As I get deeper into my 30s, one thing I noticed is that travel combined with partying at night really wears me out nowadays. I keep in shape, eat healthy, but work long hours in front of the computer which gets me fairly fatigued by the time the weekend rolls around. This is doubly compounded by travel and being in a new place. For example, I pulled a 19 year old chick a few weeks back, brought her home, nailed her, and went to bed at around 6am as the sun was coming up and it literally wrecked me for the entire weekend.
I think I'm going to have to start incorporating siesta naps into my routine from now on because I just can't make it past 2am once the alcohol gets into me.
I'm one of those guys who gets sleepy when he drinks -- and while conventional PU wisdom says to lay off the alcohol completely -- having a head buzz keeps things fun.
When I'm stone cold sober AND in a rowdy, public nightlife environment, I am also getting increasingly tired of the nonsense around me and have less and less patience for it.
I was always more of a private party or low-key cocktail style mixer kind of guy VS the packed public clubs/bars -- but tried to mix things up to access a greater variety of women. However, my patience for public venues filled with average Joes liquored up and full of testosterone while loud music shakes the walls has just about run out.
Have your tastes, patience, or tolerance for certain things changed as you entered your 30s and 40s? What habits have you adopted to keep yourself feeling well and with the energy to enjoy the nightlife? I think this is important as I mostly do girls from 18-25 years of age for short-term flings, and half the battle is just having the endurance to keep up with them until 3-4am in the morning. I call this time, the "witching hour," as this is the time the girls almost "concede" the fact that they're going to go home with you and that there will be pounding sex. After all, we both need to sleep and my place is close and convenient.
I'd be curious to hear other's thoughts as we deal with that inevitable process of....aging.
I think I'm going to have to start incorporating siesta naps into my routine from now on because I just can't make it past 2am once the alcohol gets into me.
I'm one of those guys who gets sleepy when he drinks -- and while conventional PU wisdom says to lay off the alcohol completely -- having a head buzz keeps things fun.
When I'm stone cold sober AND in a rowdy, public nightlife environment, I am also getting increasingly tired of the nonsense around me and have less and less patience for it.
I was always more of a private party or low-key cocktail style mixer kind of guy VS the packed public clubs/bars -- but tried to mix things up to access a greater variety of women. However, my patience for public venues filled with average Joes liquored up and full of testosterone while loud music shakes the walls has just about run out.
Have your tastes, patience, or tolerance for certain things changed as you entered your 30s and 40s? What habits have you adopted to keep yourself feeling well and with the energy to enjoy the nightlife? I think this is important as I mostly do girls from 18-25 years of age for short-term flings, and half the battle is just having the endurance to keep up with them until 3-4am in the morning. I call this time, the "witching hour," as this is the time the girls almost "concede" the fact that they're going to go home with you and that there will be pounding sex. After all, we both need to sleep and my place is close and convenient.
I'd be curious to hear other's thoughts as we deal with that inevitable process of....aging.