[Sailor]

(03-11-2013 07:31 PM)freshcream Wrote:  

http://talkaboutmarriage.com/sex-marriag...again.html

After reading a bit of this... dear lord. Marriage is never happening to a western woman.

This forum is so funny,best moments so far:

I've asked female friends and they tell me to do things that I already do (i.e. help with the cooking, cleaning, give compliments, regular date nights, etc.) I'm out of ideas and I can't sleep tonight because I've been hinting for 7 months with no luck and I really deserved one today. I cleaned the whole apartment, cooked a delicious dinner with no help, washed the dishes, listened to her complain about her job, agreed with her that her boss is stupid, and gave her a massage.


From another post :

And it's all because some douche-bag forced it on her when she was a teenager and didn't let her up until he finished in her mouth. So for her every time she went down on me she was reminded of him. Doesn't matter that I have never forced her to do anything sexual. Never held it over her head. Just accepted that it was the way she is.

Did i read it right? The guy is being cockblocked by her sweet memories of her past ride?

[bacon]

besides the blowjob thread check out the sexless marriage one

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Male, late 20s, married 3 years, sexless the whole time, usually a month or two in between and usually shortly after me throwing a fit and complaining a bunch or it happens when she wants something big, like a new car, to buy out first house and other similar events where she knows to win me over she has to do it

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I'm currently is a sexless marriage as well. It has been 8 days shy of 1 year. We've been in counseling for 9 months and trying to work on her issues with it. She is having problem getting over what she refers to as "duty sex" for the previous year. I wasn't as attentive to her as I should have been and have changed over the last 9 months, but she is still having problems trusting things have changed. I've been patient with her lately (not so at first), but every time it is brought up she goes back into stating that I just want her for her body and not her. It is an ugly circle to try and get out of.

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The sad fact is that my wife and I have done less in our total relationship of 18 years than she did with two previous lovers in only 3 years.

That hurts to the core but she has never cared to change that.

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Over the 6 week mark yet again & it really doesn't bother me. I miss how we were several years a go but not in the past 5. Its actually nice going to bed & not worrying about getting any feeble attempts that lead to unfulfilling sex. Sex without passion is useless so no wonder I don't miss it. Sure didn't think I would be done at 48, but life goes on.

There are several threads on this subject. jesus

[sportbilly]

Quite interesting that those on the forum who do seek marriage or LTR's, generally talk about meeting some hot, young, in most cases much younger, model type hottie.

Ok, let us say Mr Baldy, 60+ fat greasy tosser pulls his 18 year old, tight arsed, 6ft tall, Romanian beach volleyball player.......once you have squirted your custard over a dozen times, the pleasure depreciates.

Are women not like new cars. You order your car.....and the pleasure the first time you drive it is immense. It is so exciting that you park up at work and look forward to the next ride in it at the end of the day....but how long does that feeling last, a week / two weeks?

Surely all LTR's / marriages are the same.....however hot your Mrs is...once you have unloaded your double pump action yoghurt rifle a few times, your looking for "something different", not necessarily hotter / younger...............?

[MrLemon]

If you want a wife, the first thing you need to do is get your game focused on wife-finding instead of notch-finding. It's a completely different mental process.

Until then, going to a foreign country seems irrelevant. Practice at home first, where it's cheaper and less confusing to make the swap.

Just don't actually go through with any of it, unless you do get truly lucky and find one of those rare American women who is worth the effort.

[placer]

I'm an American married to a beautiful foreign-born latina who, yes, knows red pill thinking. No, it was not a mail-order bride; I lived and was dating normally in Latin America when I met her, and she did not even really want to get a green card and move to the US.

There is none of the typical American feminist BS in our marriage:

• This is not a sexless marriage. My wife really enjoys sex and it's very rare that we go over a week without having sex.
• Her English is perfect. I am fluent in her native language.
• She does not handle her weight going up by telling me I have to learn "fat acceptance". She handles her weight going up by exercising more, eating fewer carbs, and more fiber until the weight is down again.
• I am allowed to look at porn and even have other female friends. I have even bought Playboy magazines when in stores with her.
• She doesn't get upset if I look at other women. Just because I'm on a diet doesn't mean I can't look at the menu.