[Capitán Peligroso]

(11-02-2013 12:29 PM)hardman Wrote:  

(11-02-2013 11:18 AM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

(11-02-2013 10:51 AM)hardman Wrote:  

In general, I prefer dating women with 6-12 year age difference, and have had lots of success in that range over the years.

Hardman:

I like your description of your relationship with the young hottie.

I do have some concerns about the practicality of your 6-12 year age difference preference, especially if you are moving into your mid-to-late 40s.

Thanks! I enjoyed remembering her!

Regarding the practicality of dating in that age range when one crosses into 40s, I said it was my preference, not that it was getting easier! But it's not impossible for me to find much younger women and sleep with them. The 23 year old I mentioned saw me as a fantasy figure... I could provide everything she wanted in life. In the beginning of the relationship, she was far more concerned that I would find her too young and uninteresting than I was concerned about being too old for her.

I don't even pay attention to most women older than mid 30s, for various reasons. Most of them are simply too difficult to be around personality wise, come with too much baggage & drama, and with the rare exception, are not that interesting naked.

Good discussion here. Point taken and well made about AMERICAN women in their 30's generally not being worth the trouble. The dating market in the U.S. is generally pretty skewed against men for a number of reasons. One of the things I enjoyed about Brazil is that women of all ages seemed to enjoy and desire my company, that my age (early 40's) was an asset and anyone looking down on me for wanting to date women in their mid to late 20's was an exception and not the rule. Also this:

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In the beginning of the relationship, she was far more concerned that I would find her too young and uninteresting than I was concerned about being too old for her.

I suspect this dynamic would be the exception and not the rule as well, though I didn't have enough time there to confirm it. Bottom line is, for me, Brazil has much more of the kind of relationships that I want available to me. American women of any quality really aren't on the dating market long, the ones who are just aren't worth the hassle. I had my fun banging American bar sluts; it doesn't do that much for me anymore. I would much rather bang Brazilian bar sluts; they're much more fun to be around, in my experience.

[JayJuanGee]

(11-02-2013 11:49 PM)Capitán Peligroso Wrote:  

One of the things I enjoyed about Brazil is that women of all ages seemed to enjoy and desire my company, that my age (early 40's) was an asset and anyone looking down on me for wanting to date women in their mid to late 20's was an exception and not the rule.

CP: Yes, there seems to be a supply and demand problem in the USA, which causes girls to perceive guys as Determined Low Value.

Yo mentioned girls in their mid-to late 20s, and what about banging girls in their early 20s in Brazil? And how about guys in their 50s in Brazil, are they also able to bang girls in their 20s in Brazil?

Do you find, as a guy in his 40s that there are age-related obstacles in Brazil, if such a guy in his 40s or even 50s is going to have a rotating harem of about 3 girls in their 20s? Is that very feasible?

[Vaun]

I am 38 and seeing a 24 yr, she is just fun. Nothing serious, wont let it go there. Primarily have been dating under 30 since my divorce three years ago. Anything over 30 is pointless, they only want marriage and few single American woman over 30 really take care of themselves well, most I have met drink a lot and dont take care of their bodies, so they are out. Personally I like dating 10-15 years younger because its fun and laid back and you dont constantly feel like they have a hidden agenda, even though they always do. When the 28 yr olds and older start saying YOLO I say goodbye.

[hardman]

There are attractive single thirty-something American women out there -- including women I would rate physically as 8s and 9s. You will not normally find these women in bars or in social groups where heavy consumption of alcohol is necessary to fit in. Thirty something women still doing the bar scene multiple times a week might be easy lays, but they don't take care of their bodies generally, are often full of silicone, and are generally much lower quality than the twenty somethings you will find in the same bar/club. You have to look for quality thirty something American girls elsewhere, and exactly where probably depends on your locale. But they exist.

In September, I bedded an early 30s teacher, never married, fair skin and light brown hair, 5 ft 7, model figure, beautiful eyes, flat tummy, perfect 34Bs. Met her on OKC. Fucked her within 24 hours of meeting her in person. She told me later she had been seeing another guy her age for several weeks but didn't feel he was mature enough for her. She cheated on him with me because I was older.