[James 2013]

I am so glad you hyped that Belarusian girl so much. The things she did to me in bed were amazing! cant wait for round two

[Remington]

(10-22-2013 10:59 AM)Videl Wrote:  

So I have seen the Belarusian girl today in Univeristy course. I didn't even notice her and didn't sit next to her. This is because she has been ignoring my last facebook msges. Last week on facebook I asked her how she was doing after she told me she was ill and she saw the msg but didn't respond. In the break we talked a little bit I don't feel anything for her anymore but I'm glad I have been through this learning process. Last time we were on the bus she had an awesome time as I explained in the OP. I had her giggling the whole trip. This afternoo I had the option to sit next to her in the bus for one hour but I intentionally avoided her on the way out by talking to my friend on the phone and taking other bus. I don't think she will return to me but it doesn't matter. It was aheavy experience but I learned from it. I put my ass on the line and asked her out but it didn't work. Something I wouldn't have dared one year ago.

Stop using facebook and move on. If you are constantly messaging or texting her, you are coming off as needy. Told you to ignore the messaging for a few weeks. If you see her around campus, its cool to say "what's up" or something brief to be friendly like you don't have a bug up your ass about her rejecting you. However, you don't need to go out of your way to speak with her.

Time to move on and start approaching like a mad man.

[Videl]

(10-22-2013 03:27 PM)Remington Wrote:  

(10-22-2013 10:59 AM)Videl Wrote:  

So I have seen the Belarusian girl today in Univeristy course. I didn't even notice her and didn't sit next to her. This is because she has been ignoring my last facebook msges. Last week on facebook I asked her how she was doing after she told me she was ill and she saw the msg but didn't respond. In the break we talked a little bit I don't feel anything for her anymore but I'm glad I have been through this learning process. Last time we were on the bus she had an awesome time as I explained in the OP. I had her giggling the whole trip. This afternoo I had the option to sit next to her in the bus for one hour but I intentionally avoided her on the way out by talking to my friend on the phone and taking other bus. I don't think she will return to me but it doesn't matter. It was aheavy experience but I learned from it. I put my ass on the line and asked her out but it didn't work. Something I wouldn't have dared one year ago.

Stop using facebook and move on. If you are constantly messaging or texting her, you are coming off as needy. Told you to ignore the messaging for a few weeks. If you see her around campus, its cool to say "what's up" or something brief to be friendly like you don't have a bug up your ass about her rejecting you. However, you don't need to go out of your way to speak with her.

Time to move on and start approaching like a mad man.

From where do you get I send her new facebook messages?. I didn't send her new facebook messages. There was one week break last week so I haven't seen her for two weeks. I did speak to her on uni, it was short and awkward I have to say. Just exchange of information how she is and what she has been doing. It was not as fun, spontaneous, sparking and flirty interaction as the first time.

[Remington]

(10-22-2013 05:29 PM)Videl Wrote:  

(10-22-2013 03:27 PM)Remington Wrote:  

(10-22-2013 10:59 AM)Videl Wrote:  

So I have seen the Belarusian girl today in Univeristy course. I didn't even notice her and didn't sit next to her. This is because she has been ignoring my last facebook msges. Last week on facebook I asked her how she was doing after she told me she was ill and she saw the msg but didn't respond. In the break we talked a little bit I don't feel anything for her anymore but I'm glad I have been through this learning process. Last time we were on the bus she had an awesome time as I explained in the OP. I had her giggling the whole trip. This afternoo I had the option to sit next to her in the bus for one hour but I intentionally avoided her on the way out by talking to my friend on the phone and taking other bus. I don't think she will return to me but it doesn't matter. It was aheavy experience but I learned from it. I put my ass on the line and asked her out but it didn't work. Something I wouldn't have dared one year ago.

From where do you get I send her new facebook messages?. I didn't send her new facebook messages. There was one week break last week so I haven't seen her for two weeks. I did speak to her on uni, it was short and awkward I have to say. Just exchange of information how she is and what she has been doing. It was not as fun, spontaneous, sparking and flirty interaction as the first time.

[Videl]

Oh ok, it is wrong wording, that is my bad english : )

[Teedub]

Often, it's immediate. If you cannot put out a vibe that says "I am sexually/romantically successful with women" then it's very hard.