I often get stuck with this, where she says she cannot meet on a certain day and does not propose alternative. I feel beta when asking her "well how about on tuesday" and if she cannot do it either "well how about wednesday"? .... see below the conversation i copied and pasted from facebook.
Background is that I got to know this girl on Thursday at a bar at the lake via friends. We all went on to another bar and she chose to walk with me and we had a good conversation about 15 minutes till we arrived. We all hang out there alot. she was talking to me but also to another guy. i asked her for her number/facebook as i liked her and she gave it to me. I then left the bar as i was hungry, it was late, i had to work next day and thought it would a) take a long time to get her into bed and b) she was around friends and i thought it was almost impossible that night and chances are better when meeting her alone.
Conversation started Thursday
11:35pm
ME
just finished eating! feel so much better haha
12:11am
HER
Hahaha am sooo hungry!!!! Not fair! Pity u had to leave soon but would love to meet up again some time
Friday
10:12am
ME
well if you and your "dirty and weird mind" were hungry, that you should have come with me
yes, lets meet. maybe sunday or monday evening?
11:46am
HER
hahaha you remember! Well you never invited me, remember? What did you guys have in mind for sunday/monday then?
1:13pm
ME
hahahah who said "us guys" ?
i was thinking about swimming in the evening sun in the nice & warm lake
1:54pm
HER
hahhahahah shit ok so this wasn't one of those "let's all hang-out-together" -type of invitations, was it? Sounds like a plan, I'll put it into consideration depending on the day. How was that for a diplomatic answer?
4:02pm
ME
diplomatic (so unsexy :-P) - but accaptable!!!
let's target sunday at 7pm at the lake. but let's text on sunday again ...
Today
SUNDAY 5:42pm
ME
Looks like I cannot make it today... How about tomorrow early evening?
Today
8:54pm
HER
Heyy we already went with friends and headin back home already so no worries. I cannot make it tomorrow unfortunately
How would you react? Just wait till she comes back?
Background is that I got to know this girl on Thursday at a bar at the lake via friends. We all went on to another bar and she chose to walk with me and we had a good conversation about 15 minutes till we arrived. We all hang out there alot. she was talking to me but also to another guy. i asked her for her number/facebook as i liked her and she gave it to me. I then left the bar as i was hungry, it was late, i had to work next day and thought it would a) take a long time to get her into bed and b) she was around friends and i thought it was almost impossible that night and chances are better when meeting her alone.
Conversation started Thursday
11:35pm
ME
just finished eating! feel so much better haha
12:11am
HER
Hahaha am sooo hungry!!!! Not fair! Pity u had to leave soon but would love to meet up again some time
Friday
10:12am
ME
well if you and your "dirty and weird mind" were hungry, that you should have come with me
yes, lets meet. maybe sunday or monday evening?
11:46am
HER
hahaha you remember! Well you never invited me, remember? What did you guys have in mind for sunday/monday then?
1:13pm
ME
hahahah who said "us guys" ?
i was thinking about swimming in the evening sun in the nice & warm lake
1:54pm
HER
hahhahahah shit ok so this wasn't one of those "let's all hang-out-together" -type of invitations, was it? Sounds like a plan, I'll put it into consideration depending on the day. How was that for a diplomatic answer?
4:02pm
ME
diplomatic (so unsexy :-P) - but accaptable!!!
let's target sunday at 7pm at the lake. but let's text on sunday again ...
Today
SUNDAY 5:42pm
ME
Looks like I cannot make it today... How about tomorrow early evening?
Today
8:54pm
HER
Heyy we already went with friends and headin back home already so no worries. I cannot make it tomorrow unfortunately
How would you react? Just wait till she comes back?