I was standing in line at a department store when the woman in front of me offered to let me go ahead of her. I had noticed her as she got into the line ahead of me - there was something about her... She looked like a school teacher with glasses. A long flowing black skirt to the floor with a simple tank top. No makeup, hair pulled back, designer glasses. We started talking and as I looked at her I realized she was attracted to me because she was acting a little nervous and excited. Given that I had never had an instadate from this store before I decided to push it and told her I was going to grab a bite to eat why don't she join me. She agreed and we drove around looking for a place and ended up at this restaurant nearby. Now you have to remember, all of this happened in about 15 mins. After we parked she invited me into her car. As I sat there looking at her she pulled out a box and filled up a bung and began to smoke. I sat there just looking at her and she eventually passed it to me. We then went into restaurant and she asked for a table in the back. She asked me only one question: so what's up with you, where are you from? In the course of the conversation she revealed she was professional dominatrix and showed me her website. We ended up talking about her business and she told me quite a bit about it. We ate a bit but she really wasn't hungry so we went back to her car. We sat in her car and chatted for awhile. I tried to get her to go a hotel nearby but she said: "Are you crazy? I don't know who you are, you could be some crazy guy!" I said, what are you worried about you are the one that ties guys up and whip them. I couldn't get her to go to the hotel because she wasn't high and hadn't drank anything and I didn't have enough time to build rapport and comfort even though she was obviously attracted to me. She asked me for my number, then called my phone to give me hers, then told me to call her. (Throughout the whole encounter I was as comfortable as if I was out with a good friend. Nothing that happened felt weird or awkward.)
But the pickup is not the point of this post - just thought you may find the story interesting. I meet women like this, in one form or another, all the time. For years, I tried to meet and have relationships with average/normal women but it never worked - wasted a lot of time or energy trying... For that matter, it's the only kind of women I ever really connect with. It has taken me years to understand why I attract these types of women. I attract them because they feel comfortable around me and they feel comfortable around me because I accept them for who they are. I accept the weirdos and crazies of the world because on some deep level I am one of them - I am just better at hiding it. Ultimately, the women you attract are a reflection of who you are. Your personality is a filter that is on all the time. The people that feel comfortable with you are the people that can pass through that filter. This woman felt comfortable with me from the beginning because she sensed I would accept what she did and who she was. I attract women who are different because I have the kind of latitude in my personality to just accept them as they are and I don't try to change them. They don't bother me and I actually find the difference attractive.
I would love to have a relationships with nice, normal women but it will never happen. At my age, I have finally given up on this fantasy and just accept that this is how it will be. For normal women, I will always be just a curiosity but one that also scares and excites them. For them I am like visiting a tiger in the zoo - you don't want to get too close. The interesting thing is that a lot of men I know find these exotic women irresistible - they go crazy about them. When it comes to serious attraction and chemistry with women, who you are deep down inside will determine the kind of women you attract and there is very little you or Game can do about it.
But the pickup is not the point of this post - just thought you may find the story interesting. I meet women like this, in one form or another, all the time. For years, I tried to meet and have relationships with average/normal women but it never worked - wasted a lot of time or energy trying... For that matter, it's the only kind of women I ever really connect with. It has taken me years to understand why I attract these types of women. I attract them because they feel comfortable around me and they feel comfortable around me because I accept them for who they are. I accept the weirdos and crazies of the world because on some deep level I am one of them - I am just better at hiding it. Ultimately, the women you attract are a reflection of who you are. Your personality is a filter that is on all the time. The people that feel comfortable with you are the people that can pass through that filter. This woman felt comfortable with me from the beginning because she sensed I would accept what she did and who she was. I attract women who are different because I have the kind of latitude in my personality to just accept them as they are and I don't try to change them. They don't bother me and I actually find the difference attractive.
I would love to have a relationships with nice, normal women but it will never happen. At my age, I have finally given up on this fantasy and just accept that this is how it will be. For normal women, I will always be just a curiosity but one that also scares and excites them. For them I am like visiting a tiger in the zoo - you don't want to get too close. The interesting thing is that a lot of men I know find these exotic women irresistible - they go crazy about them. When it comes to serious attraction and chemistry with women, who you are deep down inside will determine the kind of women you attract and there is very little you or Game can do about it.