And also stop pursuing it as well.
Any reason why?
Any reason why?
Whats the longest you INTENTIONALLY went without having sex?
I wasted years in my 20's not getting laid. I just got pissed off at women, and if you're not a rock star and you stop pursuing them, they don't pursue you so you're sunk.
I didn't grasp that they are practically all incapable of approaching-- looking back on it I was just being emotionally stingy. It's just the way they're set up.
I didn't grasp that they are practically all incapable of approaching-- looking back on it I was just being emotionally stingy. It's just the way they're set up.
I've done this. Due to being oversexed by the wrong kinds of women.
At various points in my life, I'll have 3 girls in rotation, and not that into any of them.
In these situations, the girls could sense it, and their strategy became something along the lines of draining all sex energy available from me at any cost. Pushing for meetups more than once per week, initiating sex an hour or 2 after banging, and worst of all, trying to get me to fuck them without a condom "just this one time".
It always takes me a few months, but realizing that I want no future with these girls, I quit them cold turkey. Oversexed to zero pussy is jarring, but it's the only way I know to build precious mojo back.
The more comfortable you get, the less you're growing as a person. Then you feel complacent, and the women's subconscious betaization agenda take over. This is ok if it's the right girl, and you're ready to get started on a family. But anything less, you're selling out.
I find that hitting the "reset button" is the only way to regain the motivation required to chase & win new pussy. Leaving your comfort zone is the best, but also hardest choice to make.
Sure, I miss the girls sometimes. Plus I believe that while you can replace roles, you can't replace people. Each girl was special to me in a different way. But when when I look at the women I've won since who were more beautiful, had more love to give, treated a man better, etc. compared to being a lazy lion, I know I made the right decision.
At various points in my life, I'll have 3 girls in rotation, and not that into any of them.
In these situations, the girls could sense it, and their strategy became something along the lines of draining all sex energy available from me at any cost. Pushing for meetups more than once per week, initiating sex an hour or 2 after banging, and worst of all, trying to get me to fuck them without a condom "just this one time".
It always takes me a few months, but realizing that I want no future with these girls, I quit them cold turkey. Oversexed to zero pussy is jarring, but it's the only way I know to build precious mojo back.
The more comfortable you get, the less you're growing as a person. Then you feel complacent, and the women's subconscious betaization agenda take over. This is ok if it's the right girl, and you're ready to get started on a family. But anything less, you're selling out.
I find that hitting the "reset button" is the only way to regain the motivation required to chase & win new pussy. Leaving your comfort zone is the best, but also hardest choice to make.
Sure, I miss the girls sometimes. Plus I believe that while you can replace roles, you can't replace people. Each girl was special to me in a different way. But when when I look at the women I've won since who were more beautiful, had more love to give, treated a man better, etc. compared to being a lazy lion, I know I made the right decision.
Quote: (09-01-2013 11:20 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:
I didn't grasp that they are practically all incapable of approaching-- looking back on it I was just being emotionally stingy. It's just the way they're set up.
Always gotta remember this. And often they show interest in ways more subtle that we expect. Sure, sometimes they're quite overt, but often they're much more subtle even if they find you VERY attractive.
Civilize the mind but make savage the body.
Is a 2 week break unrealistic?
Sex is the same as any drug. Self control is only conditioned through intentional, periodic abstinence. If your entire life revolves around finding sex, you are a slave to women, and that defeats the entire purpose of the manosphere's teachings, in my opinion.
I believe in quality over quantity. Being a man isn't about bagging anything with a vagina and a pulse, it's about having the self awareness, discipline, and intellectual capacity to selectively engage the top percentile of an increasingly low quality female population.
Much like hitting the gym, doing the same thing consistently will only push you towards an inevitable plateau. Take a break - regardless how long - being sure to properly reflect during that time. When you enter the gym (or game) again, you'll be more concentrated, focused, and have a greater appreciation for self improvement and hard work.
I believe in quality over quantity. Being a man isn't about bagging anything with a vagina and a pulse, it's about having the self awareness, discipline, and intellectual capacity to selectively engage the top percentile of an increasingly low quality female population.
Much like hitting the gym, doing the same thing consistently will only push you towards an inevitable plateau. Take a break - regardless how long - being sure to properly reflect during that time. When you enter the gym (or game) again, you'll be more concentrated, focused, and have a greater appreciation for self improvement and hard work.
Intentionally? A little over a week. A girl I had on rotation until recently loves... man sauce (???! couldn't think of an acceptable euphemism....). I wanted to impress and I did not fail to. It was not easy, though.
Quote: (09-01-2013 11:57 AM)Courage Reborn Wrote:
I've done this. Due to being oversexed by the wrong kinds of women.
At various points in my life, I'll have 3 girls in rotation, and not that into any of them.
There's a fuck buddy thread on here that I think is one of the best threads that's ever been laced onto this forum.
Whether dudes realize it or not, when you continuously share your body (and in the process a piece of yourself) with women who you don't even really care for, you're silently murdering your self-esteem.
Anything that I have to offer, I would much rather share it with someone who I feel deserves it and is returning something to me of value in kind.
A lot of these fuck buddies are chicks who don't provide any value to their buddies beyond their pussies, which aren't even really valuable.
Quote: (09-01-2013 10:59 AM)TrueSlyr Wrote:
And also stop pursuing it as well.
Any reason why?
10 months
Cash. To say that woman can be a distraction is an understatement.
You will find the extra pennies, time, and effort if you think you can slide into some New Tang, but rather than be another old dirty bastard, I'm focused on being Razor Sharp with my genius.
WIA
Intentionally? About thirty minutes
I've had times in my travels where I didn't even care to have sex because I knew I wouldn't find the locals attractive (Peru, Ecuador). Even the gringas in many instances were wack. I still enjoyed those places for what they had to offer culturally and had a blast in the process.
Intentionally went without having sex? Only until I could get it up again.
Intentionally went without pursuing? Oh, 20 years or so of a sexless marriage. Hence, see above.
Intentionally went without pursuing? Oh, 20 years or so of a sexless marriage. Hence, see above.
Quote: (09-03-2013 09:39 AM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:
I've had times in my travels where I didn't even care to have sex because I knew I wouldn't find the locals attractive (Peru, Ecuador). Even the gringas in many instances were wack. I still enjoyed those places for what they had to offer culturally and had a blast in the process.
With all the girls in Quito walking around wearing granny panties, it was really hard to find any sex appeal in the chicks. After a few weeks there, I went to Panama City, and was ready to attack chicks at the airport.
Quote: (09-02-2013 10:34 PM)jariel Wrote:
Quote: (09-01-2013 11:57 AM)Courage Reborn Wrote:
I've done this. Due to being oversexed by the wrong kinds of women.
At various points in my life, I'll have 3 girls in rotation, and not that into any of them.
There's a fuck buddy thread on here that I think is one of the best threads that's ever been laced onto this forum.
Whether dudes realize it or not, when you continuously share your body (and in the process a piece of yourself) with women who you don't even really care for, you're silently murdering your self-esteem.
Anything that I have to offer, I would much rather share it with someone who I feel deserves it and is returning something to me of value in kind.
A lot of these fuck buddies are chicks who don't provide any value to their buddies beyond their pussies, which aren't even really valuable.
This explain why for the life of me i don't feel a thing for a banging gay married trainer with a girlfriend that i met during one of my impromptu porch curb parties. She even try to entice me by stating that her wife and girlfriend know all about me.
"I have refused to wear a condom all of my life, for a simple reason – if I’m going to masturbate into a balloon why would I need a woman?"
About five minutes.
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