Quote: (09-12-2013 03:16 PM)Valhalla Wrote:
@WIA can you give us an example of his game and the things he says.
I'm always looking to learn something new
Rolling with my squad.
We were at some tourist restaurant.
He spots the hostess.
"Hey sweetness, lemme talk to you" while we were *leaving* the joint. (i'm pretty sure he played sick one night so he could get the hotel room to himself, cause he saw some chicks @ the hotel bar)
And then he'd ask obvious questions that she can answer.
"what are the good dishes"
"you live around here"
"what else is good"
"you looking kinda sweet"
But he's totally "congruent" with it. He's a short stocky dude, prolly 5'8'. Fearless and disgustingly sweet.
I'm watching her reactions, and at first she's incredulous, and then she warms up. Had to be at least 12 years his junior.
And as we were waiting in the car, he finally came out with a phone #, from a chick that we'll probably never see again.
He's a small town kinda dude, and he was running small town game on a small town chick. So there's that in this instance.
But I've seen him basically play the fool and ask easy to answer questions FROM EVERYBODY, he makes everyone around him feel smart.
I see through the shit, cause i'm like, dude, you know the answer to your fucking question, don't ask me any bullshit. But I don't like that feeling of being smarter than everyone in the room. That usually means i'm in the wrong room.
Everyone else gets disarmed. I don't know how much of it is calculated, probably very little given that he's a natural and just talks to girls that pass his boner test, but it's constant and consistent and with guys, girls, old people, kids...et cetera. He's a people person, and uses that skill to get his dick wet.
Not my kinda game at all, but it works exceedingly well.
I've seen dudes send drinks to bitches across the bar, and then recover from that "beta" move. Gorilla pimping, where a dude will just grab a chick's arm. Cat Calls that turn into phone #'s and turn into sex....
It's kind of a fallacy that you need high levels of complication to fuck regularly.
But that really complicated stuff, like jealousy threads and cat string theory, projecting asshole body language, spinning chicks out of nowhere... - that shit works too.
I"ve said this before, but you can skin a cat many ways. You can use styles and stories that aren't your own, provided that you know how they work, and you can carry it off.
Chicks are none the wiser. If chicks really could read minds, there'd never be a rape or a serial killing ever.
Instead, they look for cues, and when the chicks find those cues, they spread their legs.
The correct combination unlocks the placenta © Ras Kass.
Our job as players is to learn those universal cues, the knowledge behind them, and then tailor our approaches based on our own style and down to the particular girl.
And again, even after you fuck them, fuck them thoroughly, IMO, they still don't belong to you, you can't possess them. You can only trust them to be who they are.
Perhaps my attitude will change with age, but i've met lots of sweet-marriageable girls that turn into the narcissistic lizards that we all despise.
You tell them no, but they want the answer to be yes...and until you get control of the conversation - her attacks will keep coming. The nags don't stop, the emotional manipulation is unconscious and conscious.
In hip hop terms, she's testing your G, for pick up artists - this is the Deida alpha testing thing.
I just don't know if any girl is worth putting up with that kinda burden. constantly needy, always got to have something, you've always got to provide it, or out smart her.
Man, i'm digressing like mf'er today.
WIA