While I've had a number of relationships with white women, I never seek them out.
When it comes to them, I'm the prize, so they either have to step to me or it doesn't go down, and for those who are accustomed to getting with higher level white women, they don't have a problem opening you.
It is funny to me, that one of the central themes of this particular community is getting as far away as possible from the White American woman, yet I still see Black men, even ones who are a part of this, pedestalizing them.
Whether one chooses to admit it or not, more often than not, for a Black man, a white woman is someone who he uses to show his higher level of status in society, a come-up he uses when he's on the lower end of society, and/or a body he uses to do some of the more extreme sexual acts, that some women, especially his own, won't engage in with him.
With that being said, ultimately, I believe happiness can be found with any type of partner. I think Black men are more in tune with that than any other type of person. While everyone has their preferences, Black men seem to understand that love has nothing to do with what someone is; we tend to be cool with whoever wants to be cool with us.
I personally stay away from relationships with white women because I feel like I have to lose/forget who I am with them, and issues that are exclusive to me are not ones that we can ever really discuss because they are issues that don't exist for them, and that goes beyond gender.
I just wish Black dudes would stop cupcaking with fat white women. It's a really bad look. If you want to go to their cribs and smash or get dome at 3 A.M., do that, but please don't walk around holding hands with them at the mall or share biscuits and salad with them at a Red Lobster.
We need to start taking more pride in who we are and understanding our values as men, so if you're going to go outside your race/culture, then go for la flor y nata.
When it comes to them, I'm the prize, so they either have to step to me or it doesn't go down, and for those who are accustomed to getting with higher level white women, they don't have a problem opening you.
It is funny to me, that one of the central themes of this particular community is getting as far away as possible from the White American woman, yet I still see Black men, even ones who are a part of this, pedestalizing them.
Whether one chooses to admit it or not, more often than not, for a Black man, a white woman is someone who he uses to show his higher level of status in society, a come-up he uses when he's on the lower end of society, and/or a body he uses to do some of the more extreme sexual acts, that some women, especially his own, won't engage in with him.
With that being said, ultimately, I believe happiness can be found with any type of partner. I think Black men are more in tune with that than any other type of person. While everyone has their preferences, Black men seem to understand that love has nothing to do with what someone is; we tend to be cool with whoever wants to be cool with us.
I personally stay away from relationships with white women because I feel like I have to lose/forget who I am with them, and issues that are exclusive to me are not ones that we can ever really discuss because they are issues that don't exist for them, and that goes beyond gender.
I just wish Black dudes would stop cupcaking with fat white women. It's a really bad look. If you want to go to their cribs and smash or get dome at 3 A.M., do that, but please don't walk around holding hands with them at the mall or share biscuits and salad with them at a Red Lobster.
We need to start taking more pride in who we are and understanding our values as men, so if you're going to go outside your race/culture, then go for la flor y nata.