Posts: 266
Threads: 0
Joined: Jan 2013
Keeping girls for a longer time
10-15-2013, 06:23 AM
Guys,
Although i made some improvements (im almost 22 and since my 21th birthday i fucked more girls than in earlier years combined) I still have problems with keeping girls.
Maybe sometimes too needy, fucking up over texting, sometimes I dont look for contact with the girl at all (although I want to keep her).
Not necessarily looking for LTR but if the girl is really cool it could be an option, though. The thing is, I see 'keeping a girl' as a skill as well, which I need to learn.
What are your opinions? I see this as a sort of sticking point towards abundance.
Posts: 1,723
Threads: 0
Joined: Mar 2012
Reputation:
14
Keeping girls for a longer time
10-15-2013, 08:19 AM
date older women if you want that. girls in your age group are too slippery to pin down, she has guys up to 60 offering her dick and she is considering most offers under what.. 40-45? also why would you want to? until a girl is 24, out of college, been through a ringer a couple times she has no idea she may like some stability. also your mind is also growing, changing. your life is in a flux for a while.. fucke em all, let someone else sort them out.
Posts: 5,942
Threads: 0
Joined: May 2013
Reputation:
35
Keeping girls for a longer time
10-15-2013, 08:33 AM
You don't just need to be good at gaming women on the front end(making a good impression and getting her into bed) but also on the back end(physically dominating her during sex and exceeding anything she could want sexually) if you want to keep her long term. If you can't do that, she will find some other man who can.
Posts: 246
Threads: 0
Joined: Mar 2012
Reputation:
2
Keeping girls for a longer time
10-15-2013, 09:46 AM
Look for relationship game on Roissy and apply some of those techniques.
Honestly the best way is to always have 2 in your pocket as you sound new to game. The mentality of scarcity kills game, whereas abundance is a game amplifier.
Posts: 937
Threads: 0
Joined: Dec 2012
Reputation:
2
Keeping girls for a longer time
10-16-2013, 01:36 AM
Alter being hot and cold
Ignore then every once in a while and create drama
valhalla
Posts: 1,357
Threads: 0
Joined: Sep 2012
Reputation:
17
Keeping girls for a longer time
10-20-2013, 01:27 AM
The best way of keeping a girl interested is having other girls on your agenda at all times.
Do that, and you're golden.
Once you fucked a bird, she already likes you. She's attracted to you.
So, what's the remaining question? It's whether or not you're a man with options.
Posts: 1,303
Threads: 0
Joined: Aug 2009
Reputation:
34
Keeping girls for a longer time
10-23-2013, 06:06 PM
Why would you want to keep a girl around longer?
Anyway, you already listed 3 things you think you're doing wrong, so stop doing them if that's what you really want.
Posts: 511
Threads: 0
Joined: Apr 2010
Reputation:
4
Keeping girls for a longer time
10-23-2013, 07:28 PM
It's rare that I come across a girl that doesn't want a relationship with me, and I think it's because I do 3 things:
I'm never the first to talk relationship
I always see at least one other girl
I'm a dangling string
Posts: 266
Threads: 0
Joined: Jan 2013
Keeping girls for a longer time
11-02-2013, 09:55 AM
My sticking point turned a little bit around: now I get bored of the girl instead she from me (its not that i want advice for a particular girl but have one now, and Im afraid that she is falling in love with me.
There are a couple of points that trigger my annoyance from her, which results in that i'm not craving her presence anymore, and I feel even my libido has lowered.. Did you guys have had this problem? Lowered libido because of a girl in the rotation that doenst make me so horny anymore.. I guess the answer is getting new girls..
