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(12-17-2013 12:52 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  

Apparently everyone's dad on this forum is a player.

My dad has zero game. It is really frustrating seeing women his age flirting with him and he is not picking up on it. He could totally be cleaning up with even minimal game(getting some of these women in his social circle on dates and escalate).

Ive tried talking to him about it, he basically has unrealistic standards(she must like to golf and ski and be into science- he is a nuclear physicist)

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

Pretty sure that no, with a 1% chance of being surprised. But I don't think so. At least he married a very good woman though.

[Shotgun Styles]

(12-17-2013 12:52 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  

Apparently everyone's dad on this forum is a player.

Did you not read the third post in this thread?

[Teddykgb]

It's funny I always thought my dad had such tight game compared to me growing up. (I was a bitch.) After finding this site whenever I'm around him and his new girlfriend I mentally point out all these beta tendencies he has around her. I would never have the heart to tell him to his face any different and nor would he even care if I did.


I tell myself if that is what makes him happy then by all means do it.

[soup]

El Mechanico is my dad.

[Moma]

My dad was/is a Naija smooth talker, even to this day I can see when he talks, it's very disarming. He also plays the hot/cold game (he taught me this when I last saw him). Even when he speaks English, it reminds me of Ojukwu's speech, it's old school posh English with deliberate tones.
He told me the story of when he first met my mum and his approach was consistent and calculated (he was driving a flash car - for those times)
Naija is the ultimate 'PUA' boot camp in my opinion.

[daddysanchez]

My dad wasn't a player. He told me about a couple stories but he never did numbers. He's a handsome guy though and he was an athlete back in his youth, was in the navy for a couple years. So I imagine he probably got a little action but he definitely doesn't have pimp blood. I don't know anyone on either side of my family with some legit game. My mom is pretty though and he caught her when she was still pure. She told me when she first met him she didn't even like him so I see how perserverance pays. They've been married for almost 30 years now. Now my brother is definitely a player. But while growing up he never really talked to me so he never taught me any game. Not until the past year or two have we actually gotten closer and he's taught me a little but not much. To be honest, most of my game has come from swallowing the red pill this year. These blogs and forums are the biggest help. I wish it weren't like that but I'm still very grateful. Now I want to "unplug" in a sense and lessen how much I read this stuff so I can really immerse myself in the field and get some results through experimentation, trial and error.

[WanderingSoul]

6 kids, 6 different women, self built Harley Davidson, tattoos, stabbing people, attempted murder charge, lots of jail time, leather vest, Levis, jug of wine, long beard, long hair, chain wallet, buck knife on the belt, straight blade before it became illegal, dozens of guns, black leather boots, in a 1975 issue of Easy Riders magazine, David Allen Coe, looked like a cross between Kris Kristofferson and Sam Elliott in Roadhouse..what's more to say?

[Remington]

My pop got married at the age of 23. Dated the same woman on and off from sophomore year of high school til he made it exclusive junior year of college.

Pop always told me to be the "nice guy" and to always pay for things when going on dates. Gave a lot of really shitty advice on women and had that burned into my head at a very early age. Could have won Pussy of the Year award when I was in high school. Then, I decided that everything I was taught about women was BS.

My pop is the best man I know but his lessons on women led me down the wrong path for a very long time.

[Every10GivesMeA10]

My dad is an Alpha King. He is 300lbs and has a harem of girls who are in their 20s. My mom cooks all his meals for him and takes care of the house. She's been a stay at home mom since I was born. He always told me to never trust a woman and that all women are whores. May this man live a long life. I'm happy I didn't end up like my beta cousins.

[birdrussell]

my dad and my brother both were. I also heard a lot of real common since shit out of my dad's dad in relation to how a man should regaurd a woman but never saw any evedence. my mom's dad was rumored to be a king pin in B'ham AL back in the 80's so he was slaying them coke bitches. little old me I knock em down but I was a late bloomer and I'd like to get my quality up a bit more.

[soup]

My pops landed my mom who is really pretty even thigh he's short and fat with frizzy hair.

[bodmon]

even by indian standards my dad is the beta-est of betas. not gonna say anything more

[The Beast1]

When I was younger, my father wasn't. Step dad was an even worse herb. I had decent natural game, I was just too dense to read the signs.

Nowadays, my dad broke the angry beta mold and has become pretty stellar at game to the point it makes me impressed. I'm actually pretty sure he has surpassed me and my own abilities. It's good because he is in his 60s mackin in chicks in their 30s.

I had a girl once tell me that my father and me flirt the same way.

[RockHard]

No, and I have 3 brothers who are also all worthless at game. A couple years ago, one married a woman 8 years older than him. He moved the wedding date up so that she could get on his health insurance before hers expired. I heard that and I'm just going... ouch. Bro. Don't do this.

I come from a family of scientists & engineers (between myself dad & bros, 3 PhDs and 2 masters degrees). It's the personality type least suited to game. My biggest struggle is fighting my natural inclinations to take women seriously, take what they say at face value, and basically expect women to act & think like men.

[AneroidOcean]

(I'm going to be a little vague about some specific details below to retain my anonymity)

My dad never knew his dad so while my dad wasn't perfect, I give him a lot of credit for what he did to raise me (and for sticking around despite him and my mom sometimes not getting along very well). Unfortunately my dad and my mom didn't give me a lot of help in the social/women arena so I failed pretty hard at that for most of my life including into my early 20s.

My dad was a mixture of alpha/beta. He had a temper and could definitely lose it, but most of the time he was fairly nice and caring. He's a waterman through and through, both for work and for pleasure. He's been on the water most of my life so he'd be gone for days on end and at the whim of the weather and mother ocean. Many people can claim they are working at something they love but he truly loves being around the ocean. I got this from him and am now getting more involved in everything the ocean has to offer after kind of moving away from that after I was a kid.

My dad is very accomplished in his hobby related to his job and is well respected both in the US as well as abroad for his skill. Within that small-ish community, people have nothing but great things to say about my dad. When they meet me and they hear my last name they say, "Oh, are you [his] son?!?!" My dad is not a big man by any means, but he is a big man in that way. He was already an accomplished waterman when he met my mother.

My dad met my mother in his home country where she was abroad doing volunteer work after school. They dated and he taught her to be a waterwoman, teaching her a lot of what he knew about the ocean. She became enamored of him despite his small stature (she's probably 3 inches taller than him and not tall by any means). Eventually her entire family travelled to his country for their wedding and all was well. They decided to move to the US west coast so that he could continue working on the water once his contracts ran out. He continued to work on a very dangerous international waterway after I was born, sending me letters that I couldn't yet read describing the work and the hazardous conditions.

When I think about it now as an adult I know that my mom was definitely considered exotic and highly sought after in my dad's home country so in that way, he was decently alpha to land her. However, he did have plenty of beta traits, despite overall running the household. He's not very successful financially, partly because of his stubbornness and lack of wanting to do anything else than what he loves. I don't really know much about who he dated before he met my mother, but I do know that he had a woman that he he loved that didn't work out before her as I was very upset after a bad breakup once and he told me about this woman in his past and to NEVER cry over a woman.

This was a very different side of my dad that I'd never witnessed prior, so knowing that and realizing as I swallowed the red pill how many women absolutely adore/love my dad now, I know that even if he wasn't fully red pill in his youth I think he definitely had some skill with women or at least had a good amount of women interested in him. He is not physically imposing (pretty short actually) and not model looks but he has good genes as he's maintained his modest good looks and especially a nice smile into his old age. My dad is probably in better shape than me.

He is still a waterman despite being well into retirement age. I believe a large part of this is due to his lack of financial success. My parents will likely divorce or be officially separated in the future as it seems he met another woman and has been dating her. My mom caught him and they've had some counseling sessions (but spaced way apart). He wants to retire on some small property he owns in his home country. It hurts my mom quite a lot that he doesn't think there's anything there for her. Probably because he just wants to be alone/not with her.

Fuck, that was way more than I meant to write, but there you have it. I realize I need to spend way more time with my dad as he's getting pretty old and I think I still can learn a lot from him and maybe I learned more from my mom throughout my life and missed learning some of what I could have from my dad.

[Giovonny]

My father was a legendary Playboy and Pimp in San Francisco. His name still carries a lot of clout in certain neighborhoods.

When I was in high school, he was living with 3 women. He didn't work, they paid all the bills and did all the work around the house.

He is mentioned in this book.

http://www.amazon.com/Knitting-Heaven-Ea...B001LOEG7M

If you go to that Amazon page and click on "Click to Look Inside". It will take you to the book's introduction and first chapter..

Scroll down to the bottom of that free, sample page..

The author talks about my dad..

"Teresa, who is from a large Mexican family, liked to regale us with stories about her late brother Louie, who had been something of an outlaw and reprobate. Be rode a Harley, trafficked in illegal substances, and had a large number of girlfreinds who streamed through the house in a steady procession as he lay dying upstairs from liver disease.

"Louie's Fools", Teresa called them. Occording to her, the women remained devouted to Louie even though she did everything in her power to dissuade them.

Teresa is my aunt.

Louie is my dad.

I was there as all of this was going on. The doctors, nurses, and priests didn't know what to think..

My dad was dying and women were fighting to give him oral sex and drugs.

The Death of a Pimp.

That was my dad. He makes me look like a helpless beta with no game, and compared to him, I am.

[Mabina]

he was a legend in the game, I pale in comparison

[pheonix500000]

(12-17-2013 02:30 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

My father was a legendary Playboy and Pimp in San Francisco. His name still carries a lot of clout in certain neighborhoods.

When I was in high school, he was living with 3 women. He didn't work, they paid all the bills and did all the work around the house.

He is mentioned in this book.

http://www.amazon.com/Knitting-Heaven-Ea...B001LOEG7M

If you go to that Amazon page and click on "Click to Look Inside". It will take you to the book's introduction and first chapter..

Scroll down to the bottom of that free, sample page..

The author talks about my dad..

"Teresa, who is from a large Mexican family, liked to regale us with stories about her late brother Louie, who had been something of an outlaw and reprobate. Be rode a Harley, trafficked in illegal substances, and had a large number of girlfreinds who streamed through the house in a steady procession as he lay dying upstairs from liver disease.

"Louie's Fools", Teresa called them. Occording to her, the women remained devouted to Louie even though she did everything in her power to dissuade them.

Teresa is my aunt.

Louie is my dad.

I was there as all of this was going on. The doctors, nurses, and priests didn't know what to think..

My dad was dying and women were fighting to give him oral sex and drugs.

The Death of a Pimp.

That was my dad. He makes me look like a helpless beta with no game, and compared to him, I am.

Dude, there is always another level, really mindblowing if you think about it.

[J.B]

Interesting to see most men here inherited their father's ability to attract and sleep with many women as they did when they were younger. You guys are truly your father's sons...

Yo McQueen what about you bro? How was your dad like with women?

[Thesoloist]

I remember as a kid random women calling our house at 4 in the morning and my mother throwing a fit.
Eventually my mother couldn't stand his players ways and her and I moved out. Sadly before I got into my formidable years where game was valuable my father died an odd death

I recently had a convo with my mother on how her and Dad met, my mother said she was lowering her standards by dealing with him

I guess my dad "Gamed Up"

[PocketAA]

My dad was 43, poor and had cancer when he met my moms.

She was 17 and beautiful.

He went down pimping till the end.

[rdvirus]

Poppa was a playa, claims to have a 20+ notch count which I do not doubt. Has 2 or 3 girls on the go constantly.. keeps one around just because she has a large inheritance coming her way. My mother was his second wife and she's a very good looking lady. He drinks like a fish, is a pretty big slob and lives cheque to cheque but still manages to keep em around.. He breaks his neck staring at every piece of ass in sight and always has. Used to think it was gross when I was a little guy growing up haha.. I'm pretty well a spittin image of him, always felt like my mother held that against me.... I'm the only one of his children that he keeps in touch with on a regular basis, definitely my fathers son.

[BadgerHut]

(12-16-2013 07:05 PM)Floss Wrote:  

My dad was an alcoholic Ukrainian banker. He quit his job and sat around the house for a few months when I was 4 drinking and eating fish. On occasion, he'd get worked-up about the KGB watching him and he'd have my mother and I go stay at his mom's farm for a while. The legitimacy of his claims are unconfirmed.

He eventually set up some import/export scheme and we had a lot of money coming in. Credit cards weren't really a thing post Soviet Union collapse, so he'd stagger around with money falling out of his pockets in a drunken stupor all day. He'd go out every night and would often end up brought home passed out drunk and with thousands missing.

Haven't seen him in a long time.

That story sucks, but is gripping at the same time...nice writing. One could memorize this verbatim as a routine for rapport.

[eradicator]

(12-17-2013 05:22 AM)soup Wrote:  

El Mechanico is my dad.

You and half of florida