0 reasons why San Francisco sucks
01-22-2015, 02:57 PM
Quote: (01-21-2015 01:50 PM)blacknwhitespade Wrote:
It is a shame San Francisco seems to be a relatively bad city for meeting women compared to other major U.S. cities. I've always enjoyed visiting there and think it would be a freakishly cool place to live. I do see a lot of hot asians when I'm out there, particularly around Westfield/Union Square/Market. Some attractive whites/hispanics around the bay as well.
I'm curious to know how bay area people functional socially as a whole. Do the girls in SF look down their noses at you if you live in the suburbs or one of the adjacent cities (Oakland, San Jose)? How well socially connected are SF, Oakland and SJ, as well as the smaller communities like Redwood, Freemont, etc.? Is there a big single nightlife/social scene outside of the city center? It is a problem here in Chicago where many of the girls who live in the "young professional" parts of the city have a terrible attitude and will not even wanna meet you for a date if you live in the suburbs or less trendy parts of Chi proper. Wondering if the bay has a similar sort of social segregation to it?
I would say that the women would love to crash at your centrally located apartment in SF if you have one. If you don't have one, you should have a car. Public transportation here is good but it won't get you to San Jose or the depths of the East Bay very efficiently (the East Bay is the mami factory...lots of hot Latinas and the only place you'll find hot black women). Oakland is becoming so "cool" now that it might even be a plus if you live there as long as you have a car.
The bay has pros and cons.
pro: the bay area is probably the least segregated area in the US socially and ethnically.
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Oakland, SF, San Jose are all within an hr of each other, Sacramento is a few hrs away. Generally women of any kind will date men of any kind, in my experience.
Con: Anti-Creeper/feminist/hippy hooey wooey shit
Generally women in the bay area are very open minded but prefer to be approached during the day instead of at night when you're hammered (exception= generally black, Latina, Filipina, middle eastern women more likely to handle your inebriated aggression). There is a big professional population here, which is composed of mostly lonely 27-35 year old women. These women are lonely but will call you "a creeper" if you approach at night. This can be overcome but it is a weird thing about the Bay. Its part of that hippy culture that teaches them that they have the "right" not to be approached. I get that, but paradoxically they are all very lonely, in my experience.
pro: Tourism
Apart from girls who live here, you can get steady one night stands with tourists. The place is lousy with tourists from the East Coast, Europe, and Australia.
pro: skinny dipping
One good thing about all the euros and young professionals is that you can pretty much skinny dip all the time without getting any STDs or children.
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pro: the interesting women (some of them)
Much more likely to find a pretty bright, laid back, and interesting woman here compared to other US cities. So they probably won't get on your nerves as much as, say, a Midwesterner. I've had so many good book, film, and music recommendations from the girls here. The most interesting women hang out in Oakland, Mission, etc and tend not to be found so much in the Marina. These same women may have that feminist shield when you first meet them, but they are sexually open to butt play, whipped cream, toys, etc. Because she is a "sex positive" type of feminist.
Pro: hippy = not fat
The women here are not fat. They know good restaurants because the Bay area is full of them. But the women here are slimmer than the vast majority of Americans.
pro: SF is a small, but dense city
killer logistics if something is escalating quickly in the city itself. Less so if you live in Oakland or SJ.
pro: she has a gay friend
Believe me, this is a huge plus. Her gay friend is still a man. So he thinks like one. He'll encourage her to go home with you and do nasty shit. Trust me. You should not be homophobic. Talk to the gay friend too. Here in SF the gay dude has no interest in wasting his time on your straight ass. He is probably fresh off an unspeakably gay act or on his way to one. I've never been hit on by a gay man here. I don't think its worth their time.
con: tech stuff
women are so sick of not being approached on the street because many guys here are very shy tech types. So the women take to OKCupid, Tinder, etc. I say skip these things and talk to women on the street. They love that here because it never happens. As stated above, paradoxically they are a bit less receptive to night game compared to other cities, even though they are lonely.
con: the cookie cutter young professional
this is the girl who is a caricature of herself. She does yoga, crossfit, goes to trendy cupcake shops, has pictures of herself at Macchu Picchu, loves California wine because everyone else does, etc. This girl is not unique/interesting but would probably give you some ass after one to three dates. Skinny dipping will be allowed and she'll show you her latest STD test on her iphone app that connects to her medical records. These girls tend to hang out in the Marina and North Beach. These women will have one or two friends who are actually interesting (see above), who you will wish you had boned instead.
con: expensive as fuck to live in the Bay area and getting worse
All in all its a beautiful place to live. Beautiful architecture and natural beauty, so your life will be good whether you're pursuing a lot of women or have a girlfriend or just focusing on work.
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