Quote: (07-17-2010 07:06 AM)Richie Wrote:
I will never approach a random stranger in the street. It just feels desperate.
I do it everyday, it just feels like a natural, normal conversation to me. In fact, if I'm standing in line at the store next to a cute girl, or sitting on the train by a cute girl, or eating at a cafe by a table of cute girls, it almost feels rude and anti-social to NOT say Hi to her. Why do you think girls spend so much time on their make up, hair, and outfits??? They want attention. They want to be approached. If you don't say anything to her, she will just think you are another scared pussy, like most guys. Not talking to girls is a good way to NOT get laid.
Quote: (07-17-2010 07:06 AM)Richie Wrote:
The other day I was waiting in reception for a meeting surrounded by 40 models auditioning for a head and shoulders commercial. I would have loved to see you guys in that situation. I did actually strike up a conversation with one but how I would go from that to fancy a drink after I do not know.
I was in a similiar situation about 2 years ago. It was an audition for some fitness product. I walked in and there were 15-20 hot models in short shorts and tank tops. I was like.."oh shit!". I took a second to gather myself and I knew exactly what
I had to do. In a humble/modest way, just walk right in like I owned the fucking place. Body Language and eye langauge was key. Within a few seconds I made eye contact and said hello to a cute puerto rican girl who was in front of me. We chatted about the job details etc. I was not talking loud but I wanted to be just loud enough so that I would let everyone else in line know that I was not afraid to talk and express myself. (Most of the guys were very quiet). I tried to include other people in the conversation to increase my influence on the room. The line moved quickly and soon I was in a private room by myself with boss, after 5 mins I came out and the girl I was talking to was changing in the hallway. I said something like....
Me: "Hey, good luck with your yoga stuff"
Her: "Thanks, you too"
Me: "Do you live in the city?"
Her: "Yes"
Me: "Theres a really cool outdoor class in the park on Sundays, ever go?"
Her: "I've never heard of it"
Me: "Is amazing, blah blah blah, I'm pretty sure you could handle it, wanna go sometime?"
Her: "I have a bf but thanks anyways"
Me: "Ha, too bad, well you guys should come sometime, you'll like it"
Her: "cool, blah blah"
This wasn't my best work but i felt ok about the whole thing because I didn't puss out and I gave myself a chance. I really should have stayed longer and approached other girls but I was young and dumb at the time. I didn't know about the Whole PUA thing back then. Bottom line: Hot girls can smell fear. Being around them teaches you how strong your inner Game is. Being around models is great practice for any man.