Quote: (09-03-2010 03:31 AM)speakeasy Wrote:
I sort of had that deer in the headlights reaction.
The same thing has been happening to me alot lately as I have attempted to make the transition from club gaming to day gaming. It sucks balls I know. You start getting anxious and trying to plan out a good approach/opener though it's a situation that requires split-second action in spite of the internal hesistation. Despite knowing this is what it took, I kicked myself in the ass for not following through. You just gotta do it and the words will come.
I got up Labor day morning and said I'm going to the mall and I'm going to approach - no more depending on nightclubs as my sole source of getting at the honies (need to save some dough for the dates, haha). Funny thing was, I didnt approach at the mall at all, got into a negative mood when my cousin bailed on me (doh!). However, I approached twice at the train station; once to and once fro. It was on the trip back, that I number-closed a nice tall mexican morena. I fully expect this to be a flake in the coming few days, despite the seemingly positive convo-flow we had going on, but that's fine. The momentum from that approach carried over and allowed me to convince the colombian/paki chick i met at the club a few nights before to go out with me later on that very day even though she swore to me that she was be too busy studying, etc, b.s. .-lota kissy-kissy action ensued later on, heheh.
What I mean to point out from all this is that the first approach is undoubtedly difficult since I am novice at daygame, but if you put yourself in the mindset that it has to be done then you'll go after the gal no matter. It's actually kind of an adrenaline rush. Daytime cold-approaching, as I have come to see in the last couple days, as addicting really, and you can use the momentum of that adrenaline to carry over into the next approach. It just gets more exciting from there and the possiblities (the sexual ones) that can arise from these random approaches are enough motivation.