 09:45 PM
The sad part is all of my real friends support me this guy just happens to be one of friend's friends and I can't get him to hop off. I just wanna save one of the reliable ways I can get laid before I completely ditch it.
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01-12-2014, 10:19 PM
As the Captain stated, ya he is one of my acquaintances that I can't get to leave me alone and who won't stop cockblocking me. I just want to find a way to get him to piss off.
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01-12-2014, 10:31 PM
Stop hanging out with your friends when he's with them. At some point they should know, probably by you mentioning it to them, that this guy is causing problems for you. It's valid to be pissed at this, and it's a valid reason to not want to be around him. If they're your friends they'll get this. If they think you're being moody or something then maybe they aren't as good as friends. How specifically is this guy fucking with your shit?
The only other thing is to tell this guy directly to cut it out, but something tells me he'd start cockblocking behind your back more.
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01-12-2014, 10:36 PM
He pretty much comes over with his other friends and they go on about what I'm doing is pretty much "rape", and this kind of crap is bound to start of rumors among girls who either overhear or talk to them(girls love to gossip about bullshit as we all know). A lot of people know me where I'm at so I don't want to be given a bad rep among people who don't know me well or for girls to completely block me off before I say anything.
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01-12-2014, 10:39 PM
Quote: (01-12-2014 10:36 PM)hwuzhere Wrote:
He pretty much comes over with his other friends and they go on about what I'm doing is pretty much "rape", and this kind of crap is bound to start of rumors among girls who either overhear or talk to them(girls love to gossip about bullshit as we all know). A lot of people know me where I'm at so I don't want to be given a bad rep among people who don't know me well or for girls to completely block me off before I say anything.
Ask him if girls putting on make-up to attract guys is rape? B/c this is the female equivalent of game, making yourself appealing to the opposite sex. Then let him know rape is what you do to his mother when you gag her and sodomize her for hours while watching a family guy marathon (I kid, but if you did this you'd be legend).
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01-12-2014, 10:43 PM
Oh god man I nearly died laughing near that end bit, but ya he pretty much considers the fact that a girl has been drinking(even a little bit lets say a can or two of beer) and me getting laid when she has had that much to drink is "rape". He also keeps insisting that the only way I get laid is that if she is drunk. I was literally about to knock him out when he kept saying that but thankfully I kept my cool. He also kept fucking with me and asking "Where I bought my roofies?" I literally can't believe I didn't knock him out.
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01-12-2014, 10:46 PM
Quote: (01-12-2014 10:43 PM)hwuzhere Wrote:
Oh god man I nearly died laughing near that end bit, but ya he pretty much considers the fact that a girl has been drinking(even a little bit lets say a can it two of beer) and me getting laid when she has had that much to drink is "rape". He also keeps insisting that the only way I get laid is that if she is drunk. I was literally about to knock him out when he kept saying that but thankfully I kept my cool.
This guy sounds like a chump, just be a fun cool dude, moreso than him, and you'll be fine. Be humored by his criticism, don't get mad, get a chuckle. Women want to fuck a fun cool guy, not some uptight twat worried about the stupid shit this guy is worried about. Enjoy yourself, and others will enjoy being around you. Esp. women, they feed off masculine enthusiasm and energy.
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01-12-2014, 10:53 PM
Oh I also left off the best part. This kid runs a porn blog on tumblr, and he is criticizing me. His girlfriend is also like a 4 so whatever. I just wish he would hop off though. I just don't want him and his butt buddies ruining shit for me.
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01-12-2014, 11:03 PM
Don't let them matter to you. Think of a little kid tugging at his/her parent's arm while they're talking to the teacher. Just an annoyance to be ignored.
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01-12-2014, 11:20 PM
Quote: (01-12-2014 10:36 PM)hwuzhere Wrote:
He pretty much comes over with his other friends and they go on about what I'm doing is pretty much "rape", and this kind of crap is bound to start of rumors among girls who either overhear or talk to them(girls love to gossip about bullshit as we all know). A lot of people know me where I'm at so I don't want to be given a bad rep among people who don't know me well or for girls to completely block me off before I say anything.
Fuck them! Cut them lose immediately! Using shaming tactics and calling you a rapist is crossing the line. Any man that would do that to a "friend" is a piece of shit that needs to be jettisoned. Game isn't just about getting pussy. It's about making you a better YOU. He's a hater, and he doesn't want you to succeed.
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01-12-2014, 11:22 PM
Are they hipsters? Can I meet them?