Quote: (06-07-2016 12:45 PM)Roosh Wrote:
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I worry that some men might miss their prime window age wise to have kids. It's alot easier to get up in the middle of the night in your mid to late 20s and change diapers then it is your mid 30s and 40s. More so when it comes to the all the education, adventures, etc that you want to do with them.
I totally agree. I accept that I missed the boat when it comes to fatherhood. It may still happen, but it will under circumstances that are less than favorable when it comes to my age and energy.
I would say that many of you might be okay. Just keep an eye on your T levels and stay in decent shape.
If you were a college athlete, pro, or amatuer for many years throughout your entire 20's, you might struggle a little bit. It's just like how some of my coworkers older than me can go out and do triathlons on the weekends. I can barely bike 20 miles now. I have all kinds of aches and pains all the time. Concussion issues concern me as well. I knew the longer I waited the worse it would get. So far I was correct.
If you think about the rugged men that built the railroads, the dams, the various mines, logged trees, etc. in the past, they were in the same boat as I am. You really did not want to wait if you worked hard like that for a living. They also had more traditional women, but still they had bad knees and backs around 50-60. Back then you could retire around that age so it kinda worked out for them.
Quote: (06-08-2016 03:10 PM)Dusty Wrote:
Quote: (06-07-2016 12:45 PM)Roosh Wrote:
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I worry that some men might miss their prime window age wise to have kids. It's alot easier to get up in the middle of the night in your mid to late 20s and change diapers then it is your mid 30s and 40s. More so when it comes to the all the education, adventures, etc that you want to do with them.
I totally agree. I accept that I missed the boat when it comes to fatherhood. It may still happen, but it will under circumstances that are less than favorable when it comes to my age and energy.
I'm in my 50s and will likely still be a father some day. I'd be married to a much younger woman who will understand her role, including doing all the diaper changing and waking up in the middle of the night to take care of the baby. In exchange she'll have a nice and comfortable home and will not need to work while the children are young because she's married to an excellent provider. As the children get older I can retire early because I've been saving since my 20s and have never been divorced raped. I will have the time and energy then to throw myself into fatherhood duties full time and without distraction.
I do it the same way and it works well so far. I really do not think men are naturally good at doing those things. It's too easy to get frustrated with those screams and crying. Drives me nuts just hearing it. If I had to actually change the diapers all the time I would want to scream myself. I remember seeing some show a long time ago about the brains of men and women while a baby screamed. Women's brains went into protect mode and changed color, while a man's brain showed anger and frustration.
Regardless of all of that, I still change the diapers every now and then to help out. My kid is 2 and in the "Terrible 2's" phase and screams at/fights grandmother/wife on the changing table but stops immediately when I walk in. Laughing while looking at me. Irritating because I have to stop working at my desk, but it is what it is..... It's always something silly you did not think about, that will cause you to get involved.
On the flip side, little stuff like that makes you realize why single mothers struggle so much, and makes you appreciate that you won't have those problems by making your presence felt and maintain order.
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