I am new to the game and mostly sticking with online stuff (PoF) as my current schedule doesn't give me a lot of opportunities to cold approach. So I want to maximise my potential lays by having dates set up in advance for my free time.
Anyway, I have had some success but recently have run into a problem of consistently losing girls who I thought were keen as soon as I ask for the number. I don't even get "I'm not quite ready to give it to you yet" or anything like that. It is just straight up radio silence as soon as I ask the question.
I'm aware that this could just be typical woman behaviour of attention whoring without serious intent to meet up. Still, it has become so frequent recently that I think I am doing something seriously wrong. So I figured that I would ask some of the more experienced players on this forum for their advice.
Some more background: I am a white guy who lives in Australia (Melbourne specifically) and I mainly target Asian chicks. Am late 20's and fit.
Here is a typical conversation:
Her [24 yo, 5' Asian chick]:I dont blame him tho he is the youngest champion! [I started the conversation asking her about MMA as she says she is a UFC fan in her profile. She is referring to Jon Jones being "a cunt".]
Me: Haha. It's all good. I was just messing with you. [I had teased her about using such foul language to a stranger and she apologised] I think Aldo was younger when he won the FW belt, that was in the WEC, though.
Rare to find a girl who really likes MMA. Do you train as well?
Her: Ive always liked it..just need to be updated with who is who. My favorite fighter is ian mcall ..his amazing with what he had been put thru! I used to do 10years of tae kwon do..and a few months in muay thai
Me: A lot of people still don't understand the sport. I have found that women in particular don't like the ground and pound aspect. You clearly don't mind a bit of blood, though.
We should hang out. I really enjoy talking MMA but it is so hard to find knowledgeable fans.
Her: Perhaps you could educate me and keep me up to date in that department! Im abit of a tom-boy I love watching fights!!
Me: Sounds good to me. Which part of Melbourne do you live in?
Her: [Redacted, suburb about 15 minutes drive from me] and u
Me: Cool. I'm in [redacted]. I've got nothing on tonight because training was cancelled due to the Melbourne Cup, so let's hang out.
Her: I'll be seeing my girls tonight perhaps next time?
Me: No probs. What's your number? I will give you a call sometime and we can work out a time to hang out. Maybe watch some fights.
And that's it. The conversation all happened in one afternoon, which was two days ago.
Any advice appreciate.
Anyway, I have had some success but recently have run into a problem of consistently losing girls who I thought were keen as soon as I ask for the number. I don't even get "I'm not quite ready to give it to you yet" or anything like that. It is just straight up radio silence as soon as I ask the question.
I'm aware that this could just be typical woman behaviour of attention whoring without serious intent to meet up. Still, it has become so frequent recently that I think I am doing something seriously wrong. So I figured that I would ask some of the more experienced players on this forum for their advice.
Some more background: I am a white guy who lives in Australia (Melbourne specifically) and I mainly target Asian chicks. Am late 20's and fit.
Here is a typical conversation:
Her [24 yo, 5' Asian chick]:I dont blame him tho he is the youngest champion! [I started the conversation asking her about MMA as she says she is a UFC fan in her profile. She is referring to Jon Jones being "a cunt".]
Me: Haha. It's all good. I was just messing with you. [I had teased her about using such foul language to a stranger and she apologised] I think Aldo was younger when he won the FW belt, that was in the WEC, though.
Rare to find a girl who really likes MMA. Do you train as well?
Her: Ive always liked it..just need to be updated with who is who. My favorite fighter is ian mcall ..his amazing with what he had been put thru! I used to do 10years of tae kwon do..and a few months in muay thai
Me: A lot of people still don't understand the sport. I have found that women in particular don't like the ground and pound aspect. You clearly don't mind a bit of blood, though.
We should hang out. I really enjoy talking MMA but it is so hard to find knowledgeable fans.
Her: Perhaps you could educate me and keep me up to date in that department! Im abit of a tom-boy I love watching fights!!
Me: Sounds good to me. Which part of Melbourne do you live in?
Her: [Redacted, suburb about 15 minutes drive from me] and u
Me: Cool. I'm in [redacted]. I've got nothing on tonight because training was cancelled due to the Melbourne Cup, so let's hang out.
Her: I'll be seeing my girls tonight perhaps next time?
Me: No probs. What's your number? I will give you a call sometime and we can work out a time to hang out. Maybe watch some fights.
And that's it. The conversation all happened in one afternoon, which was two days ago.
Any advice appreciate.