I was hanging out with a buddy Tuesday night, talking about girls and due to a recent failure the conversation shifted to girls I "should've" banged. When I say this, I don't mean girls that I should've pursued harder (or at all), I mean girls that I had in bed, half naked or more, and somehow dropped the ball.
As I started to think back further, I became more and more frustrated with myself for all the girls I let slip away, probably because in each instance I didn't push hard enough to get sex. Then once the moment had passed, future chances were diminished due to potential awkwardness or the loss of that "spur of the moment fun" feeling. Hell, even my first girlfriend I should've banged on the first night we hung out, and then after that it took me over a month to get more than a freakin' handjob!
So, step one, of course, is recognizing the issue. Step two is fixing it. Should I be pushing harder? I feel any girl that is willing to take some or all of her clothes off in any bed with you, is probably DTF. Is there some trick I'm missing? Is there something in Bang I should read that really covers this? Help! I want future regrets to be rooted in banging every girl, not in letting so many slip through my fingers.
My only other theory is I had a lot of one nightstands in college, and rule of numbers suggests that I'd have girls flake out too? But that sounds like a lame reason, and I think I can fix this problem and be happier with myself.
As I started to think back further, I became more and more frustrated with myself for all the girls I let slip away, probably because in each instance I didn't push hard enough to get sex. Then once the moment had passed, future chances were diminished due to potential awkwardness or the loss of that "spur of the moment fun" feeling. Hell, even my first girlfriend I should've banged on the first night we hung out, and then after that it took me over a month to get more than a freakin' handjob!
So, step one, of course, is recognizing the issue. Step two is fixing it. Should I be pushing harder? I feel any girl that is willing to take some or all of her clothes off in any bed with you, is probably DTF. Is there some trick I'm missing? Is there something in Bang I should read that really covers this? Help! I want future regrets to be rooted in banging every girl, not in letting so many slip through my fingers.
My only other theory is I had a lot of one nightstands in college, and rule of numbers suggests that I'd have girls flake out too? But that sounds like a lame reason, and I think I can fix this problem and be happier with myself.