Reasons Why 9s and 10s are easier
12-09-2013, 01:48 PM
Quote: (12-09-2013 01:37 PM)scorpion Wrote:
Unless you live in a Tier 1 city (for the US that means NYC, LA, Vegas, Miami basically) or maybe a really good college town in the South, you're just not going to even see that many 9s, and certainly not 10s.
So the idea that gaming 9s and 10s is easier than 6s, 7s and 8s is just laughable, simply from a numerical standpoint. It's like saying that getting a job at Google is easier than getting a job at Wal-Mart.
To clarify, for me a 9 is a girl who is hot enough that she can make a living based entirely off her looks, who probably does so in some capacity (i.e. modeling, being sponsored by rich guys, etc...) and who pretty much no man can resist. A 9 is a girl so hot that everyone stares at her when she walks into a room, both male and female, and even children, who can recognize her superior beauty. A 9 is a girl who is hot enough to be actively pursued for sex and relationships by the highest status men on the planet. A 10 is the upper tier of 9s who is basically perfect looking for a short window of her life. So 9s are rare, and 10s are shooting stars. Most "really hot" girls men see in real life and in media are 8s at best.
That being said, I can't take anyone who says that 9s and 10s are easier to game seriously, because it tells me that person has spent very little time actually talking to 9s and 10s (and 6-8s for comparison) and is instead basing his argument entirely on theory. 9s and 10s are simply living in another universe. They are in a separate reality from what men can understand, because we are literally unable to fathom the amount of attention they receive and the way that shapes their thinking and development.
It's not impossible for an experienced player with solid game to pull 9s, but it is basically impossible to lock them down unless your lifestyle and bankroll are commensurate with your game. They simply have too many options, good options, to be satisfied with game alone. Not when they are receiving constant attention from the highest status men they come into contact with every day.
Of course, it's possible that the OP is one of those guys who calls a 7 a 9 and an 8 an 10, in which case his theory would make more sense. Because I do believe that 7s and 8s can be easier to game than 6s if you know what you're doing. That trend just does not hold up when you moved into the rarefied air of the 9 and 10, though. Even rich and famous men cannot reliably hold on to 9s and 10s - these women are the hottest in the world, they know it, and their hypergamy makes them unable to resist the urge to constantly look for an upgrade. They exist in a state of abundance that men simply cannot understand, because there is no male analogue to it.
The closest analogy is probably that of a world famous rock singer or movie star in his prime, who has hot women literally throwing themselves at him on a daily basis, and who has his pick of 9s and 10s to date. Imagine how hard it would be for him to settle down with one woman? Well, that's basically the amount of attention that EVERY 9 receives from the top tier of men. Every time a 9 or 10 walks into a room, she knows that she could pretty much get even the highest status men there to do whatever she wants. This is why pulling 9s and 10s is extremely hard, and keeping them locked down is almost impossible.
Yes, 9s are women who everyone is pointing at and whispering about when she is walking down the street. I am talking about this kind of woman.
The deal is, the moment you sit down with this girl and have conversation, it is not that difficult to bring her down from this pedestal you and so many other men of the world have created for her.
Sometimes 9's are models, but I find that not always. If they are not models, then the princess behaviour you will see is reduced and they are even easier. These girls, specifically, do not even come into contact with the "elite" social circles you speak of. A lot of these girls are normal people, which is problematic since people, especially men, seem to equate extreme beauty to "fame". This is correlation that doesn't hold up in most cases.
You will find that the stunners that marry very rich men are commonly banging the bodyguard or the pool boy on the side. Not all attractive women are golddiggers, but even those who ARE still want sex and emotions that a logical decision to mating hypergamy cannot provide. This is why I suggested mini-relationships, and the emotional flame can only be kept up so long.
Women do not approach men, especially not 9s. They must work with what comes to them. If you look at many millionaires, you will find they are wifed up to the ugliest hags. Even in those circles, the model-looking girls have a hard time penetrating. Compare that to the ratios between these "super alphas" and the amount of 9s, especially in places like EE, and you have a bunch of single 9s. As I said, a woman would rather be single than be with a male that elicits no emotions.
It is a complex topic, and a look into the world of these girls would yield quite an interesting view for the men of the world.