00 Approaches - San Francisco
09-11-2013, 01:55 PM
Quote: (09-06-2013 08:04 PM)Checkmat Wrote:
What kinds of shit tests have you been seeing? Nice work with 3 in one week, that is g as fuck
What kind of shit tests am I seeing...I had to think about that, because they are subtle.
One thing that I think is the common theme is women are testing me for neediness. I wouldn't say it's necessarily unconscious, but it probably is.
I have been ignoring for the most part, and I think I'm calibrated enough to almost ignore them without noticing.
Some examples are things like:
Not laughing at something I said, which is obviously funny (ignore, and keep talking)
One girl said should we split this round, which was the third round, after we had shared the bill for round 1+2. I said no I'll get this round don't worry, you can get the next one. I think she said something like 'maybe there won't be a next one.' I didn't even respond or acknowledge what she said, just seamlessly kept talking about what I was talking about previously. The fourth round was at my house (thanks Tuthmosis!) and we were in bed less than 10 minutes later.
Being tense, uptight, or disagreeable at the beginning of dates (this could just be nervousness) Ignore and have fun.
I'm still trying to figure out what to do when the girl is continuing to not give compliance. I used to think this is an attraction issue, but in many cases I think it might be a comfort issue. Like if you suggest going another place and she doesn't want to or has excuses.