[Videl]

Is there a easy way to find out if a girl has a boyfriend. I read here that if a girl has a boyfriend she will automatically say it at one point. In my experience, in most cases they don't.

For example few days ago I tried to schedule a date with this hot blonde girl (9), but everytime I tried to schedule something she was busy or couldn't and told me to talk to her another time. After a while I found out she has the status "in a relationship" on facebook. I scrolled through her facebook pics, something I should have done earlier and it turns out her boyfriend looks exactly like me.

Im trying to say, most girls when you approach them they will let you know if they like you or not but I had couple of girls who were receptive being nice to me and flirting along but it turned out they were just being nice to me. I always try to polarize girls to not fall in the friendzone but is there a quick way to find out she is really interested? Maybe more experienced guys than me can give their two cents.

[XXL]

- I'm naturally flirty guy but with the ones I'm into I express my interest. I give much more attention, I flirt more, I give compliments, I make them focus on me, etc. Conversation is charged. No polite chit chat or probing for signals. I "go first" as nlp fans say. That makes girls know.

- As for BF I trick them to tell me the truth by teasing. When convo flows well I point at some lame ass dude and say [to her or to her friends] that she should be more polite cause her BF is watching us as a joke. When it's done in the right moment and the dude is super lame the girl [or her friends] reveal BF status faster than they can think about it. It's like teasing about other girls wearing the same shoes as her which makes her instantly deny and explain differences etc. They just can't resist

[reino341]

It doesn't matter if she has a boyfriend. Your game should screen sooner or later if things are going to work out between you despite a possible boyfriend.

The latest girl mentioned a bf during the first few mins and said she can't go on a date with me. I asked her for a coffee instadate, built a crazy amount of attraction and connected emotionally during the two hours, and few days later she broke up with the boyfriend. Said she feels that for the first time in years there's a real man in her life.

[MisterSSW4]

(10-25-2013 08:58 AM)reino341 Wrote:  

It doesn't matter if she has a boyfriend. Your game should screen sooner or later if things are going to work out between you despite a possible boyfriend.

The latest girl mentioned a bf during the first few mins and said she can't go on a date with me. I asked her for a coffee instadate, built a crazy amount of attraction and connected emotionally during the two hours, and few days later she broke up with the boyfriend. Said she feels that for the first time in years there's a real man in her life.

I agree. Truth is, if she has and your running slow game, you'll be able to tell through common sense anyway. Which is, just by asking her general questions and seeing if her responses are actually genuine and making sense.