[Diego]

I just saw my buddy's gf do this just now so I started thinking about it.

What's the psychology behind this? Is this a non-issue? Or a red flag? If this is a red flag, how serious?

[Glock]

I suppose it depends on who the other guy is and what they were doing. Was it her brother and were they at a family reunion? Was it an ex-boyfriend and they were at a club?

We can help more if you post the picture and identify this kind of information.

[Therapsid]

Non-family member guy - yeah it's a red flag. That's just common sense. She's advertising it openly.

This belongs in the Newbie section though.

[Samseau]

She's a whore

[Pyre]

(10-19-2013 02:30 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

She's a whore

She's ripe for the taking.

[Diego]

come on guys, of course i'm not talking about a family member or a celebrity, that should have been implied.
and come to think of it, I see this behavior a lot.

I know my buddy will be fine with this. and he actually scores a lot.
he'd probably say "meh, no biggie" but devalues her in his head

[panache]

Not necessary that she is fucking the other guy. Looks like a shit test to me, tbh.

(10-19-2013 02:44 PM)Diego Wrote:  

he'd probably say "meh, no biggie" but devalues her in his head

Pretty much what I would do.

[el mechanico]

This has actually happened with two senior members here. I got mucho lulz from it.

[Diego]

^ what do you mean by that el mech? expound

[OGNorCal707]

Yes highly disrespectful and a huge red flag, I'm not into "facebook", don't have a page, but if I was your friend and caught wind of this it would be grounds for dumping her. As stated before the only real exception would be for a family member, or a gay friend, in which case it's a non-issue in my opinion.

[pheonix500000]

(10-19-2013 05:20 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

This has actually happened with two senior members here. I got mucho lulz from it.

what did they do?

[el mechanico]

(10-19-2013 05:35 PM)Diego Wrote:  

^ what do you mean by that el mech? expound

One members "girlfriend" posted a picture of her and another member as a header on her Facebook.

[el mechanico]

(10-19-2013 05:49 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(10-19-2013 05:35 PM)Diego Wrote:  

^ what do you mean by that el mech? expound

One members "girlfriend" posted a picture of her and another member as a header on her Facebook.

I was like..

The guys who was in the pic was like..

The guys who's girl it was was like..

[Diego]

was there a thread? yeah mucho lulz

[Cattle Rustler]

This sounds like a good time for storytelling

[Duke Castile]

Mech this sounds familiar....

[el mechanico]

(10-19-2013 08:33 PM)Fisto Wrote:  

Mech this sounds familiar....

Well, yes

[WanderingSoul]

Blahbahhaha that sounds hilarious.

[Lothario]

Ali hasn't chimed in yet, was he Involved in the Incident somehow .......

[amity]

Serious red flag dude, girl is disrespecting her man, big time
This kind of behaviour happened me a few years ago when I was going through tough times with a girlfriend
She was staying with me for a few days and the b1tch didn't wear a bra and threw on a very low cut and flimsy t-shirt during her time staying in my place, so as to advertise herself and her rack to my housemates, she was pretty much saying 'hey guys, imma bout to ditch this loser, come get some'
When I challenged her on this carryon, she claimed I was being paranoid and possessive, she also had a whorish background so in retrospect, it's not that surprising
But yeh, I disgress, red flag, chick ain't worth his time, definitely grounds for 'nexting' her

[Frontenac]

Three words: Cancel her contract.

[Idlenations]

Your friend should change his profile picture to him with another girl. See how she responds to that.