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Love and The Red Pill
07-09-2013, 11:09 AM
Part of swallowing the Red Pill is accepting a girl will never truly love you.
It is the only logical response to a situation where a girl will always pine for the most alpha bad boy of her past - more than the guy she eventually settles down with.
So - if you ever settle down with a girl it is worth remembering she will never really love you.
It is sad that for guys it is different.
A guy could bang many '9's'; and still be happy with settling down with an '8'.
But for a chick. She is only capable of being in love once - and that is with the most 'alpha' guy she has ever being with.
And that person - statistically - is unlikely to be you.
Sorry.
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Love and The Red Pill
07-09-2013, 11:48 AM
Why not just be that alpha bad boy she pines for..?
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Love and The Red Pill
07-09-2013, 11:55 AM
Why not just come to agreement with other men to control women from alpha bad boy contact until you settle down, aka marriage.
Oh wait, that's what we used to do until we ditched a perfectly good system.
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Love and The Red Pill
07-09-2013, 11:57 AM
For a start - even having a long term relationship with a girl is something that most 'alpha bad boys' would never do.
So - it is logically impossible to be an 'alpha bad boy' and in a long term relationship with a girl.
Which means the girl you settle down with - will never love you as much as she loves some guy from her past.
Don't forget as well - that guys (apparently) fall in love 3 times in there life. Whereas girls only fall in love once.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/8...-date.html
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"The research also revealed the average British man falls in love just over three times compared to the average women, who only falls in love once."
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Love and The Red Pill
07-09-2013, 01:05 PM
Good luck mate, I hope you aren't in the U.S.A
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Love and The Red Pill
07-09-2013, 02:32 PM
Believe it or not, many girls are fantasizing about a man in a buttoned-down shirt who is a great husband and father. Too many guys hear “good man” or “nice guy” and just assume he must be a totally shy nerd who is afraid to speak up for himself or protect his family.
Looks and game matter the most with the majority of Western girls, and the extent of their preference for “bad boys” is only having the appearance of being a badass with a confident and fun personality. I believe being socially dominant in a natural and not try-hard manner is helpful, but also overrated as a quality for attracting desirable women.
Truly thuggish and buff guys aren’t usually with hot girls unless the girl looks like a stripper or hoodrat – basically the high notch-count Western bimbo we’ve all come to hate for their worthlessness and inability to love… and even in these cases, she’d probably cheat on her bad boy with a good-looking guy. I’m a good-looking small guy, and I’ve either banged or had the potential to bang several sluts who had huge intimidating boyfriends, but never got anywhere with a taken nice-girl, and I’m glad I didn’t because I know there are great girls out there. The stereotypical beta who gets cheated on and treated like crap is not usually with the truly nice girl, but instead with a more risky Western type or even a slut.
I guess if you’re absolutely red-pill, stripper-looking bimbos are the kinds you go for anyway, so best of luck to you.
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Love and The Red Pill
07-09-2013, 02:59 PM
Most of the scuzzy women I know that fit the profile of the types of girls we hate on here tend to all be lower income or involved in pointless endeavors driven mostly by their looks.
I seriously wouldn't involve myself romantically with a girl like that. LTRs are much easier with girls who have either careers or are very demure. Careerists in the sense they have a corporate job, but are below my paygrade. They're easy to boss and game around because they know their place in the hierarchy.
I had a friend in college who fits our classic Jezebel carousal riding chick. She's no longer my friend but fit the stereotypes that we all hate here.
Ironically, those girls I can count on my hand. They seem like the same types of chicks that would have hung out at the Saloons.
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Love and The Red Pill
07-09-2013, 05:21 PM
Do women grow out of this phase?
Or do they just settle down with the best that is available as the wall approaches - and the desire to start a family kicks in?
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Love and The Red Pill
07-09-2013, 05:31 PM
Even as women get older, they are still hooked on drama - even if they are no longer getting it from the man in their life.
Which is why they become addicted to soaps, celeb gossip and reality TV.
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Love and The Red Pill
07-09-2013, 05:38 PM
The fact that you believe in the ridiculous concept of "love" and "marriage for love" means you have far to go in your learning.
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Love and The Red Pill
07-09-2013, 05:48 PM
I don't believe in either.
But since most people do - I just wanted to point out that those beliefs are probably incongruent with the reality of how women think.
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Love and The Red Pill
07-09-2013, 06:11 PM
Quote: (07-09-2013 05:48 PM)cardguy Wrote:
I don't believe in either.
But since most people do - I just wanted to point out that those beliefs are probably incongruent with the reality of how women think.
Right, but as soon as you realize love is just a silly idea, then you are truly free to settle down because you realize a long term, perhaps monogamous, relationship is just a business transaction. It's a partnership with both parties giving up something for the strengths and advantages of that partnership. Granted your wife may occasionally pine for some dude she fucked back in college, but chances are you will occasionally pine for that club slut who could suck chrome off a trailer hitch. That's just life.
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Love and The Red Pill
07-09-2013, 06:14 PM
Fair dues. Can't argue with that - for those who want to settle down.
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Love and The Red Pill
07-09-2013, 08:45 PM
Quote: (07-09-2013 11:09 AM)cardguy Wrote:
Part of swallowing the Red Pill is accepting a girl will never truly love you
False.
Time to get off the keyboard horse cardguy.
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Love and The Red Pill
07-09-2013, 09:02 PM
Not sure if this is a troll thread or not.
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Love and The Red Pill
07-10-2013, 12:48 AM
Quote: (07-09-2013 08:45 PM)Gmac Wrote:
Quote: (07-09-2013 11:09 AM)cardguy Wrote:
Part of swallowing the Red Pill is accepting a girl will never truly love you
False.
Time to get off the keyboard horse cardguy.
Not trolling but could you elaborate? I'm asking this because my observation of couples that are married seems to sync with what cardguy is getting at. Thanks.
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Love and The Red Pill
07-10-2013, 01:04 AM
Quote: (07-09-2013 11:48 AM)Architekt Wrote:
Why not just be that alpha bad boy she pines for..?
There's always a bigger fish.
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Most women will have never been with such a guy long enough to fall in love because there aren't even that many of them.
It only takes 3 minutes.